Thank you!Aww, you haven't failed. Procreating was a purpose long ago when the earth needed to be populated. Now we have enough people but still room if someone chooses to procreate.
Thank you!Aww, you haven't failed. Procreating was a purpose long ago when the earth needed to be populated. Now we have enough people but still room if someone chooses to procreate.
I was told all the time by my dad when I was kid that the best thing I could do is not be an inconvenience to anybody. (I didn't want to believe it back then, thought that surely I was meant for more important things than that, but I believe it now.)For me, personally....I hope to lead a responsible life, and Not be a burden to others.
I have had a 'reading' which told me that I have incarnated at times of plagues in other lives. However, I don't seem to have been in the medical profession but I have been a herbalist.TY Rosemarie! So happy to hear you like this topic too.
I say ignore any who ridicule..it's their problem if they need to be nasty. Of course, my tendency would be to answer but of course in a respectful manner as I can
Sounds like you have read some material as I have..do you have any books you would recommend
Im sorry you are going through such intense suffering but I don't believe it's a "penance" or a punishment. I believe good people suffer for many many reasons that are hard for us to understand. Sometimes maybe it's to teach us patience or what suffering is like so we can show compassion toward others, or to grow in faith and hope or grow in other ways, or write or share about it to help others, or to test how you deal with it and who you will trust and lean on, and who will come to you and care for you and spend time to help you.I have wondered this question all my life! I didn't have children so no grandchildren either. I've had 3 ischemic strokes and have right side deficits, balance issues, handwriting/typing, right eye vision blurry. Is this my penance? I lost my husband last year due to dementia so I'm all alone. I still wonder this question!
"Sometimes it's your turn, sometimes it's mine. It's like playing house..........sometimes you be the mommy sometimes I'll be the mommy.........."Im sorry you are going through such intense suffering but I don't believe it's a "penance" or a punishment. I believe good people suffer for many many reasons that are hard for us to understand. Sometimes maybe it's to teach us patience or what suffering is like so we can show compassion toward others, or to grow in faith and hope or grow in other ways, or write or share about it to help others, or to test how you deal with it and who you will trust and lean on, and who will come to you and care for you and spend time to help you.
My thought exactly!!!!!Basically, to procreate.
Sorry for your loss and troubles, shedevil. I hope things get better for you.I have wondered this question all my life! I didn't have children so no grandchildren either. I've had 3 ischemic strokes and have right side deficits, balance issues, handwriting/typing, right eye vision blurry. Is this my penance? I lost my husband last year due to dementia so I'm all alone. I still wonder this question!
"Procreate" is also not quite as unromantic as "bonking (I don't ever, ever, ever remember saying to my other half, "Shall we go upstairs and procreate."
I'm feeling miserable now, I feel as though I missed out, this procreating sounds like much more fun than bonking.![]()
Just thank God that you don't live in Missouri.I have wondered this question all my life! I didn't have children so no grandchildren either. I've had 3 ischemic strokes and have right side deficits, balance issues, handwriting/typing, right eye vision blurry. Is this my penance? I lost my husband last year due to dementia so I'm all alone. I still wonder this question!
My goodness, we don't want you to be all alone, at least count us as friends, and if there's anything any of us can do for you, please don't be afraid to ask...I have wondered this question all my life! I didn't have children so no grandchildren either. I've had 3 ischemic strokes and have right side deficits, balance issues, handwriting/typing, right eye vision blurry. Is this my penance? I lost my husband last year due to dementia so I'm all alone. I still wonder this question!
My purpose is not yet defined, I make it up as I go.
I feel the same - yes to both. As we go about the business of surviving, we are likely to stumble across various ways we can be of purpose.I don't believe there is an overarching purpose to people's lives from anywhere beyond us. Some parents have children for specific purposes, but that's a different sort of purpose and a rather selfish attitude from the parents.
The only purpose in my life is what I choose for it. ...
shedevil..Thanks...This is an example of why I think reincarnation is just and possible. It seems unfair that you have these challenges and others do not. I do not agree with the popular quote that life is unfair. I believe eventually ALL is fair..(and no not just in love and war..I have wondered this question all my life! I didn't have children so no grandchildren either. I've had 3 ischemic strokes and have right side deficits, balance issues, handwriting/typing, right eye vision blurry. Is this my penance? I lost my husband last year due to dementia so I'm all alone. I still wonder this question!
I am not sure why you said you can't talk about it..is it a restricted subject or just too personal for you? I once had a reading and nothing 'rang true' for me.....but I believe it is possible for others to have revelations...I have had a 'reading' which told me that I have incarnated at times of plagues in other lives. However, I don't seem to have been in the medical profession but I have been a herbalist.
Not sure if I can be open about this, but I do have a memory of living through a plague in France....I nursed all four of my children and watched them die...then I succumbed myself.
There are a lot of narrow-minded people around. They don't have 'past life recall', so they don't think anyone else should! However, I have 'known' facts which have later been confirmed by archaeologists, so I know there is something going on.I am not sure why you said you can't talk about it..is it a restricted subject or just too personal for you? I once had a reading and nothing 'rang true' for me.....but I believe it is possible for others to have revelations...