Young mom shot with her own gun by her toddler won't see the new year!

I felt bad for her also. I read about texting and driving and someone gets killed, or eating, putting on make-up, shaving, reading and all have accidents with people ending up dead. I had a friend in high school that double-dated with another couple and the driver tried to outrun a train. Three dead and he survived, but he walked funny the rest of his life. (He was not the driver.) I know; these are accidents, but they all made choices. Like George Jones sings in his song, "Choices," "We all live or die by the choices we make."

That would certainly be poetic justice... PROVIDED the choices only affected the individual making them. Unfortunately, with gun accidents and gun violence.. those choices most often involve innocent people... as your highschool friend.. I suppose you could argue that your friend made the "choice" of riding in a car with an irresponsible person... BUT what about those people just going about their business in a shopping mall? Or seeing a movie? Or simply going to kindergarten class? They made NO irresponsible choices, yet they paid the ultimate price.
 

I read somewhere that the number of gun deaths of young people would soon pass deaths from auto accidents.

No one blinks an eye at auto regulations on safety.

The deaths of innocent people is just acceptable collateral damage to the pro gun people.
 
I read somewhere that the number of gun deaths of young people would soon pass deaths from auto accidents.

No one blinks an eye at auto regulations on safety.

The deaths of innocent people is just acceptable collateral damage to the pro gun people.

I believe guns should be regulated just like cars. There are certain cars that are not "street rated"... meaning they are too powerful and unsafe to be driven on an ordinary street by the average driver. Cars are registered with the State.. It is possible to find out WHO ones WHAT car and how MANY cars. Cars are insured for liablility. IF you injure or kill someone with your car.. you pay.. or your insurance pays. If a car is faulty or malfunctions... even the car manufacturer is culpable in a court of law. You need a license to drive a car and have to PROVE to the State that you are able to drive..

As you say.. no one blinks an eye at the regulation of cars... ALL of these can and SHOULD be applied to guns.
 

This is a common fallacy of the anti-gun people. There is a good example in gun watch. I wish that getting a gun was as easy as a car. There are waiting periods background checks, magazine capacity limitations, far more than autos. Oh I just remembered you have me on ignore . Your uninformed post illustrates my point, thank you.
 
I read somewhere that the number of gun deaths of young people would soon pass deaths from auto accidents.

No one blinks an eye at auto regulations on safety.

The deaths of innocent people is just acceptable collateral damage to the pro gun people.
This post is so riduculous it doesn't deserve the respect of a comment.
 
That would certainly be poetic justice... PROVIDED the choices only affected the individual making them. Unfortunately, with gun accidents and gun violence.. those choices most often involve innocent people... as your highschool friend.. I suppose you could argue that your friend made the "choice" of riding in a car with an irresponsible person... BUT what about those people just going about their business in a shopping mall? Or seeing a movie? Or simply going to kindergarten class? They made NO irresponsible choices, yet they paid the ultimate price.

As I see it, we can come up with all kinds of "what if" stories. We have expressed our feelings on this issue and debated it back and forth, but most of us feel the way we do because our heart, or emotions guide us. Some folks are just more sympathetic towards these type of issues and look at it at as being just that; a very sad situation for all involved. It doesn't make any of us right or wrong and it doesn't make any of us less sympathetic. You can still be sympathetic, but blame the person carrying the gun and even think that person to be a fool.
 
That would certainly be poetic justice... PROVIDED the choices only affected the individual making them. Unfortunately, with gun accidents and gun violence.. those choices most often involve innocent people... as your highschool friend.. I suppose you could argue that your friend made the "choice" of riding in a car with an irresponsible person... BUT what about those people just going about their business in a shopping mall? Or seeing a movie? Or simply going to kindergarten class? They made NO irresponsible choices, yet they paid the ultimate price.

[FONT=Roboto !important]Please eliminate the idea of "most of us" from your vocabulary. Concern yourself with what is specifically good for you.[/FONT]
[FONT=Roboto !important]The nanny state is perpetuated by the idea of whats good for "most of us". Our country is founded on the idea of the individual and personal responsibility.[/FONT]
[FONT=Roboto !important]Generalizations like "most of us" are used when the facts are not there to back up the argument. Apparently on this site "most of us" does not apply. Where "most of us" does apply those of a like mind should do what is good for them individually. I do not live in a herd.

this was told to me by a game warden the other day (dept of natural resources)[/FONT]

[FONT=Roboto !important]I got a call from a lady the other day wanting to harass a hunter in a legal area to hunt because his car was parked near houses and he "might" be hunting near the houses. Her concern was based on her disgust with hunting because of her negative comment regards hunting season in general. I was refusing to go out and bother the hunter because he was in an area that is known to be frequented by hunters and it is a lawful hunting season. Her comment was "but he might shoot near the houses". I informed her the cars on the road "might" speed should I pull everyone over now. She came back with "but this involves a gun" and she was none to happy to hear me explain that the Second Amendment allows for people to have guns for lawful purposes and hunting is a lawful activity. The hunter also has a Fourth Amendment and Im not going out to violate his rights to satisfy her concerns about "might".[/FONT]
[FONT=Roboto !important]I imagine she operates under the idea of "most of us" which really just boils down to "I believe". She is not really concerned with "most of us" but like every other busy body she just wants the world to operate to her standards.[/FONT]
 
As I see it, we can come up with all kinds of "what if" stories. We have expressed our feelings on this issue and debated it back and forth, but most of us feel the way we do because our heart, or emotions guide us. Some folks are just more sympathetic towards these type of issues and look at it at as being just that; a very sad situation for all involved. It doesn't make any of us right or wrong and it doesn't make any of us less sympathetic. You can still be sympathetic, but blame the person carrying the gun and even think that person to be a fool.
Good post oldman, and one I agree with.
 
As I see it, we can come up with all kinds of "what if" stories. We have expressed our feelings on this issue and debated it back and forth, but most of us feel the way we do because our heart, or emotions guide us. Some folks are just more sympathetic towards these type of issues and look at it at as being just that; a very sad situation for all involved. It doesn't make any of us right or wrong and it doesn't make any of us less sympathetic. You can still be sympathetic, but blame the person carrying the gun and even think that person to be a fool.

Not sure if you are insinuating that I am not sympathetic.... I am... but with regard to the children now motherless.. I admit to not having very much sympathy for the mother.. If you are old enough to have 4 children... you are not a child.. she was allowed to purchase a gun and have a conceal and carry... she obviously shouldn't have.
 
Originally Posted by Jackie22 I read somewhere that the number of gun deaths of young people would soon pass deaths from auto accidents.

No one blinks an eye at auto regulations on safety.

The deaths of innocent people is just acceptable collateral damage to the pro gun people.

This post is so riduculous it doesn't deserve the respect of a comment.

Figures released today show that the NSW road toll is now back to where it was in 1923 in absolute terms when there were many fewer cars on the road and a much smaller population.

The state's road toll fell from 333 to 309 in 2014, representing a decline of seven per cent.
That's the lowest fatality rate, based on deaths per 100,000 population, NSW has posted since records began in 1908.
It also represents the lowest annual total since 1923.
NSW Roads Minister Duncan Gay said that while it was encouraging to see the figures continuing to fall, there was still plenty to do to bring the number even lower.

"Thinking about the trauma experienced by people who have lost a loved one on our roads is a strong reminder we must all do our bit to stay safe," he said.
The figures also show fatalities in 2014 were almost 40 per cent lower from a decade ago when 510 people lost their lives.

The road toll was/is a matter of concern because of the trauma that people experience. There is also the trauma of the seriously injured who carry the results for the rest of their lives.

Experts told us what needed to be done and naturally enough there was public resistance to impositions such as compulsory seat belts, child restraints, motor cycle helmets, random breath tests, speed cameras etc but every year now more people get to live.

Why not apply the same thinking to the problem of unnecessary firearms deaths, starting with the deaths of children, and try to save lives?
To do this it will be necessary to get past the knee jerk reactions and start listening to experts.
 
Include swimming pools, curtains, drinking and smoking in general, home accidents and you could be on to something.
 
Why not?

Actually these problems continue to be worked on -

-compulsory pool safety fencing.
-mandating that curtain cords don't dangle and the curtain material is treated with fire retardant,
-alcohol licencing rules including banning of shots after certain times and lockouts a couple of hours before closing from city late night bars and hotels, identity checks for minors,
-banning of cigarette advertising and introduction of plain packaging

Home and workplace safety issues are continually being addressed and products and practices are constantly being reviewed and modified.

At least they are over here. How is it over there?
Do you have safety councils to address particular problems?
 
Yes they do. The court system has reversed the ban on gun carry in several major cities, Chicago in particular, which has resulted in a violent crime decrease. Many states, such as Ohio, are easing, and eliminating restrictive gun laws that date back into the Clinton era. The vast sweep in pro gun election seats being won in the last election at the local level will see pro gun ordinances at the local level, depending on the specifics, changed. Such as local ordinances violating the 2nd, example of which was one in Pennsylvania banning gun carry in public parks which was thrown out. The most significant is the recent Fereral Appeals court ruling that not allowing a cured mentally previously institutionalized violated his 2nd rights. Yes the Experts are acting..
 
This discussion remains interesting and I see I continue to fall in between camps thinking we should be allowed guns but they should be heavily regulated.

I believe guns should be regulated just like cars. There are certain cars that are not "street rated"... meaning they are too powerful and unsafe to be driven on an ordinary street by the average driver. Cars are registered with the State.. It is possible to find out WHO ones WHAT car and how MANY cars. Cars are insured for liablility. IF you injure or kill someone with your car.. you pay.. or your insurance pays. If a car is faulty or malfunctions... even the car manufacturer is culpable in a court of law. You need a license to drive a car and have to PROVE to the State that you are able to drive..

As you say.. no one blinks an eye at the regulation of cars... ALL of these can and SHOULD be applied to guns.

Agreed with this. They should be heavily regulated.

As I see it, we can come up with all kinds of "what if" stories. We have expressed our feelings on this issue and debated it back and forth, but most of us feel the way we do because our heart, or emotions guide us. Some folks are just more sympathetic towards these type of issues and look at it at as being just that; a very sad situation for all involved. It doesn't make any of us right or wrong and it doesn't make any of us less sympathetic. You can still be sympathetic, but blame the person carrying the gun and even think that person to be a fool.

Very well written comment and you just cut right to the heart of the matter. This is, indeed, one of those push button issues most of us react to emotionally and decide with our hearts and not our heads. We need to use our heads. Also, yes, the gun, unless it has a manufacturing defect as is sometimes but rarely the case, does not kill people, people kill people.

[FONT=Roboto !important]Please eliminate the idea of "most of us" from your vocabulary. Concern yourself with what is specifically good for you.[/FONT]
[FONT=Roboto !important]The nanny state is perpetuated by the idea of whats good for "most of us". Our country is founded on the idea of the individual and personal responsibility.[/FONT]
[FONT=Roboto !important]Generalizations like "most of us" are used when the facts are not there to back up the argument. Apparently on this site "most of us" does not apply. Where "most of us" does apply those of a like mind should do what is good for them individually. I do not live in a herd.

this was told to me by a game warden the other day (dept of natural resources)[/FONT]

[FONT=Roboto !important]I got a call from a lady the other day wanting to harass a hunter in a legal area to hunt because his car was parked near houses and he "might" be hunting near the houses. Her concern was based on her disgust with hunting because of her negative comment regards hunting season in general. I was refusing to go out and bother the hunter because he was in an area that is known to be frequented by hunters and it is a lawful hunting season. Her comment was "but he might shoot near the houses". I informed her the cars on the road "might" speed should I pull everyone over now. She came back with "but this involves a gun" and she was none to happy to hear me explain that the Second Amendment allows for people to have guns for lawful purposes and hunting is a lawful activity. The hunter also has a Fourth Amendment and Im not going out to violate his rights to satisfy her concerns about "might".[/FONT]
[FONT=Roboto !important]I imagine she operates under the idea of "most of us" which really just boils down to "I believe". She is not really concerned with "most of us" but like every other busy body she just wants the world to operate to her standards.[/FONT]

I can't help but agree with the assessment of the phrase "most of us". Also, we are not a pure Democracy. As we are a Democratic Republic rather than a pure Democracy, it doesn't even matter if it is most of us. The majority cannot vote away our rights.

Figures released today show that the NSW road toll is now back to where it was in 1923 in absolute terms when there were many fewer cars on the road and a much smaller population.



The road toll was/is a matter of concern because of the trauma that people experience. There is also the trauma of the seriously injured who carry the results for the rest of their lives.

Experts told us what needed to be done and naturally enough there was public resistance to impositions such as compulsory seat belts, child restraints, motor cycle helmets, random breath tests, speed cameras etc but every year now more people get to live.

Why not apply the same thinking to the problem of unnecessary firearms deaths, starting with the deaths of children, and try to save lives?
To do this it will be necessary to get past the knee jerk reactions and start listening to experts.

There's that reason for the decrease and also that cars themselves are safer and safer and working on eliminating human error all the time. We have cars that park themselves; cars that stop if something's (like a toddler) is behind them. Kitt is coming and the sooner the better quite frankly. Human error costs life. Of course, no matter how great the technology, in the end, humans are behind it.

Why not?

Actually these problems continue to be worked on -

-compulsory pool safety fencing.
-mandating that curtain cords don't dangle and the curtain material is treated with fire retardant,
-alcohol licencing rules including banning of shots after certain times and lockouts a couple of hours before closing from city late night bars and hotels, identity checks for minors,
-banning of cigarette advertising and introduction of plain packaging

Home and workplace safety issues are continually being addressed and products and practices are constantly being reviewed and modified.

At least they are over here. How is it over there?
Do you have safety councils to address particular problems?

We do. When I started work, coworkers would have their cigarettes in ashtrays on desks all around me. Now they have to go outside. I didn't really care until I was pregnant and sat behind two heavy smokers and the heating/air conditioning system was set up in such away that it blew their smoke back to me. One of which would have a cow if I had a candy bar because sugar was so bad for my baby but didn't at all mind blowing her cigarette smoke back to my unborn. We certainly do need to get away from the emotional knee-jerk reactions to guns on both sides and start making rational regulations about them. We're so not there yet. One side wants them totally banned and one side wants anything goes. We need a sane middle road.
 
I have always thought of guns as male playthings/status symbols/signs of virility and, alternatively, as a way for a woman to let her honeybunch know that anything he likes, she will like too. Used to know a person who always kept a gun in her nightstand (hubby's idea) and always went with her husband on hunting trips. She treated him like a royal personage for a number of years but, at some point, his tiara fell off when the wife decided she disliked many parts of his persona and hit the road with the kids. One negative she'd come to detest was any kind of gun in the house - she was the one having panic attacks whenever one of their kids (there were 6 of those) got too close to a family firearm. I've wondered for a long time how the U.K. made the change from gun-toting to no gun ownership. I can't recall if there was a large amount of civil strife over this change but maybe I was just not as aware of it as I should have been. I think of the U.K. as a very sensible and intelligent country - that's because my lovable, kind grandparents came to the U.S. from Bedfordshire in the 1920's so I'm very much an anglophile.
 
You are not aware of their rigged crime statistics. That's why my ancestors left euro. Royal control . Interesting use of dissociative third person.
 


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