My biggest concern is dealing with this too-big place we live in, no longer being able to drive (and living within walking distance of nothing), and how Huzz is in complete denial about all that; it worries me constantly. And I realize it makes me a member of a large club. More & more, talking to other women, there are some areas, here in the U.S. anyway, that the philosophy seems to be, "Oh, you're old now, huh? Well, if you want a good life still, you'd better have at least 6 daughters or daughters-in-law to take care of you, otherwise you're on your own."