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@Trila, I keep trying to interest Maggiecat in meeting Andy. She just gives me a glassy-eyed stare. Does that mean she's not interested in a gentleman caller?

Today is laundry day. Today is also get-off-my-dead-center day and tidy up what's left in the flower garden.

It's supposed to rain tomorrow, and I have to work so that will put an end to playing in the dirt for a while. After tomorrow the weather is supposed to turn cold ❄️ 🥶
 
Well, as everyone can see I am still lurking around, but really curbing my time on the forum. I also am influenced by a PM where someone said they hate not knowing the end of a “story”. I can appreciate that and some people genuinely care.

I am thinking. Thinking about what happened yesterday.

Yesterday, yesterday it was hard to keep my sanity. Joey called me. His group home had not picked him up for his doctor appointment. I won’t go into detail, but I later learned this was the fourth, after Covid hospitalization appointment, cancellation. (I am probably going to consult an attorney.).

Several calls later, his group home manager was to pick him up. I lost patience with the assistant director over the group home, lying piece of crap that he is.

I managed to get the appointment reinstated. Went to his home where the worker, was putting him in the car, 5 minutes before he was due at the doctor. We got to the doc in 15 minutes. She arrived 45 minutes later. Fortunately, his doctor, who stops seeing patients at 3; waited and saw him at 3:45.

His doctor said the ONLY reason he was still alive was because he was vaccinated. This is what I did, discuss the fact that the only reason my son was alive was because he was vaccinated. Not turning this into a Covid thread, just saying what I did. He still has to wear the oxygen. His lungs still have not recovered. Then we discussed the cyst they found on his heart while checking his lungs for the impact of Covid. He will have an MRI next week, then it looks like open heart surgery.

I was up most of the night, thinking. I am up now, thinking. I am and was extremely angry.

I am thinking about all the BS apologies, I had to listen to yesterday; all the BS excuses from the group home employees, all the pass the buck crap that fell out of people’s mouths over another failure to get my child appropriate medical care. All the lies.

I am thinking about the Covid threads on SF. Covid on the news. Covid talk everywhere.

All the useless blah, blah, blah, about the vaccinations as I sit and listen to a doctor, that I’ve known over twenty years, tell me how he “lost” two unvaccinated patients yesterday to Covid; and how he had another breakthrough, patient, like Joey, who lived through it.

Although, my son still might not live through it.

What am I doing today? Thinking. Doing the usual stuff. Will be talking to the group home people a lot, social workers, etc. Talking to my son Joey a lot. Updating his brother and sister on Joey’s condition, dealing with their worry and stress. And

Thinking, a lot of thinking.

This is what I am doing. Trying to maintrain my sanity in a world gone insane due to a virus that has impacted the lives of every single person in world. Plus the usual stuff, cause life goes on. 😢
 
Today, I await some deliveries, but more important is the arrival of the technican from the NBN who is going to make sure my internet is faster than lightening! I hope so!
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Well the technician arrived and did his thing. Now I only have to think Google and it appears on the screen :ROFLMAO: I need the speed for my writing computer, so I'm happy!
 
Today is grim, grey and damp... after rain early this morning. Completely different day to yesterday, but unlike yesterday I don't have to go out today.

Got a call this morning cancelling one of the regular meetings I have on a Thursday.. .. so only a 2 hour meeting tomorrow AM, which will leave my Thursday afternoon free too go and do other things.

Today I've simply vac'd... and cleaned all the surfaces including the doors and frames in the kitchen and hallway

Made tea and eaten strawberry flavour cream eclair ( shop bought) .... worked on some spreadsheets on the computer.. and dispensed with some keys on my key chain which I no longer need, now 'll be walking around less like a jailer... :D
 
Well, as everyone can see I am still lurking around, but really curbing my time on the forum. I also am influenced by a PM where someone said they hate not knowing the end of a “story”. I can appreciate that and some people genuinely care.

I am thinking. Thinking about what happened yesterday.

Yesterday, yesterday it was hard to keep my sanity. Joey called me. His group home had not picked him up for his doctor appointment. I won’t go into detail, but I later learned this was the fourth, after Covid hospitalization appointment, cancellation. (I am probably going to consult an attorney.).

Several calls later, his group home manager was to pick him up. I lost patience with the assistant director over the group home, lying piece of crap that he is.

I managed to get the appointment reinstated. Went to his home where the worker, was putting him in the car, 5 minutes before he was due at the doctor. We got to the doc in 15 minutes. She arrived 45 minutes later. Fortunately, his doctor, who stops seeing patients at 3; waited and saw him at 3:45.

His doctor said the ONLY reason he was still alive was because he was vaccinated. This is what I did, discuss the fact that the only reason my son was alive was because he was vaccinated. Not turning this into a Covid thread, just saying what I did. He still has to wear the oxygen. His lungs still have not recovered. Then we discussed the cyst they found on his heart while checking his lungs for the impact of Covid. He will have an MRI next week, then it looks like open heart surgery.

I was up most of the night, thinking. I am up now, thinking. I am and was extremely angry.

I am thinking about all the BS apologies, I had to listen to yesterday; all the BS excuses from the group home employees, all the pass the buck crap that fell out of people’s mouths over another failure to get my child appropriate medical care. All the lies.

I am thinking about the Covid threads on SF. Covid on the news. Covid talk everywhere.

All the useless blah, blah, blah, about the vaccinations as I sit and listen to a doctor, that I’ve known over twenty years, tell me how he “lost” two unvaccinated patients yesterday to Covid; and how he had another breakthrough, patient, like Joey, who lived through it.

Although, my son still might not live through it.

What am I doing today? Thinking. Doing the usual stuff. Will be talking to the group home people a lot, social workers, etc. Talking to my son Joey a lot. Updating his brother and sister on Joey’s condition, dealing with their worry and stress. And

Thinking, a lot of thinking.

This is what I am doing. Trying to maintrain my sanity in a world gone insane due to a virus that has impacted the lives of every single person in world. Plus the usual stuff, cause life goes on. 😢
I know words may not help......but ......i am so terribly sorry for what your son and yourself are going through.
Try to stay strong.
 
@Trila, I keep trying to interest Maggiecat in meeting Andy. She just gives me a glassy-eyed stare. Does that mean she's not interested in a gentleman caller?

Today is laundry day. Today is also get-off-my-dead-center day and tidy up what's left in the flower garden.

It's supposed to rain tomorrow, and I have to work so that will put an end to playing in the dirt for a while. After tomorrow the weather is supposed to turn cold ❄️ 🥶
If I didn't know any better, I'd say that she was playing hard to get! Andy wants to know what that vixen is wearing...calico?....tuxedo?

I keep on wanting to go out to do yard work, but with this beautiful weather, something else always comes up. Yesterday it was a boat ride. Today we will head into town, just to walk in the park. Before you know it, I'll be stuck inside....making soup & baking!
 
@Twila, she's a calico. She's also a special needs kitty with no tail because of a birth defect, unlike a breed (think Manx) that doesn't have a tail. I bet Maggiecat is afraid of being rejected because of her disability so affects a not-interested mien. Should I make an appointment for her with a therapist?
 
Well, as everyone can see I am still lurking around, but really curbing my time on the forum. I also am influenced by a PM where someone said they hate not knowing the end of a “story”. I can appreciate that and some people genuinely care.

I am thinking. Thinking about what happened yesterday.

Yesterday, yesterday it was hard to keep my sanity. Joey called me. His group home had not picked him up for his doctor appointment. I won’t go into detail, but I later learned this was the fourth, after Covid hospitalization appointment, cancellation. (I am probably going to consult an attorney.).

Several calls later, his group home manager was to pick him up. I lost patience with the assistant director over the group home, lying piece of crap that he is.

I managed to get the appointment reinstated. Went to his home where the worker, was putting him in the car, 5 minutes before he was due at the doctor. We got to the doc in 15 minutes. She arrived 45 minutes later. Fortunately, his doctor, who stops seeing patients at 3; waited and saw him at 3:45.

His doctor said the ONLY reason he was still alive was because he was vaccinated. This is what I did, discuss the fact that the only reason my son was alive was because he was vaccinated. Not turning this into a Covid thread, just saying what I did. He still has to wear the oxygen. His lungs still have not recovered. Then we discussed the cyst they found on his heart while checking his lungs for the impact of Covid. He will have an MRI next week, then it looks like open heart surgery.

I was up most of the night, thinking. I am up now, thinking. I am and was extremely angry.

I am thinking about all the BS apologies, I had to listen to yesterday; all the BS excuses from the group home employees, all the pass the buck crap that fell out of people’s mouths over another failure to get my child appropriate medical care. All the lies.

I am thinking about the Covid threads on SF. Covid on the news. Covid talk everywhere.

All the useless blah, blah, blah, about the vaccinations as I sit and listen to a doctor, that I’ve known over twenty years, tell me how he “lost” two unvaccinated patients yesterday to Covid; and how he had another breakthrough, patient, like Joey, who lived through it.

Although, my son still might not live through it.

What am I doing today? Thinking. Doing the usual stuff. Will be talking to the group home people a lot, social workers, etc. Talking to my son Joey a lot. Updating his brother and sister on Joey’s condition, dealing with their worry and stress. And

Thinking, a lot of thinking.

This is what I am doing. Trying to maintrain my sanity in a world gone insane due to a virus that has impacted the lives of every single person in world. Plus the usual stuff, cause life goes on. 😢
OMGosh, that is exhausting!! I so feel for you, @Aneeda72, dealing with all the bureaucracy (should be bureau-crazy) when you just want your son cared for! I’m so sorry. Sending ((hugs)) and prayers
 
I finished the archeological dig (cleaning out my car).

Getting ready to mail off some boxes with winter heavy coats/scarves/ hats I have no use for in GA but they can provide some warmth for the homeless in Michigan

I may have to start looking for a new rental. The elderly lady that owns the house I’m renting (first home in Iowa) May be coming down to stay for Jan-March.

Right now I’m at the local coffee house, sipping a latte and trying to finish computer documentation from last weekend. It was one for the record books!
 
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