Your loved ones take away your ice cream, or candy because they want you to stay in good health. Take your money because you are wasting it on things that they feel you shouldn't want or have. Some will even cause you pain because they love you? I recently watched a court TV show and the man was in court telling the judge how his friend deprived him of something and he almost died from the deprivation or lack of help from his friend. The friend gave his reason for not helping as "Doing the Lord's will."