Cell phones, hate 'em. Often if I don't immediately call back it's, "I left a message and you didn't call back!" Excuse me, is this an emergency? If it's an emergency then say so and I'll call you back as soon as I possibly can. If it isn't an emergency then STFU and have a little patience! Everything in this world is not instant! Sheesh. The last thing I want is to be at someone's beck and call at ALL times. And that's one reason why I don't give out my cell number!
Cell phones have definitely changed the way people behave. Most people I know can't be more than six inches from their cell phone and check it a hundred times a day! When I'm with people, I don't mind them checking their phones a few times. I can understand the need to feel connected but every second of everyday? Yes, if you're a doctor, EMT, are on call, have kids/grandkids that you worry about, or are expecting an important call you can't miss but other than that I find it rude when in the company of others.
Recently I was having coffee with a friend I only see once in a while and his hand was resting on his phone the entire time. It didn't ring but he kept checking it every minute. I asked him if he was expecting a call. He said no but still kept checking it. After about fifteen minutes of non-stop checking I stood up and said I had to go. He looked up from his phone and said, "You just got here!". I said, "Yeah, I thought we were going to have a conversation and catch up but you're not paying attention to me, you're with your phone." He said he was sorry. I went to sit down but before my keister could hit the seat, he was checking his phone again! I stood up and said maybe we could try this another time, if he could manage to pay attention to me instead of his phone. I haven't heard from him since, lol! I guess he thinks I'M rude, lol. That's fine with me, he can think whatever he wants to think. I've pretty much had it with people who prefer to pay attention to their cell phones rather than communicate with the people they're actually with. Frankly, I'd rather enjoy my own company than compete with an electronic device.
Thanks for letting me get that out, lol!
Ruby
