What do you consider a GOOD day?

dseag2

Dallas, TX
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For me, it is waking up ready to go and in a good emotional state. I've had issues with depression in the past, and I was seriously afraid that retirement would exacerbate it but that hasn't been the case. I do frequently dream of business situations, but when I wake up I'm happy they are no longer part of my world.

My usual routine of spending an hour in my home office while watching the news, going to the gym, shopping for groceries and possibly reading a book at Starbucks is considered a good day. If I am still emotionally and physically healthy, I consider that a good day.
 

A good day? Today was a good day but I did not go to bed until 6AM and slept until 2PM. Did not wake with a migraine. I remembered to take my phone off the hook on the way to the bedroom. I have some guy stalking me, won't quit calling!! I have never met him but his pursuit is unending. Some guy called Spam Risk, what was his mother thinking? Anyway, he did not get to bother my slumber today!

I did some routine cleaning, unloaded the dish washer, did a load of laundry. Kitchen was too clean and since I felt well I decided to cook not only for dinner but for the weekend. Brisket is in the fridge soaking up dry rub, for a low and slow cook tomorrow. Pot of pinto beans with garlic, onions and good old bacon fat all done. A beautiful casserole of Au gratin potatos with onions (the onions were not allowed when my son was still at home) has been cooked. I will crown with golden glory tomorrow, that would be shredded sharp cheddar. And last but not least is a pan of corn bread baked in an iron skillet that had been heated in the oven with that priceless bacon fat. That is how you get a good crust LOL.

I made a chocolate cake with butter cream frosting a couple of days ago. When I went to pick up that brisket on Tuesday I purchased a 1/2 gallon of Blue Bell Pralines and Cream. In my defense, it was on sale for $3.50. I would normally get the store brands but if you live down this way you take advantage of a sale on Blue Bell!

Gave the big dog a good brushing. He was kind enough to be cooperative and lay down right at my feet in front of the sofa. He did not even fuss when I rolled him over to do the other side. I always feel happy when I get things done. I have so many days that I am like a sloth, slowly making my way through the house pretending to get things done.

I also have a struggle with depression and am on medication that I feel really helps. Do you take anything? Have you discussed it with your your doc? So many suffer with it but don't want to to talk about it or tell the doctor. It is an illness that should be addressed. The trazadone you take for sleep I think was originally made as a treatment for depression and is prescribed off label for sleep.
 
Waking up full of beans energy after a good sleep. Out for an early walk, back for breakfast, getting stuff done and checked off my list, listening to good music, chatting with people, being out in the garden, reading a good book....all these things make for a good day in my eyes.
 
What do you consider a GOOD day?
Most of my days are good, bad ones rarely and usually involving losses of people, or injury to family or friends.
I do frequently dream of business situations, but when I wake up I'm happy they are no longer part of my world.
I do also, I guess our dreams are partially jumbled up memories. I suppose a lot of us dream of the past and business. My most frequent business dreams are travel related and somehow getting lost or being late or not ready when I do get there. I traveled a lot for business.
 
It's a good day when I have no pain... (great day)... it's a good day when the sun shines, and the temps are no more than 70 f... it's a good day when I can go out with a friend or family member to somewhere new, and take photos of my new surroundings.. It's a good day when I have visitors.. It's a good day when I know all my bills are paid and I'm debt free..

It's a good day when I hear that my friends on this forum are having a Good day..
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It is not easy to get through the day without something happening that bothers me. Might be pain, negative thinking, getting upset emotionally, or even getting bored and tired. I like to be involved in working around the farm, taking walks, hanging out with Misa, being on the SF, and other small things that intrigue me. So I guess it is like the old saying you "take the good with the bad". :)
 
For me, a good day is when I wake up after a good night's sleep and I don't get picked on as soon as I wake up,but that hasn't happened in years. First, my husband picks on me then he calls my daughter and complains about me and she calls me and starts complaining about how much he does for me and I had just gotten up.
 
Most days are good days. I'm probably happiest working in the shop, where my mind is challenged, and occupied. Playing with the dog, having the wife back in the house after six months on my own, and having someone to talk to again is a biggie. Just really grateful that I'm healthy, and able to stay busy. I would probably be a mess if I had to just sit around all day.
 
For me, a good day is when I wake up after a good night's sleep and I don't get picked on as soon as I wake up,but that hasn't happened in years. First, my husband picks on me then he calls my daughter and complains about me and she calls me and starts complaining about how much he does for me and I had just gotten up.
So sorry Sassycakes…….you shouldn’t have to be subjected to that…….BIG HUG for you. ❤️❤️❤️.
 
For me, it is waking up ready to go and in a good emotional state.
And that is a real biggie, which can be elusive. I have been attempting to 'hack' my neurological balance in an effort to regain the happy-go-lucky feeling I used to have, many moons ago. Taking such bedtime substances as Melatonin, Trazadone, Indica and 5htp, and monitoring my sleep patterns with my Fitbit.

This morning when I was just going to get out of bed, I had the presence of mind to say to myself- "this is going to be a good day".

...so far so good!
 

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