Do you see yourself as an Introvert or an Extrovert?

Extrovert, for sure. Imagine going into a serious medical situation ( I was an Ambulance Attendant for 10 years here in Toronto ) and not being able to take charge of the scene ? Or speak to large numbers of people ( 500 or more ) about the benefits of learning CPR ? Or direct traffic as a Auxiliary Police Constable, as 40,000 fans are leaving a Blue Jays game at Rogers Center ? Being able to immediately speak to someone you have never met before, and ask them important questions about their medical history ? I can do all of that. Jim B.
 
A question for the group ? Do you think it is possible to turn a introvert teen ager into a outgoing and friendly adult ? Next door neighbour has a 15 year old girl who is afraid of everything in the world outside of their front door. She is in grade 10 and her Mother is going nuts trying to get the child to overcome her fears. Anyone here have any suggestions to help this child ? The mother is working full time ( her husband was killed in a car accident last year ) so she is out of the house 8 to 6 pm M-F. The girl does go to school, that isn't a problem. The problem is she never goes out on the weekends, and she isn't friends with any other girls . Ideas ? JimB.
 
jimintoronto said:
A question for the group ? Do you think it is possible to turn a introvert teen ager into a outgoing and friendly adult ? Next door neighbour has a 15 year old girl who is afraid of everything in the world outside of their front door. She is in grade 10 and her Mother is going nuts trying to get the child to overcome her fears. Anyone here have any suggestions to help this child ? The mother is working full time ( her husband was killed in a car accident last year ) so she is out of the house 8 to 6 pm M-F. The girl does go to school, that isn't a problem. The problem is she never goes out on the weekends, and she isn't friends with any other girls . Ideas ? JimB.
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You can't force an introvert. She may befriend someone at some point in time, whether at College or through work. Some people take time to gain confidence.
 
jimintoronto said:
A question for the group ? Do you think it is possible to turn a introvert teen ager into a outgoing and friendly adult ? Next door neighbour has a 15 year old girl who is afraid of everything in the world outside of their front door. She is in grade 10 and her Mother is going nuts trying to get the child to overcome her fears. Anyone here have any suggestions to help this child ? The mother is working full time ( her husband was killed in a car accident last year ) so she is out of the house 8 to 6 pm M-F. The girl does go to school, that isn't a problem. The problem is she never goes out on the weekends, and she isn't friends with any other girls . Ideas ? JimB.
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Was she afraid before she lost her father?
 
jimintoronto said:
A question for the group ? Do you think it is possible to turn a introvert teen ager into a outgoing and friendly adult ? Next door neighbour has a 15 year old girl who is afraid of everything in the world outside of their front door. She is in grade 10 and her Mother is going nuts trying to get the child to overcome her fears. Anyone here have any suggestions to help this child ? The mother is working full time ( her husband was killed in a car accident last year ) so she is out of the house 8 to 6 pm M-F. The girl does go to school, that isn't a problem. The problem is she never goes out on the weekends, and she isn't friends with any other girls . Ideas ? JimB.
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Many people now are doing their jobs online from home. Maybe Mom can do that and then go on short outings with her daughter when she has a break. Build trust. Go where happy people are. A little fresh air walk around the park would be great! People are usually happy when visiting a park, museums, zoos, arboretums, outdoor gardens, art galleries, etc.

So she'll begin to see there's nothing to be afraid of in the right places...and she'll begin to trust. Eventually sign her up for swim team at the YMCA or exercise classes there. Go with her until she feels comfortable to go alone.

I'm a friendly type extrovert (not overly friendly lol) on the island here and it's easy because most everyone is on vacation and thus happy. Those who live here are here because they love it here. I'm more cautious and introvert-ish on the mainland especially cities where I've been robbed, treated rudely, etc.

Adopt a sweet loving calm dog! I trust most Dog Lovers. The islanders often want to pet my dogs and share their experiences with their dogs (some have left their dogs with sitters due to "no pets allowed" rules that some owners have). I trust everyone here. I've never been given reason not to. Trust heals being introvert.
 
I am an introvert, and no need to think long and hard about it. I think the best way to differentiate between introvert and extrovert is to ask yourself does being around people drain you or charge you up? I used to be a nice balance of both, but illness over the years has definitely caused me to be more introverted.

I like quality time with one or two people, then I need time to regroup and process it all. An extrovert actually needs to be around people because it energizes them, (nothing wrong with that!) and an introvert may enjoy people time, but just needs down time afterward. My two cents! :)
 
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