Which would you rather have- a partner, or your life as it is?

yes I get lonely... do I want a partner.. someone to move in and be cosy and comfy, and snuggly.. and luvvy dovey


















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I don't know.
I suppose if he were AMAZING! Cuddly like a big, ole bear with an extremely high intelligence and
a beautiful, wonderful soul . . . . spiritual!
I would have to want to be with him more than I like being alone.
Hm-m-m-m. I must ponder on this.
 
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What I want is a partner but we live in a duplex. We can spend time together, maybe sit on the porch and talk, then around 7P.M. she goes into her side of the duplex and I go to mine.

Perfect right?
Close to it is when the other half works and goes to school while you do your own thing, but they're home just when you're getting bored with that.

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I was very happy living alone for 20+ years, and reasonably content for another 10 years after that. But by then, old injuries had come back to haunt me, and I was getting a lot less social, less curious, and pretty tired, and I started planning what to do when I'd had enough and there was no reason to stay. It was a good plan.

But then I met Paxton, and later, Michelle. So that plan's been shelved.
 
I lived alone after my wife passed away, but was fortunate to find a widow with many of the same interests as mine. We will be celebrating our 15th anniversary next month.
We each have 2 sons that are very accepting of our marriage. One of her sons is a real character. For Father's Day he sent me a coffee cup that read as follows: With Love from the child that you inherited when you shacked up with my mother :D
 
I have been on my own for over 40 years and never ever wanted another partner.
After 21 years the break was traumatic for a couple of years and I just knew I could never go through that again.
I did have offers through the years but was never tempted.
I made so many good friends and found that being able to do just as I pleased the right thing for me.
 

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