Is this age-ism? You could always say, "You're welcome, sonny boy." LOLI kept myself out of prison yesterday.
I stopped at the liquor store on my way home yesterday, and the guy behind the counter (young guy) said "Thanks Pop"
I didn't drag him over the counter, I didn't yell at him, and I'm not in jail.
I'm pretty proud of myself![]()
I am not offended in the slightest if I am called names that might be considered ageist, but I am completely on your side when it comes to which subjects to choose for a discussion. Those who are interested will have something to discuss, those who aren't can pick something, or start something, closer to their taste. Keep posting @Leann, I found this thread very interesting and, at times, quite entertaining!Thanks @MarciKS !
Well Gary, to me, "Sir" is a title of respect and it's good manners to use it.It was a bit of a shock when people in their 40s started calling me "sir". I realized these people see me as old, lol
Last couple times I've been in Spanish speaking areas, Miami being one, I've been called " papi". That was an eye openerWhile wintering in Florida, staying in motels. I was called 'Grandma' by all the help. They were all spanish-speaking people and did not realize that their word may have been offensive to some, as in calling me old and/or using endearments with a stranger. But in their culture I am sure I was being honored, which made it AOK with me.
Sure it does. I don't call people younger then me sir. And yes it's a sign of respect. But I used to get a " thanks, man!" Or some such, now I get " thank you, sir" and its definitely an age thing.Well Gary, to me, "Sir" is a title of respect and it's good manners to use it.
Maybe you'd rather be addressed as "Dude"?
The title Sir has nothing to do with age.
Well, at least there's respect. Yes?Sure it does. I don't call people younger then me sir. And yes it's a sign of respect. But I used to get a " thanks, man!" Or some such, now I get " thank you, sir" and its definitely an age thing.
Well, at least there's respect. Yes?
I think that is odd. Geez.I think the only thing I don't care for is these younger gals calling me mama. For some reason it is just odd.
Me too!I think they usually mean well and in this day of not enough employees and poor customer service I'm just happy that they aren't ignoring me.
This thread was bad enough without adding "animal cruelty".@Georgiagranny , here ya go! Not an emoji, but you can use it for "insert image".
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I suspect they are trying to be respectful of the age of the customer.I think they're just trying to be nice.
I love being called "Luv"I’ve called my husband dear for quite a long time he’s never complained
When I moved to the country area where hubs lived / worked , ( in 1986) the area has / had a large population of former UK / Scottish residents
not all , but many called everyone Luv I never took any offence being called Luv