StarSong
Awkward is my Superpower
- Location
- Los Angeles Suburbs
The Hollywood sign was restored many years ago and has been kept up ever since.Oh yeah, "little old lady from Pasadena". "Go, granny, go granny, go granny go."
Several years ago I drove past what was my home in the Valley and I about went into shock! Ticky tacky housing being million-dollar housing!I also drove through Hollywood and did not stop. I have no desire to return to the old stomping grounds.
I am sure people who live in large cities and far from nature go crazy.
It took me 10 years to adjust to Oregon and there is no chance of me ever going back to Southern California to live. I didn't even go to my high school 50th reunion. I much rather walk along the river path enjoying nature.But when my X first brought us to Newport, Oregon I thought we returned to prehistoric times and that I would die of boredom! That was not at all good for our marriage. When the hippie scene came to town I grabbed onto it. My conservative X did not. But I loved the colorful creativity and Mother Earth.
Oh yeah, I know the Hollywood sign. It was painful to learn it fell into disrepair.
Hollywood was also a sweet spot for single moms and their children. The childcare was on the school grounds and the cost was on a sliding scale. By age 8 I could go to the Girls' Club that was within walking distance and my mother no longer had to pay for my child care. Imagine that! An 8-year girl walking the streets of Hollywood alone, and families not locking their doors.
If you can watch "Blast From the Past." It is an excellent representation of value changes. It is also a feel-good movie.
You and I had opposite life experiences: I grew up in small towns with plenty of nature, zero anonymity because everyone knew your business, it took 5 towns to cobble together a small high school, and I was bored to tears by the whole scene. Absolutely couldn't wait to escape.
I'm like Ava Gabor in Green Acres. If I didn't live in LA, I'd be in another big city's first ring of suburbs: probably Toronto, San Diego, or NYC.
Oregon is lovely - my younger sister (who mostly grew up in Hollywood) lives in a small town there, as does one of my closest friends. Glad you found a place that makes you happy.
Different strokes for different folks.