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dilettante said:
Hmm, I'll just use my imagination.šŸ˜Š
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me too. :)

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The doc wants to keep me on these meds for a few more months. At least the good news is that none of the old panic or panic-like symptoms have reoccurred. Considering the crap I've gone through the last 2 weeks that's good, and now I can cross off one of the things I'd been thinking had been helping.

It's always good to refine your list of good things so you know what helps and what doesn't.

I have some new stress now, but I can shrug and push it down into a bug that I can step on. This too shall pass, and probably quickly.
 
Ivā€™e read through some of these posts and can relate. As I get older, Iā€™ve noticed that Iā€™ve become more emotional. Guess itā€™s not a bad thing since Iā€™ve had to be stoic during so many crisis events in my career. Now thereā€™s no reason to hold back, nobody is watching, so the emotions come out. Feels really strange to me as, ā€œstiff upper lipā€ was my rule. Oh well, not sure where I was going with this, but itā€™s how Iā€™m feeling now. Nuff said.
 

I'm so angry I don't know what to do with myself. I tried to buy yet another mobile home. My offer was accepted but I had voiced concerns about wet baseboards out on the deck that had got wet during the rains. My agent called the listing agent. I think this was wednesday but when we went back Monday the boards were on inside. No way had they dried out. And I found moldy flooring planks in the shed. I had to withdraw my offer. I got no explanation, no nothing.

I don't know if they had put some of that flooring down. The park has cheap space rents and it was a smaller place. Of course it's pending again. Someone who doesn't know about the floor boards. Something always pushes against me. And I'm scared of this apartment. Afraid to ask for any repairs. They are max profit only.
 
Remy said:
I'm so angry I don't know what to do with myself. I tried to buy yet another mobile home. My offer was accepted but I had voiced concerns about wet baseboards out on the deck that had got wet during the rains. My agent called the listing agent. I think this was wednesday but when we went back Monday the boards were on inside. No way had they dried out. And I found moldy flooring planks in the shed. I had to withdraw my offer. I got no explanation, no nothing.

I don't know if they had put some of that flooring down. The park has cheap space rents and it was a smaller place. Of course it's pending again. Someone who doesn't know about the floor boards. Something always pushes against me. And I'm scared of this apartment. Afraid to ask for any repairs. They are max profit only.
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Sounds like, in this case, things went well! After all, you could have found these problems AFTER moving in.

I know it might be difficult to accept right now, but ultimately you dodged a bullet. Good luck in your search!
 
Remy said:
I'm so angry I don't know what to do with myself. I tried to buy yet another mobile home. My offer was accepted but I had voiced concerns about wet baseboards out on the deck that had got wet during the rains. My agent called the listing agent. I think this was wednesday but when we went back Monday the boards were on inside. No way had they dried out. And I found moldy flooring planks in the shed. I had to withdraw my offer. I got no explanation, no nothing.

I don't know if they had put some of that flooring down. The park has cheap space rents and it was a smaller place. Of course it's pending again. Someone who doesn't know about the floor boards. Something always pushes against me. And I'm scared of this apartment. Afraid to ask for any repairs. They are max profit only.
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Do you not make a conditional offer with a home inspection being a condition, then if you really want the house adjust your price accordingly.
 
RobinWren said:
Do you not make a conditional offer with a home inspection being a condition, then if you really want the house adjust your price accordingly.
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I withdrew my offer without thinking. Now thinking, I could have had those boards removed myself and replaced. I don't know, it's always something. I think it's my brain the way it's wired from childhood abuse. I don't think right when stressed like that or faced with something I need to stop and think about. I process it later. I really thought I was going to live in that place.
 
Remy said:
I withdrew my offer without thinking. Now thinking, I could have had those boards removed myself and replaced. I don't know, it's always something. I think it's my brain the way it's wired from childhood abuse. I don't think right when stressed like that or faced with something I need to stop and think about. I process it later. I really thought I was going to live in that place.
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I meant to say without a home inspection, I should proof read. Buying a house is so stressful but at least if you have a home inspection you are prepared and also you can lower your offer to cover the expense of the repair. People can be out thousands of $ if they go without an inspection. Good luck, if California is anything like here prices are down right now , homes are staying on the market longer, so who knows you might get a bargain. You could look for a private sale but make sure you have a lawyer or notary view the offer before you make it to the seller.
 
Gee, haven't ever posted in this old long thread. Well viscerally at the moment?

Upon considering the OP's question now at 11am, I just climbed the stairs again in my old 2-story townhouse because my senior bladder had processed at 7am my small Post Simply Granola cereal with milk breakfast. And noting how am out of the important cow product, will put on some more clothing for our 61F outdoors, to walk 3 blocks away to a Walgreens and buy just a gallon of milk. Otherwise a lazy easy day ahead without much to do or feel anything about. Took care a lot of business like bills yesterday.
 
I'm feeling happy with myself because besides my physical limitations I have gotten several things done: hand washed kitchen floor, did a big load of laundry, polished my coffee table, organized some things I had lying around into a small basket and it looks much better. I am on my way to getting more organized.

I am going to go through all my drawers and throw out what's never used. I will also feel even better when I get more and more organized.
 
Judycat said:
Got bad news about an old friend today. Really knocked me down. She fell and broke her femur. Then they found cancer that has spread to different parts of her body. She's always been so healthy. Really hard getting a handle on it.
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Itā€™s really hard when friends are in bad health suddenly. It brings all of our mortality to the forefront.
 

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