Men and their Toys. Literal TOYS?

VaughanJB

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Youtube can be a weird place. They suddenly recommend something out of the blue and you click on it. The algorithm then assumes that's all you want to watch, so you get more of the same. You can end up in some weird rabbit holes.

My recent foray left me scratching my head and young adults (mid 20's to mid 30's and beyond). But first I must state that I'm not meaning to be hyper-critical here, I'm just confused, as we sometimes get!

So this issue is around grown people acting in an infantile manner, and never leaving their kids toys behind. The recommended video was about "Pop Toys". Basically, bobble-headed plastic dolls. You can see them here: https://funko.com/

Now, I can see these might be fun for a kid, maybe a teen. But I ended up watching grown men spending $500 on big boxes of Pop Dolls to complete their collection. I heard them hunting down "rare" Pop Dolls, and talking endlessly about how "cool" they are. They have rooms of their homes dedicated to them, with shelves full. Baffling to someone like me.

That led to something called "Warhammer", which apparently is a board game of sorts. As a kid, I knew it as "plastic soldiers", albeit these are far more elaborate. They paint their models, pose them, buy all kinds of add-ons including fake grass, tree's, and sand. Again, they then have channels where they talk about their collections. If they were as enthusiastic about their wives (yes, some have them) we'd not worry about a dip in world population. I should also stress, this isn't a thing centered in a particular country or continent.

I then started to get "Furry" videos recommended. These are people who dress as various animals. Full sized animals. They have three day conferences, their own songs, where they meet, fully furred up, and party. Again, not kids, adults.

Now, when I was a kid, men had hobbies, but they were different. My father used to make fully functional miniature Steam Engines, for example. An eccentric might have a train set, fully kitted out with buildings etc. But this current thing is at a whole other level.

One common trait are claims that "they're worth a lot of money", or would be in the future. Not sure how that works for what amounts to a plastic mold. One guy claimed he had a "super rare" Pop Head because the head glowed in the dark. He was really excited about getting the glow in the dark version.

I'm not trying to judge such people, just pointing out that I don't get it. There seems to have been a wider acceptance of what a grown adult ought to be overly interested in. If its toys from their childhood, that's fine now. My father would have clipped me around the ear. :D

And if I've offended anyone here, I apologize. Sometimes "not getting it" can come across as being hyper-critical. I don't mean that. I'd simply like some insight into what y'all think about it. If your husband/wife started buying lots of "furry" gear, would you shake your head, or ignore it? If your partner started filling the house with Pop Heads, what then?
 

You're right, there has been a shift in the societal view of what constitutes "adult" hobbies and interests. Activities once seen as childish are now embraced by adults, and there's less stigma attached to expressing one's inner child. This openness is positive, but it can be jarring for those raised with different expectations.
 
One common trait are claims that "they're worth a lot of money", or would be in the future. Not sure how that works for what amounts to a plastic mold. One guy claimed he had a "super rare" Pop Head because the head glowed in the dark. He was really excited about getting the glow in the dark version.




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No, they wont be
Never heard of them but they will go the way of any other trend and be worth way less than he paid for it once the tread has had its day.

anyway, I guess whatever people want to do and can afford and doesn't hurt anyone else - go for it.

If my partner started filling the house with anything - and it wouldnt matter whether it was pop head dolls, teddy bears or some 'adult manly ' thing, like, I dont know, model cars or war magazines - I would be annoyed

Not because they are childish but because I dont want house cluttered up with collectable things or money wasted (IMO) on them.
 

The furry community has been around for a really long time. I remember people mentioning them on forums over 20 years ago.

This wiki says the furry community started in the 70s. It's not a new thing, just a niche community.

Furry fandom - Wikipedia

My dad used to watch kids' cartoons to relax. I'm good with finding value in whatever brings joy and happiness.
 
Collecting can be fun. But, collecting to excess can be an addiction, just like alcohol or drugs. One of my sons was like that. He spent thousands on items and then just stored them away and never looked at them; toys, books, records, autographed baseballs, hockey sticks, you name it. The kick was in the acquisition. When he passed away, we were left with it. My daughter-in-law's Grandmother left over a hundred Barbie dolls.

I've been in modeling forums and seen guys brag about how many thousands of kits they have. They know they will never live to build them all. I've seen the same sort of thing in a fountain pen forum. I personally don't get it. I do accumulate stuff, but I don't search it out just to own it. My family would tease me for spotting something in the trash and saving it. I just hate to see things wasted. Every once in a while I'll look around and decide "Yeah, this goes to Goodwill or this is trash."
 
Collecting can be fun. But, collecting to excess can be an addiction, just like alcohol or drugs. One of my sons was like that. He spent thousands on items and then just stored them away and never looked at them; toys, books, records, autographed baseballs, hockey sticks, you name it. The kick was in the acquisition. When he passed away, we were left with it. My daughter-in-law's Grandmother left over a hundred Barbie dolls.

I've been in modeling forums and seen guys brag about how many thousands of kits they have. They know they will never live to build them all. I've seen the same sort of thing in a fountain pen forum. I personally don't get it. I do accumulate stuff, but I don't search it out just to own it. My family would tease me for spotting something in the trash and saving it. I just hate to see things wasted. Every once in a while I'll look around and decide "Yeah, this goes to Goodwill or this is trash."
Here, @Grampa Don, this is for you. A bargain at only $900.00 and you're worth every penny!

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Here, @Grampa Don, this is for you. A bargain at only $900.00 and you're worth every penny!

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No, I want this one. Actually, I have over 20 fountain pens, mostly cheap Chinese. I bought them out of curiosity of different types and I have less than $100 invested in the whole lot. There are 5 that I actually like and use. Some fountain pens go for a ridiculous amount.
 
I‘m going to sell my collection of Beanie Babies very soon. I was assured they would be worth a fortune in a matter of years as no more beanie Beanie Babys like mine are being produced. No doubt the sale will finance a 6 month trip around the world, all of the trip done with 1st class transportation, rooms and food. Just call me the last of the big spenders!
 
If you are not happy with YouTube, there is a control
that you can use, VaughanJB, in the image below, you
will see the bottom right of a video that you click if you
want to watch it, if you hover your cursor, in that area,
you will see the three dots, click the dots and you will
get the drop-down window, click on "Don't recommend
Channel", you will never see any more of them.

Mike.
 
Hi Naturally. My brother collected pocketknives. He died about three years ago. But don't worry... I'm sure it had nothing to do with collecting pocketknives. :unsure:

I've been a coin collector most of my life and though I've liquidated quite a bit in the last few years, I still have the best put away.

In the late 50's and early 60's my dad worked in banking. He had a mild interest in coin collecting. But for him, it was nothing more than face value pocket change as he came across something in his job. I have a hand full of steel pennies ... and this Franklin Half set ... still in the plastic display my dad placed them in over 60yrs ago. All are from circulation but nice examples. Other than that, alls I have is a mason jar of foreign coins from my years in the military and visiting some two dozen foreign countries. Some more than once or twice.

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In the late 50's and early 60's my dad worked in banking. He had a mild interest in coin collecting. But for him, it was nothing more than face value pocket change as he came across something in his job. I have a hand full of steel pennies ... and this Franklin Half set ... still in the plastic display my dad placed them in over 60yrs ago. All are from circulation but nice examples. Other than that, alls I have is a mason jar of foreign coins from my years in the military and visiting some two dozen foreign countries. Some more than once or twice.
That's a great Franklin set, and very hard to find in good, circulated condition now. You can still find very worn examples and graded uncirculated coins. I have an assortment of PCGS MS64 examples from the 50's.
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The Franklin Half is one of my favorite designs.
 
A person collects stuff to make themselves happy. If they think that the collection has any more value than that, they are dreaming. Most collections are worth much less than they paid for it.
I've seen older relatives spend their life collecting certain things as an "investment". When it came to selling in their later years, their "investment" wasn't worth what they paid for it in the first place.
My parents would point out some items that are worth a lot of money. After they passed it was up to me to liquidate their belongings. The things that they thought were worth a lot, were not worth as much as the lumber pile in the shed.
If it makes you happy to collect a certain thing, go for it. Any more value than that, forget it.
 
Just to show that I too have some sentimentality, here is my one juvenile collectable. It's a model I bought complete, not as a kit. It replicates a black Volkswagen Beetle, circa 1960, which was what my first car (bought used) was. I acquired the model about 25 years after I'd sold the car. It sits on the top of a bookcase in my office.

Right next to it is a functional phone in the shape of a duck. Its exterior is fashioned from wood. A very good friend of mine gave it to me. I actually had it plugged into our home land-line system for a while. The phone quacks instead of ringing


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Just to show that I too have some sentimentality, here is my one juvenile collectable. It's a model I bought complete, not as a kit. It replicates a black Volkswagen Beetle, circa 1960, which was what my first car (bought used) was. I acquired the model about 25 years after I'd sold the car. It sits on the top of a bookcase in my office.

Right next to it is a functional phone in the shape of a duck. Its exterior is fashioned from wood. A very good friend of mine gave it to me. I actually had it plugged into our home land-line system for a while. The phone quacks instead of ringing

I'd totally be using that duck on the daily.
 


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