Alizerine
Senior Member
Sayville, NY.What is the name of the small town you grew up in. It sounds lovely.
Sayville, NY.What is the name of the small town you grew up in. It sounds lovely.
Agree...and I live in a small town.Small towns used to be far more viable. Sadly many of their few remaining local businesses are hanging by a thread. Large consolidated national chains have pretty much wiped them out and those chains have little interest in operating a small town presence where profit margins are too low to satisfy Wall Street.
Hopefully there won’t be a long waiting list to get into one when that time comes like it is around here.Freezing my tail standing at bus stops as a teen-ager forever has made me want to never be dependent on public transportation.
When I can no longer drive, I will move into an old folks home.
I am a former resident of San Francisco, and now live across the Bay In Marin. There are areas in San Francisco, generally frequented by tourists, where I would NEVER park a car. Leaving a locked car with a package on a seat is an invitation to break a window. There is a neighborhood where some residents leave parked cars with an open trunk lid to reassure the thieves there is nothing worth stealing.And San Francisco is the second most expensive city to live in in the U.S. (second only I believe to be Hawaii). Plus the crime in San Francisco is even worse than here in N.Y. I've been to San Francisco twice and it used to be a beautiful city.....not so any more.
What part of New Jersey do you live in? Even though I pretty much decided to stay in New York, New Jersey might still be an option.The walk score for my address is 96.
Walker’s Paradise
Daily errands do not require a car.
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Good Transit
Many nearby public transportation options.
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Bikeable
Some bike infrastructure.
The walk score site gives information about what transportation and amenities are available for whatever address or neighborhood you input. The site also provides information about housing in the city you enter.
https://www.walkscore.com/score/
Here is a list of cities with great transit scores. Keep scrolling for a list of more cities and their walk/transit scores.
https://www.walkscore.com/cities-and-neighborhoods/
Lots of folks from NJ (and other places) retire in Delaware.What part of New Jersey do you live in? Even though I pretty much decided to stay in New York, New Jersey might still be an option.
I live in the northeastern part of N.J. Some of the N.J. towns closest to NYC can be quite expensive, particularly Ft. Lee (Bergen County), Hoboken and Jersey City (Hudson County).What part of New Jersey do you live in? Even though I pretty much decided to stay in New York, New Jersey might still be an option.
I apologize for my first response. I didn't give any suggestions, only a related story. Sorry but I really have no suggestions. Except to say, in most towns if you live "in" there should be some convenience . Even here in my little village , if ya live just a mile closer than I to town-center, many restaurants, bars, coffee shops ,etc. can be walked to. And on-line grocery shopping is available from three stores. Kroger, Meijer, and now Aldi. The local Walgreen's does not deliver [they say a staff shortage prevents it] ? I am considering calling the other two in the area and ask.I currently live in NYC and am researching areas to retire that are walkable to supermarkets, pharmacies, public libraries, etc. I don't drive, never had, and it seems most affordable cities, towns outside of New York are car dependent. Any suggestions out there?
I agree, RGP. These days, people can manage without driving in most US small towns through large cities.In most towns if you live "in" there should be some convenience . Even here in my little village , if ya live just a mile closer than I to town-center, many restaurants, bars, coffee shops ,etc. can be walked to. And on-line grocery shopping is available from three stores. Kroger, Meijer, and now Aldi. The local Walgreen's does not deliver [they say a staff shortage prevents it] ? I am considering calling the other two in the area and ask.
Well it’s more fun for some people—not me; I absolutely hate drving (and am terrible at it anyway)—but all that ends with the fender-bender that takes your license away. And let’s face it: doesn’t matter who you are, if you live long enough that will happen.Yeah, basic independence is possible, @StarSong but life is more fun and spontaneous and convenient WITH a car
No doubt you're right. My point is that when driving isn't possible, cobbling together local shopping options along with public and private transportation offers independence. Sure it takes her longer to get places. But she gets there, undaunted. Her attitude is admirable and inspiring.Yeah, basic independence is possible, but life is more fun and spontaneous and convenient WITH a car. You wouldn't believe how many shopping centers with big parking lots now available in Big Apple.
To go to my favorite small park by bus would take me 90 minutes. By car, 15 or 20.
Well, ........ I might give it up voluntarily , other than the bank & drug store, I really don't need to drive. And yes I know the bank can easily be switched to electronic. And I'm sure I can find some solution to the drug store, I just haven't looked hard enough.I agree, RGP. These days, people can manage without driving in most US small towns through large cities.
A dear friend in her early 70s in San Diego gave up driving a couple of years ago due to eye issues. Between relocating to a condo very near a large shopping center with all manner of stores, taking advantage of Amazon & other home deliveries, learning the the local public transportation system, hiring Uber/Lyft when necessary, and taking Greyhound buses for travel farther away, she manages nearly as well as she did when driving.
Before seeing how she'd adapted, I'd feared the day when DH & I might have to give up driving. She's living proof that independence is possible with or without a car in the driveway.
So expensive Sanfran has its own minimum, which is higher. At least it did.Start by looking at the city chart on this web page:
https://www.governing.com/archive/car-ownership-numbers-of-vehicles-by-city-map.html
Those with high numbers of people without vehicles will have more public transportation.
The below link has a rating listing for public transportation of larger cities that also includes average market rental prices:
https://www.redfin.com/blog/us-cities-with-the-best-public-transportation/
The chart shows Philadelphia has both great transportation and lower cost rentals. In any case, any senior planning to live in a city via public transportation may find desirable, safe, walkable, residential rentals are also expensive despite average market rental prices.
I visit San Francisco frequently. News media descriptions of crime in the city usually fail to mention there are plenty of sections of that city that are relatively safe and that crime ridden areas tend to be concentrated in some downtown, tourist, and historically poor areas. That noted, it is also true that residential rentals have also become expensive over the last 2 decades since it is such an exceptionally desirable place to live...if one can afford it.
I'm looking for people who are open to moving to a different area who need but can't afford independent and assisted living facilities in the usa. I am now in Pennsylvania but would like to relocate to an area i find more cheerful. I have debilitating depression.I would love to relocate and retire to England (not necessarily London though) but I understand it is almost impossible, as an American citizen with no ties to England, to be allowed to permanently take up residence there.
I would love to live somewhere like that so much; I just know I'm gonna die out here in the sticks.I live in a nice little town on the south east side of Syracuse in an apt that I have been in for 6 yrs. There is an opening now. The town has everything top notch that you need. I can walk to my Dr, there are 2 food stores I can walk to, 2 pharms, eateries, a paid rescue squad, a fire dept, all within walking distance. There are 2 vetrinarians one walkable, a hardware store ( my cousin owns that), 3 banks and the list goes on. Very little if any crime . I like it here. My apt building has issues but they are being worked out.
Pets are allowed but smoking on any level is not. It is very quiet and pretty friendly. There is a maintenance staff and a manager here 3 days a week. Contolled security entrance and low income.
Get on the bus, GusI would love to live somewhere like that so much; I just know I'm gonna die out here in the sticks.![]()
No busses out here.Get on the bus, Gus