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Years, maybe 25 or 30 DH made a little patio out of slate he got in Virginia. It has liriope on each side. At that time we had a swing with a pergola over it.
Over the years the pergola rotted so we bought a bench that was heavy iron and wood.
The wood on the bench is rotting and I actually used zip ties to keep it from leaning until we replace the wood. 🙄
I went out to weed between the slate and sweep it off. As I got going I decided to fix the slate as some had moved and was missing ( I had it set aside) .
While doing this I realized over the years the slate had become hidden by dirt, and grass creeping up the sides. I actually thought the bench was sitting on dirt. No! There was beautiful pieces of slate under it!
I spent hours scraping dirt to uncover this beautiful patio DH made! It's twice as big.
DH is at an appt. I think he's going to want a new bench!
 

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No sane person wants that but what he did, you had to be there, it was terrifying and of course an accident definitely Could Have Occurred. I'm no baby, it takes a lot to scare me. I learned to drive in Manhattan.
Pepper tbf..you say it takes a lot to scare you, but you're constantly on edge about everything... especially the Access rides...
 
Went to bed last night knowing that the village to the north of us (not many kilometers or miles north) has been issued an evacuation order (due to wildfire). We've been assembling essential things to load into our little car and our pickup truck for evacuation, if the fire comes closer. In the event, the local authorities would issue an evacuation order for neighborhoods like ours.

At the same time, we prepare meals, pick the ripe berries, stay in touch with friends, and maintain normal life here as much as possible.

We welcome and appreciate any prayers, compassionate vibes, and the like — that people are willing to send this way, for our friends, neighbors, and our homesites.🙏
Be safe, @JBR. I was just checking the wildfire reports. They never seem to have enough info. I presume you’re on a local discussion group somewhere.
I recently read the riveting but terrifying "Fire Weather: A True Story from a Hotter World" by John Valliant, detailing the horrific 2016 Fort McMurray fire in Alberta.

My thoughts are with you, your neighbors, the firefighters and all others affected by the Jasper Fire. Hoping there is continued progress in containing this fire.
 
Pepper tbf..you say it takes a lot to scare you, but you're constantly on edge about everything... especially the Access rides...
In December, I was assaulted by a deranged passenger. It was so shocking I had a breakdown. Nothing was done, even though the mental health clinic I am attached to filed a separate complaint. Nothing is done. Yes, AAR has damaged me. I could list one hundred incidents. I am dependent on them, at least until the elevator on my subway station is completed. Then I will have more independence. With AAR, I have no control. I don't feel comfortable being controlled by others. Makes me feel helpless and nervous.

I'm not on edge about 'everything'.
 
In December, I was assaulted by a deranged passenger. It was so shocking I had a breakdown. Nothing was done, even though the mental health clinic I am attached to filed a separate complaint. Nothing is done. Yes, AAR has damaged me. I could list one hundred incidents. I am dependent on them, at least until the elevator on my subway station is completed. Then I will have more independence. With AAR, I have no control. I don't feel comfortable being controlled by others. Makes me feel helpless and nervous.

I'm not on edge about 'everything'.
I'm sorry that happened to you, no-one should ever be assaulted much less on public transport... but with all due respect you do seem very highly strung about most things.
 
In December, I was assaulted by a deranged passenger. It was so shocking I had a breakdown. Nothing was done, even though the mental health clinic I am attached to filed a separate complaint. Nothing is done. Yes, AAR has damaged me. I could list one hundred incidents. I am dependent on them, at least until the elevator on my subway station is completed. Then I will have more independence. With AAR, I have no control. I don't feel comfortable being controlled by others. Makes me feel helpless and nervous.

I'm not on edge about 'everything'.
A sincere question - if the issue is that your subway station's elevator isn't operational, why not take a cab or uber to the closest SW station with an elevator, bypassing AAR altogether? It might cost a few dollars but wouldn't it be worth it?
 
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Maybe I don't have "a few dollars."
I apologize for being presumptuous. Given how much anxiety you've expressed about AAR, and your sometimes bad experiences when using it, I'm merely trying to be helpful.

Since I already looked this up on your behalf, I'm including a link to a free Uber estimator so you can see what it would likely cost to use them for traveling from your building to the closest subway station with an elevator.
Uber Estimate • Real-time Uber Fare Estimator

I hope this is useful.
 
Thank you for your good intentions, but No, it is not useful. What about going home? Do it all in reverse? Double my anxiety?

Door to door Uber to my son is $120. One way. A yellow cab is $70-$90; I last took a yellow six years ago the day my grandson was born.
Yes, do it again on the way home. Take public transport to the closest elevator subway stop, then Uber or cab the rest of the way.

Why would this be anxiety provoking if the reason you have to use AAR rather than public transportation is that your nearest subway stop has no elevator??? Maybe I'm missing something.
 
Thank you for your good intentions, but No, it is not useful. What about going home? Do it all in reverse? Double my anxiety?

Door to door Uber to my son is $120. One way. A yellow cab is $70-$90; I last took a yellow six years ago the day my grandson was born.
...and Uber is more expensive than a yellow Cab ?...wow...it works the other way around here. Uber is by far the more affordable compared to Hackney cabs or private hire
 
Maybe I'm missing something.
You're missing a lot. There are things you don't know. Drop it. Let me use this forum to complain; that is a big help. I didn't ask for advice, btw, and it's starting to really irritate me. I can tell you this because I feel we have a good relationship.
 
1998 I took a cab across town, $20 then. Metro was $5 but it took a couple of hours.
There is Science in riding a Metro Bus around a large City. Riding the Elevated is really
Fun, you go miles out of town, turn around in a large loop and go off in a different direction.
 
Hi gang!!! I'm here but lazy as can be, guess this heat is a good
reason to be lazy, 89right now, up to 100 for next 3 or 4 days....
heat index will be over 100F all week, so ain't doing a thing less
I have to, so there!!! Surprisingly my pain level is almost zero,
wowee, I got some pain patches off amazon just the right size
for my hands and they've helped my hands a bunch....eating
nothing but sweets too, as I don't have to cook them, or tv
dinners....anyhoo y'all take care, catch u later on !!!! ;):cool::D:devilish:
 
Today we took Likkle Grandson on the train across the bay to Grange-Over-Sands. A quick look in the park then lunch at a nice cafe. More park time including the compulsory duck feeding then back on the train. He loves a train. Dunno where he got that from 😇
 

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