yes once ..it was to much for me …..OMG the huge Big old stone creepy building was surrounded by a huge wire fence no razor wire but very similar to prisons …..and the yard was full of people with dementia….some had the belief they were kangaroos and jumped around the fence like a roo’s ….omg …the big stone building/ fence is still there but it’s surrounded by a big new development of town houses.( it was the hospitals ground )
@PeppermintPatty
I lived 3 hour drive each way from Adelaide where my mother was in the institution so it wasn’t as if she was just down the road
I tasted beer for the very first time when I was 40 years old , and I’ve tasted wine that tasted more like vinegar to me …..nah never ever tasted more than a sip of either … the pub life never interested me ..it just not my style sitting in a pub day after …day ….i put I put up with drunks at home ….I had no interest in putting up with them as a social outing as well …… I’d rather be out in the garden TBH
Where we dance is a community hall no booze seen at ANY dances we attend here or interstate .
Never smoked …..i never liked the smell …of cigarettes when I was a kid ,
so had no intentions of taking in that smelly habbit …..Drugs yep ….


but wait ….not anything like that


, when I go get my packet of BP and cholesterol pills once every 2 months ..I say to the chemist I’ve come in for my drugs





my cholesterol is 3.8 so i don’t even know why I take them ..( once a week ) .
And besides I was flat out feeding myself and the kids let alone finding money for booze and smokes ,
DH drank when I met him ..(only beer ) ( 1 was single for 14 years by choice )
DH gave up drinking long ~ long … ago he’s never smoked or taken drugs , either he may have one can of light beer at Christmas but usually doesn't bother .
Where we live there is 6 hotels in a small town .I've never been in any of them ….and when DH wanted a carton of beer ( he’d buy a carton once or twice a year ) he ask me of I’d get it and I’d blankly refuse if he wants to drink it he has to go buy it …..simple as that