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I've had two, I have also fought cancer among other things and managed everything alone. I'm also not an emotionally needy person either. Life is so much better without them.


well if your relationships were not good, then., yes I guess you are better off without your ex wives - and they without you

and some people are more suited to being single, nothing wrong there, if that is you.

For others they are better off in a partnership.

we are all different.
 
I had a real immature ex who liked to destroy things. She had to go. Marriage lasted less than a year.
Good for you. I have even asked my stepfather why he didn't leave and did he ever talk to his family. He said he didn't talk to his family and he was afraid of my mother. Due to some other thing he said, I can only imagine the misery she would have caused him if he tried to leave. Not compared to the misery of him staying with her though. At least that would have had to come to an end.
 
At Nuremberg (Germany), there is a fountain, the "Marriage Carousel".

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The young marriage:

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Some years later with children:

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Still some years later:

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Later:

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Later:

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Later (The end of marriage):

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All pics and a lot of more can be found here:
Category:Ehekarussell – Wikimedia Commons
 
If, as you describe, she was such an a- - hole, why did you marry her in the first place ? Sounds like you might have been a bit mentally lacking at that stage in your life?
Sometimes the crazy doesn't come out until after the marriage. The crazy isn't limited to just one side, but tends to lean more towards the female from what I've seen.

I watched my brother go through it with ex-wife.

At the moment, one couple we've known for a long time finally separated after he couldn't tolerate her crazy any more. Even her adult children (not his kids) hasn't sided with her.
 
After working his farm every day, an old farmer rarely had time to enjoy the large pond in the back that he had fixed up years earlier with picnic tables, horseshoe courts, and benches. So one evening he decided to go down and see how things were holding up. Much to his surprise, he heard voices shouting and laughing with glee. As he came closer he saw it was a group of young women skinny dipping in his pond.
He made the women aware of his presence and they all went to the deep end. One of the women shouted to him, "We're not coming out until you leave."
The old farmer replied, "I didn't come down here to watch you ladies swim or make you get out of the pond naked. I only came down to feed the alligator."
Moral: Old age and treachery will always triumph over youth and skill.
 
Sometimes the crazy doesn't come out until after the marriage.
That's true. If one is hiding the crazy in order to be admired and the other one really is in love then yes, the crazy comes out after the one in love has invested himself into the relationship. "Covert narcissism" is well documented and the effect it has on the victiem is also understood.
The crazy isn't limited to just one side, but tends to lean more towards the female from what I've seen.
Yes.

 
Are you suggesting with MGTOW that all women throw things at their men? or that some women through things at men? If it is the first you have demonstrated how racism begins, or in this case misogyny. If it is the second, men throw things, and are physically abusive to their mates, men are often violent with each other. Which is it?

Don't answer "yes". :)
That's like asking if you are stupid or just pretending to be. Such a question displays intolerance and an absurd conclusion.
 
Watch the video
Okay, that made me cross. Fix your wife dinner or take her out. If you can't do it right go to the bathroom, look at your two hands and decide which one is more attractive.
Watch the video again. She initiated the dialogue, not he. You can't have it both ways even if you want.
 
As a married man for nearly three decades, let me quote this from a book of a German novelist. My wife and I like the quote.

"Als Kind hatte ich Angst vor dem Scheintod. Es war die Angst lebendig begraben zu sein. Dann habe ich doch geheiratet."

Translation by deepl.com: "As a child, I was afraid of apparent death. It was the fear of being buried alive. Then I got married after all."

Source: Arnold Stadler: Ein hinreissender Schrotthändler (Arnold Stadler: A Gorgeous Scrap Dealer)
 
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