Do you feel like you HAVE to do something constructive every day?

[Nathan]

"Old habits are hard to break", that is so true when leaving the career and working world behind after you retire.
I like to stay active and regularly participate in fitness classes and such. But, there are days when if it doesn't positively-absolutely-has-to-be done-today....then it won't...guilt free.

 

[jujube]

Nope, I absolutely delight in days I have accomplished nothing.

"Whatcha doing today?"

"Nothing."

"But that's what you did yesterday!"

"Didn't get finished."

 

[hollydolly]

In truth I feel guilty if I don't get at least Something accomplished

 

[CallMeKate]

No, I don't need something constructive to do every day. I'm good with just gliding along and seeing what comes up.

 

[Twostep]

"Old habits are hard to break", that is so true when leaving the career and working world behind after you retire.
I like to stay active and regularly participate in fitness classes and such. But, there are days when if it doesn't positively-absolutely-has-to-be done-today....then it won't...guilt free.

I have yet to try not to have dinner on the table by 8:30.

 

[Who_so_ever]

Define "constructive"....

 

[katlupe]

I make a list of things I need to do every day. Some days all I do is make the list. I figure I will use the same list tomorrow.

 

[Nathan]

I have yet to try not to have dinner on the table by 8:30.

In my world that's pretty late for dinner, I'm headed for bed at 8:40pm, just like clockwork.

 

[Jace]

In truth I feel guilty if I don't get at least Something accomplished

Yes,me,.too!
That's how I was ' brought up'

 

[Dave03]

Unfortunately, I don't have any choice in the matter. I have to do something constructive every day.

 

[Twostep]

In my world that's pretty late for dinner, I'm headed for bed at 8:40pm, just like clockwork.

Good for you! We are still somewhat on my work schedule.

 

[MACKTEXAS]

Most days I plan to do certain things, and if I don't get them done, that bothers me. But now and then I like to have a do nothing day.

 

[Michael Z]

Yes, except for Sunday. On Sunday I go to church, then come home and watch tv, put a puzzle together, play an instrument, or take a nap. No major physical activities - I often need this to rest my body from other activities of the week.

Also, I will get out fishing if the weather is right and that will take much of the day. But last summer I did not hardly get out at all because of the huge siding project I was working on. No big projects this summer!

 

[squatting dog]

Yes.

 

[astralcat]

No. I prefer keeping busy but some things that keep me busy are mindless and can’t be considered as constructive. And yes, I have days where I spend more time on my computer than I should. It all evens out eventually.

 

[That Lady in PA]

Yes...
because I think getting dressed is constructive, making the bed is constructive, cooking is constructive, etc.

 

[hollydolly]

Unfortunately, I don't have any choice in the matter. I have to do something constructive every day.

why have you no choice ?

 

[hollydolly]

Yes...
because I think getting dressed is constructive, making the bed is constructive, cooking is constructive, etc.

..and all of that is Valid..

If we think of those who cannot do those things on a daily basis... and would give their right arm to be able to do it...

 

[hollydolly]

Yes, except for Sunday. On Sunday I go to church, then come home and watch tv, put a puzzle together, play an instrument, or take a nap. No major physical activities - I often need this to rest my body from other activities of the week.

Also, I will get out fishing if the weather is right and that will take much of the day. But last summer I did not hardly get out at all because of the huge siding project I was working on. No big projects this summer!

..but then you're doing constructive things all day Sunday.. even if they are dfferent to those you do during the week...

 

[C50]

I like to accomplish things, I'm not as driven as earlier in my life but that's because I didn't put things off until now.

 

[Dave03]

why have you no choice ?

I have a handicapped person living with me. She always needs tending to.

 

[hollydolly]

I have a handicapped person living with me. She always needs tending to.

oh of course you've spoken of her before.... ...you're angels .... I wish you and your wife could get a respite day every week at least

 

[Paco Dennis]

Yep...always moving further Maybe inches at a time, but I think forward/constructive.

 

[Lewkat]

No, I do not feel I must do something constructive daily. But, guess what? I usually wind up doing just that. No rest for the wicked as mom used to say.

 

[seadoug]

Nope. When I was working, I used to putter around the house on weekends doing everything I could to be productive while hubby sat on the couch watching TV. He used to tell me that "relaxing and recharging" were actually accomplishing something. I still never sat still. Now I've finally resigned myself to the fact that relaxation and less stress can prolong my life.

I go to the gym and do errands. When the taxes are due, I put all my energy into that. If I need to make a doctor's appointment or take my car in for service that is at the top of my list. Otherwise, I choose to relax and enjoy my retirement.