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I did things in the garden. I want a medal.

Welp. Going back to work as a biscuit bitch is out of the question. DD's reaction to whether she'd be willing to take me to work at 4am was a hard "NO! Please don't make me get up at 3:30 in the morning." Phooey:(

She said she "knows" it's easy for me to get up that early, but it isn't for her. Nope. It's not easy to get up that early so I understand her reluctance.
 

Now on a sunny blue sky with a 78F high expected later Monday May 5, 2025, I'm into my day 4 of surgery recovery. My recovery this first week continues to be slow, uneven, uncomfortable. However am out of significant mortal dangers versus last Thursday afternoon when I was wheeled on a patient transport cart into the Kaiser Permanente Hospital operating room. My 76 year old life's first major surgery experience. My immune system knocked out the foul gastroenteritis virus I obviously picked up at the hospital in less than a day so can eat more normally now.

I have a large bandaged, angled, 5 inch incision in my left groin with much as yet unviewable stitching both on my skin surface as well as below attaching gut membranes and ligaments to synthetic mesh implants. The doctor's long impressive technical report of what they performed and saw is surprisingly detailed with medical terminology I will at some time analyze to understand.

Laying or sitting still has little sensation but movement like rising from a chair and moving, I can feel small areas of stitching monofilament pain that will take time to heal and recede. Even sitting up from say a prone bed position must be done slowly, gingerly.

Fortunately, as a retired senior that prepared my residence beforehand, I don't need to return to employment, drive my car elsewhere, meet with any others, or engage in any activity outside my older two story residence. And that includes enough food to last until I drive in maybe a week. I could drive briefly now if necessary, but will not. Each day, I'll walk outside briefly to fetch my postal mail.

A major unexpected debacle has however made my recovery period very different than what I had expected and the main reason for of noting such in seniorforums dot com as it will impact my activity herein. Two years ago my old 2003 era HP Windows desktop motherboard with all my graphic software, power supply function failed in a way I would not be able to repair by merely replacing the power supply module. Now collecting dust. Was able to move Photoshop and other key software to my expensive powerful 2014 Dell XPS-15 laptop and run from there.

But prior to driving to the hospital Thursday, Windows 10 was apparently secretly trying to install one of their hidden from user awareness updates. Not having time to wait for whatever that was to complete after running Shutdown, with the power on button forced a shutdown that corrupted key boot files. The last couple days twice ran from a command prompt chkdsk /f that shows uncorrectable attributes file errors putting the drive into a stuck write protect mode. Although most of my important personal files are safe on two other external 4tb drives, the graphic apps like Photoshop are not.

Thus now need to wait till I am recovered from surgery enough to visit a PC repair service where they have special programs capable of rebuilding the corrupted file structures. If that doesn't work will run a low level format then rebuild, installing Windows and all. Or buy a new desktop.

In the mean time for web use, am using my old moto g6 Android phone and as I type, a cheap slow $220 Windows 11 pc laptop I bought last year for travel and possible situations like this. It uses a touchpad I dislike versus computer mouse and lacks many programs I had on the Dell. So yeah, am here but hobbled. Since I can't do much real computer work else anyway, will probably spend more time at this board than expected.

My Dell with a 24" 4k UHD external monitor was downstairs on a fancy multi level mobile computer cart in my living room where I could watch TV at the same time. Instead my new "headquarters" will be upstairs atop a king size floor mattress in my southwest bedroom next to a large window with good light to the west. Per doctor instructions, am drinking a lot more fluids than usual. With my adjacent bathroom, don't need to walk up and down stairs. So have lots of items on the floor next to me I can easily grab. Just made 8oz of a Trader Joe's vegetable fried rice package for lunch.
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Welp. Going back to work as a biscuit bitch is out of the question. DD's reaction to whether she'd be willing to take me to work at 4am was a hard "NO! Please don't make me get up at 3:30 in the morning." Phooey:(

She said she "knows" it's easy for me to get up that early, but it isn't for her. Nope. It's not easy to get up that early so I understand her reluctance.
I'd have been surprised if she'd said yes. That's a big ask.
 
Happy Tuesday, May 6th, fellow SF-ers! As planned yesterday, I did almost nothing constructive. After a busy weekend, I wanted a relaxed day. It wasn't difficult to get DH to do the same. :cool:

Today's plan: business ordering, counting, separating, etc. Also a little housework and perhaps a load of laundry.

Only 67 for a high today, but the weather's on a warming trend. Expected high Saturday is 96 before temps drop back to the mid-60s next Tuesday.

Hope all have a great day. I'll catch you kids later!
 
@StarSong Yeah, I know it was a big ask. DD is pretty much the family Uber/Lyft/county bus driver, and that's why it took me so long to work up the nerve to ask.

Also, DGD is going to try to go back to work starting tomorrow, which means that DD has to be her drop off/pick up person. At least, the earliest DGD will ever have to be at work is 8am.

DGD going back to work is a whole other story. It's hard to do nothing, but she may have bitten off more than she can chew. It's not like there's a cure for RA or that it's a self-limiting disease. Stay tuned.
 
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He needs to be either fixed or relocated elsewhere.
Absolutely! Having an unfixed cat as a pet is nuts! Also, his name in contemptuous and leads me to think you won't love him. You were being sarcastic in naming him, IMO. He is just living up to the name you chose for him. Notice I will not use his name in print.
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change his name to something that you love or get rid of him. I knew a maniacal male orange once. He would stalk, then when you let your guard down he would lunge & bite. Some cats are just crazy.
 
I did things in the garden. I want a medal.

Welp. Going back to work as a biscuit bitch is out of the question. DD's reaction to whether she'd be willing to take me to work at 4am was a hard "NO! Please don't make me get up at 3:30 in the morning." Phooey:(

She said she "knows" it's easy for me to get up that early, but it isn't for her. Nope. It's not easy to get up that early so I understand her reluctance.
well you can't argue that can you?.. It's a heckava time for anyone to get up to take somebody elese to work and then go back again just a few hours later....especially as she's near her pension age herself

Perhaps tho' if you tell her you're desperate for something to do she might help you think of something...

Can you work from home doing something ...are there companies who will let you work from home ?
 
Starting to feel more like myself after last week's colonoscopy/endoscopy. It's frightening that it is taking me so long to recover from a common procedure. I blame it on being 75. No other reason makes sense.
when are you going to tell us about the Access ride thing that you said was so damaging that you're going to Sue ?:unsure:...and then there was a second one after that wasn't there ?
 
That is your fault not the cat's.

Feeding a stray cat doesn’t mean I signed up to be attacked or have him pee on my belongings. I’m not running a wildlife sanctuary, it’s my home. If he can’t behave, he gets neutered or relocated. That’s not cruelty, it’s common sense. And no, it’s not the cat’s fault or mine, it’s just a situation that needs to be handled before it gets worse.
 
Absolutely! Having an unfixed cat as a pet is nuts! Also, his name in contemptuous and leads me to think you won't love him. You were being sarcastic in naming him, IMO. He is just living up to the name you chose for him. Notice I will not use his name in print. eta change his name to something that you love or get rid of him. I knew a maniacal male orange once. He would stalk, then when you let your guard down he would lunge & bite. Some cats are just crazy.

Pepper, I feed ten cats on my block, not just this one, and one of the benefits is that we have zero rats around here—none. As for the name, I was being tongue-in-cheek, not hateful. I don’t hate him; I just don’t want him claiming my bedroom floor and biting me when I try to move him. I’m all for neutering, but let's not pretend the name caused the behavior. Some toms are just wired that way.
 
Pepper, I feed ten cats on my block, not just this one, and one of the benefits is that we have zero rats around here—none. As for the name, I was being tongue-in-cheek, not hateful. I don’t hate him; I just don’t want him claiming my bedroom floor and biting me when I try to move him. I’m all for neutering, but let's not pretend the name caused the behavior. Some toms are just wired that way.
We were feeding an unfixed male stray who we hoped to capture and neuter. One day he bit my housemate who was simply adjusting his food. It seemed like an automatic reaction out of fear but we couldn't have him mauling those who were trying to help so he was encouraged to leave.
 
Pepper, I feed ten cats on my block, not just this one, and one of the benefits is that we have zero rats around here—none. As for the name, I was being tongue-in-cheek, not hateful. I don’t hate him; I just don’t want him claiming my bedroom floor and biting me when I try to move him. I’m all for neutering, but let's not pretend the name caused the behavior. Some toms are just wired that way.
'' but let's not pretend the name caused the behavior "

Well I would not rule it out but that's me .
 
Just stopped by to see how every one is doing.

Hubby & I saw the doctor to learn what is going on with hubby's legs
His left leg has hardening of arteries.
No medication or advice was given. ?? !!

Does anyone else have this problem with their legs?
Any advice?

Our good friend bought us her husband's peddle machine,, similar to what is used at gyms.
Hubby has used it twice so far,,, hope he keeps on doing it.

Another good thing that we learned today,,,is there is to be dentist working in that area of the hospital this Summer.
We both signed up for dental cleanings.

Now if they would get an ophthalmologist to 'move ' in too.

Hope all that are feeling 'in ill health' a successful recover (y) :) .
 
@hollydolly No, no! I don't fault DD for not wanting to get up in time to wake the rooster. Not at all.

Between us, we've racked our brains for ideas but so far have come up empty.

There's really nothing I can do from home. It's not a matter of just "working from home." There's a hefty investment in equipment such as DD has and is just plain unaffordable, at least for me. Anyway, since the first time I retired when my computer skills were at their peak (1990), things have changed a bit. LOL! It's past time for me to simply resign myself to being a little old retired lady who gardens. I mean, geez, next birthday I'll be 85.

Just an FYI folks...never, ever touch a cat or dog or their food while they're eating!

@oslooskar It could be that neutering Trump would calm him down a good bit and would also contribute to fewer feral kittens.
 
Starting to feel more like myself after last week's colonoscopy/endoscopy. It's frightening that it is taking me so long to recover from a common procedure. I blame it on being 75. No other reason makes sense.
I am not sure about being 75 I had emergency surgery bit over a month , tumor in stomach but not cancerous and my key to recovery besides being somewhat insane was SLEEP .

I try to get 10 to 11 hours however in reality taking into account bathroom I get like an actual 45 minutes , lol I'm kidding but I imagine at least 8 1/2 to 9 as fall right back to sleep and this Thu with stitches out start working on a friends food truck and I was beat till 2 weeks ago but sleep for me is the key .

I also think Colostrum which take every day goes a long way .
 
The closest bus stop is two miles away, and Uber or Lyft cost is prohibitive at that hour of the morning. >le sigh<

If a job should just happen to come along at more acceptable hours, I'll be all over it like white on rice.
Oh yes it makes no sense with uber / lyft and bus 2 miles away is impossible .

As you know you keep eyes open and ask around .

I have never had a resume nor can do 1/4 of what you can online . phone , etc but yes I have been lucky and hope luck finds you as one needs it .
 
Wow that is no joke . I imagine it hurts like hell .

Is Trump your actual cat or a feral cat you feed ?

I had no idea there was such a thing as rabies booster , I am only familiar with the archaic series of shots in the stomach .

I would not keep Trump as do not see anything good coming from Trump , can't be trusted .

Edit , just read he is stray cat you feed .
Is there a single post that does not get twisted?
 


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