Paulina
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I worry so much about being alone. Should my husband go before I do, I don't know what I'm going to do. The idea even wakes me up sometimes. Sorry, thanks for letting me spill.
AGREE!Worried? ... nothing really.
Worry is a waste of time and doesn't change anything.
I plan for the worst and hope for the best.
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
Me too.Afraid of everything. Disgusted with myself, but there you have it. Was recently given Dementia Test. Passed, easily. My problem is anxiety, panic.
There are things that scare me certainly. But worry, I don't do it. When God rings times up, it's gonna be ... Later, I have to go home.
My estranged first husband died when our boys were just 3 1/2 years old. I was already one of those people who voiced my love for people pretty freely. After that i was more consciously doing it. To this day my kids (guys are 50, DD will be 42 in September) and i always part on loving words. DD lives with me, even on those rare occasions we've had a disagreement the last thing we say to each other when i drop her at work or we're going to bed is-- i love you.To die without having said I LOVE YOU to every one l love. Most of all I want to die with a peaceful heart.
My thoughts too. Ive had many "issues". I always try to consider what is the worst thing that can happen and how would I deal with it. Once youre prepared theres no need to worry. Besides the worst rarely happens. And you just got yourself all wound up over nothing. Prepare for the worst. Hope for the best.I don't do worry either. For me it is more like having realistic concerns that i consider ways to handle. Just yesterday driving my son & grandson to the airport we were talking about there's a difference between recognizing potential issues, events and considering ways to deal-- and worrying. Preparing mentally without getting obsessively fearful.
I don't know if it is still there, but a few years ago a government website had instructions for how to prepare for a Zombie Apocalypse for 2 reasons:My thoughts too. Ive had many "issues". I always try to consider what is the worst thing that can happen and how would I deal with it. Once youre prepared theres no need to worry. Besides the worst rarely happens. And you just got yourself all wound up over nothing. Prepare for the worst. Hope for the best.![]()
Thank the Lord. We're finally getting to discuss REAL problems.A shortage of toilet paper? Hey, it already happened once.![]()
What does a "Dementia test consist of ?Me too.
Hmmm, I don't know. I forgot...What does a "Dementia test consist of ?