Do you think the years go rushing on too quickly?

I had a boyfriend who used to try to get me to think about events in terms of the year they occurred so as not to have the problems of forgetting--but I just never could get the knack of doing it. Like a lot of people mentioned, I say something happened 5 years ago, then when I really figure it out it turns out to be 20-plus years.

My brain is breaking just thinking about this subject. I sometimes feel like time is flying compared to the long past. But sometimes I feel like, at 79 I've been old forever.
 

I often remember things that happen in the past. Think about when and then with a little research find I am off by 5 or more years. I suspect it is normal for all of us. Life seems so short as they say, yet when you look at your past, pictures, videos etc you are amazed at the years that have past. Most days in our lives are mundane. Wake, eat, go to work, come home, eat dinner. Watch favorite shows then go to bed.
We forget most of this. We remember the special occasions, the vacations and the extraordinary times that stay in our memories. We just don't remember the everyday lives that we live. I tend to think that we compress history to those special times. Hence, life seems short, or at least the perception is that life is short. Life is short to which I agree but our lives are full and we wish that it would go on forever.
However, our ages tell us otherwise. It's normal. We all feel the same. The reality is that we can't hide, we can't make it go away and we can't make it stop. We have to accept.
just my opinion
bob
 
A day has endless hours yet the years slip away fast. Even Einstein cannot explain it.

The time and its passing are mysterious indeed.
 
For those that have taken hallucinogens, the perception of time moves more slowly, the more so expanded, the more seeming so. However, while affected so, one only is aware that is the case after some time has passed and then one looks at a clock, only to be surprised to find much less time passed than what it mentally seemed. In other words, perception feels normal and not like watching a slow motion film.

If expanded so while actively participating in a sport, it is also possible to perform as though one has modestly more time to both perceive and react even though other negative effects may result in no advantage unless one has trained to overcome negative effects. Note, supposed research will tend to state the opposite that is more about publicly discouraging there are any such advantages. At the same, they will ban whatever as cheating that shows they actually know otherwise.

The same mental phenomenon can occur while sleep dreaming. While say one is sleepy while watching a tv program, one may briefly nod off, and then wake up ten minutes later (from a loud commercial), and wonder why the dream seemed to have been a much longer episode of whatever that in the dream seemed to be moving along at a normal rate?

The above indicates the perception of time passage is neural system based. Accordingly, that is likely why as we age, time awareness moment to moment doesn't seem to be moving along any faster than when we were younger while when one checks how many years have passed, it seems to be accelerating.
 
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Of course there's eternity, it's all around you. How can the universe have an end, geographically?
Who knows? There is no strong scientific consensus about it. Some think the universe is expanding, but others say it's possible for it to begin retracting back into another singularity. If time began with the initial expansion, it will likely end when the universe expires. If you believe that time existed before the singularity, you are using intuition, and I won't argue about it, which is why I qualified eternity in such a way that the it leaves the question open to more investigation. But it's just as possible that you are right. Hang in there. In billions of years, the question may be answered with more certainty.
 
Yes, especially when you think how long it's been since certain family members have passed away.
For instance:
My father: 59 years
My mother: 27 years next month
My brother: 5 years ago.
My first grandparent (mother's mother) 68 years ago next month
 

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