2026 - my ups and downs

Jules said:
Oh no. Not knowing is harder than dealing with facts. Perhaps Goober has wandered to some warm spot and the folks thought he was a stray. I guess you have put up posters on utility poles. Local chat groups can keep a watch.
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No......I live in an extremely rural area. There are no utility poles, nor anyone to see any posters.

Goober is considered "semi faral".....he would not walk up to someone, or just let anyone pick him up. He could have been accidentally locked into someone's barn, but it's been four days and you'd think he'd have gotten out by now.

I know for a fact that he is not lost. If he were able to come home, he would. Again, the circumstances of his disappearance seems suspicious. 😕
 

Trila said:
No......I live in an extremely rural area. There are no utility poles, nor anyone to see any posters.

Goober is considered "semi faral".....he would not walk up to someone, or just let anyone pick him up. He could have been accidentally locked into someone's barn, but it's been four days and you'd think he'd have gotten out by now.

I know for a fact that he is not lost. If he were able to come home, he would. Again, the circumstances of his disappearance seems suspicious. 😕
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what do you suspect has happened to him...in your heart of hearts.. do you think he might have been run over...or what ?
 
hollydolly said:
what do you suspect has happened to him...in your heart of hearts.. do you think he might have been run over...or what ?
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No....he was smart enough to stay away from the road when a car came by.

Just after 3 PM he was playing in the yard, waiting for his dinner. At 4 PM I went to feed him and he was gone. He always hangs around the house at dinner time!! I have to think that his disappearance was directly influenced by a person or people.

None of the people who live around me are friendly, so I don't really know any of them. All I do know is that "something fishy" happened. I wish I knew what, but even knowing won't bring him back.
 

It‘s too bad that there’s no place to put a poster or an online chat group so you could use the sometimes magic word “Reward”. Hugs. It’s a void feeling not knowing where you much loved pet is.
 
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It has been one week since Goober disappeared under suspicious circumstances. I'm still numb. I've tried to distract myself by going to the gym, my Mom's, and skating. While at home, I've attempted to read, but was not able to concentrate. So mostly, I've immersed myself in "my game".

Today, I will pack up his toys and his bed, etc. But I'm not giving up on him coming home. I will continue my vigil of looking out of the windows, waiting, waiting, waiting.....
 
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I, too, live rurally. The lifespan of cats here is not very long. Coyotes, bobcats, hawks, many predators are to blame. My neighbor had a kitty that was attacked by a turkey, ripped her up pretty badly but with surgery she survived. And didn't stray far from the house thereafter.

The worst part is not knowing. I am so sorry you are suffering with this.
 
MountainRa said:
I live in a rural area as well and have had the same experience as many of you. It’s been a little more than a year since our big yellow tom disappeared. ( I blame a coyote). You’re exactly right- the hardest part is not knowing.
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So sorry for the absence of your beautiful Goober. Hoping for a safe return.

For those in coyote areas I understand that now is the mating period for coyotes. We need to be extra vigilent.
 
We do have coyotes here, and we have lost cats to them before.

However, there are other factors involved that make doubt that a predator got him. But all of you are right....regardless of what I think/believe happened, not knowing for sure is the hardest part.

No closure. 😕

We put his house away, in the barn, today. That is something that hits me hard, having that empty spot right where I always look for him. With every day that goes by, I have less hope of him coming home.
 
I am so sorry. I know the feeling of having a cat go missing. It is heartbreaking to say the least. I would call and call and know my cat was not going to come running to me. But........I also had cats missing for a few weeks and then show up like nothing had happened. One tomcat was gone for months! I will be praying for Goober to return to you safe and unharmed. 🙏
 
I thought of goober, and of you, during the night,
@Trila

I remember sweet things about both of you with each other, and I smile remembering when you gathered ideas from us, about a name.

I also understand how terrible it is, now, at this time, to not have any closure, and to have the heartache.
Letting you know, that we all do care.
 
Kaila said:
I thought of goober, and of you, during the night,
@Trila

I remember sweet things about both of you with each other, and I smile remembering when you gathered ideas from us, about a name.

I also understand how terrible it is, now, at this time, to not have any closure, and to have the heartache.
Letting you know, that we all do care.
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Thank you!
 
Today I got fed up with my other forum...AGAIN! I have made my last post there. This is hard for me because the owner of the forum is (was???) a friend. I guess I'll just have to wait to see how that plays out.

I've always said that the people here are so much nicer and caring. I'm glad that I found The SF and all of the wonderful friends that I have here! 😘
 

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