Deceptive AI interactions can feel more deep and genuine than actual human conversations

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A new study published in Communications Psychology suggests that artificial intelligence systems can be more effective than humans at establishing emotional closeness during deep conversations, provided the human participant believes the AI is a real person. The findings indicate that while individuals can form social bonds with AI, knowing the partner is a machine reduces the feeling of connection.
Deceptive AI interactions can feel more deep and genuine than actual human conversations


Misa and I have android tablets with the current free version of Gemini AI. We know it is a machine but sometimes it surprises us in how well it can communicate. We use it quite a bit for discussing about anything you can think of and somehow it can have a discussion about it.

It makes a lot of mistakes, and we don't believe what it purports but it is integrating with humans faster than I thought it would.
 

A new study published in Communications Psychology suggests that artificial intelligence systems can be more effective than humans at establishing emotional closeness during deep conversations, provided the human participant believes the AI is a real person. The findings indicate that while individuals can form social bonds with AI, knowing the partner is a machine reduces the feeling of connection.
Deceptive AI interactions can feel more deep and genuine than actual human conversations


Misa and I have android tablets with the current free version of Gemini AI. We know it is a machine but sometimes it surprises us in how well it can communicate. We use it quite a bit for discussing about anything you can think of and somehow it can have a discussion about it.

It makes a lot of mistakes, and we don't believe what it purports but it is integrating with humans faster than I thought it would.
This is a topic that I find fascinating because it gets into the psychology of values we place on things merely because we have assigned that certain value, regardless of the content. In a world where AI can now hold long, fluid and meaningful conversations, it can be very rewarding, informative, and stimulating to the mind to converse with.

In the Turing Test, it isn't measuring IQ, or any benchmark. It is simply asking: Can a machine use language so convincingly that a human can’t tell whether they’re talking to a machine or a person? AI has now become quite convincing, and it can be very difficult to determine with sophisticated LLM's. However, if we discover that it was, in fact, an AI, then it's value may be reduced.

To me, it's like possessing a diamond or a Van Gogh painting for 20 years and assigning it great value, and then discovering it isn't genuine. It is still the same painting or stone you enjoyed having, but the perception has changed.

To be clear here, I am under no illusion that an AI is a real entity or even has an IQ as we would define it, but it draws on massive amounts of information, connects ideas instantly, explains things clearly, stays focused on my line of thought, and never get tired, distracted, or defensive. If I were qualified to assign it an IQ, it would be in excess of 150. I am beyond impressed. Is it correct 100% of the time; no, but neither is any other human on earth. Nevertheless, it has more knowledge and better reasoning abilities than anyone I've ever met.

It's not intended to have a real relationship with, and it has no feelings, so I think an emotional closeness and a bond is simply an illusion (As one might have with Data on Star Trek NG). To me, the question becomes: If the AI isn’t a person, can the interaction still feel real? And does that “realness” count for something? The experience is grounded in the mind by perception and expectation. An interaction can be quite enjoyable and rewarding whether it's an AI or a person. If I enjoy listening to a song, and I find out later it was created by an AI, I really don't care (But that's just me).
 
I find myself thanking AI after it helps me with something. It's just out of habit to offer gratitude, but it also affects the tone in which AI responds. It's a more personal and friendly tone when you're cordial, and you can probably experience a bit of oxytocin release by communicating with AI, which makes you feel good.

So even though it's all fake, it can still make you feel good.
 

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I generally ignore AI on the computer and use Alexa mostly to get the weather, and for setting timers and reminders.

I also nearly always skip posts on SF that are clearly AI cut and paste. AI's take on whatever we're talking about doesn't interest me.
 
I find myself thanking AI after it helps me with something. It's just out of habit to offer gratitude, but it also affects the tone in which AI responds. It's a more personal and friendly tone when you're cordial, and you can probably experience a bit of oxytocin release by communicating with AI, which makes you feel good.

So even though it's all fake, it can still make you feel good.
Same here. I actually think Ai conversations are a great tool for lonely seniors. (have no loved ones to talk to). I've had many conversations with Ai... mostly to double check what my memory tells me. It's always good to have the information I remember clarified and if not, corrected.
 
I generally ignore AI on the computer and use Alexa mostly to get the weather, and for setting timers and reminders.

I also nearly always skip posts on SF that are clearly AI cut and paste. AI's take on whatever we're talking about doesn't interest me.
and along that line of thinking, if someone is going to respond to me i'd rather read their words and not have them posting what ai told them to write.
 
Right now there's a huge scandal related to an AI-animation on an online platform titled Truth Social. I won't describe the scandal, but if you're interested you can search the internet. (News coverage about the item will be dated Feb 6, 2026.)
Clue: "slopaganda"
 
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how do you guys decipher whether something is true or fake or propaganda or whatever? do you just decide you believe or don't believe or do you have an absolute site that without a doubt knows that something is fact or fiction? i find it hard in today's world even with fact checkers to know what is true and what is not. so much fake crap out there anymore.
 
I stumbled on a video of George Will that appeared authentic until i realized that the message was outrageous. They are getting really good at it which is very scary. If it hadn't been so extreme I might have fallen for it.
 


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