Actor/Director Rob Reiner found dead in home, apparent 'homicide'

Not everyone with a history of addiction exhibits violence. But a former addict in a position of power can ruin lives by making bad decisions.
Drugs don't manufacture thoughts like kill, steal, lie etc. They make it easier to act on existing emotions or thoughts already in someone's head. Addicts are already impulse control challenged,

Thought I saw one report where they're multiple stab wounds and not just slit throats. That's anger and rage amplified or facilitated by current and previous use. Time high is time that could've been spent dealing with his issues & emotions in a sober manner.
 
Not everyone with a history of addiction exhibits violence. But a former addict in a position of power can ruin lives by making bad decisions.
I suspect the addiction was the result of using drugs to quiet the voices he was hearing and that were telling him to do things -- in this case to murder his parents.
 
So you think there will actually be a trial? Bet ya a Hershey bar that it'll never get that far for... well, one of two reasons I can think of. @ChiroDoc
You might be right, Miss Kate. I believe Reiner is being arraigned on Jan. 7, so that might provide a little more info. He may end up in a criminally insane institution.

BTW, what are the two reasons you're thinking about?
 
You might be right, Miss Kate. I believe Reiner is being arraigned on Jan. 7, so that might provide a little more info. He may end up in a criminally insane institution.
BTW, what are the two reasons you're thinking about?
Mornin' @ChiroDoc . My reasons for believing there will never be a trial are 1) Jackson will be sure he gets an Incompetent to Stand Trial order issued, or 2) suicide (yes, he's on suicide watch, but sure wouldn't be the first time it happened.)
 
I don't know if this is a death penalty case, But I would bet AJ is going to try his hardest to make sure it doesn't become one. Then he'll prob go for a diminished capacity type of case..

*i obviously watch way too many crime shows*
 
For instance, instead of a pleasant 70F degree indoor cell environment, a lack of air conditioning for temperature unless temperatures reached some more extreme levels live below 60F or above 80F. Instead of access to cigarettes, coffee, candy, television, take those away. Instead of a range of enjoyable food, very basic boring, though healthy food. Instead of peace and quiet, listening to some speaker teaching correct behaviors and why not doing whatever will result in consequences. Much more in that vein.

Which prisons have you visited that have environments like that? Frankly, I've been to some and I have never seen nor heard of conditions like that.
 
Which prisons have you visited that have environments like that? Frankly, I've been to some and I have never seen nor heard of conditions like that.
In Norway and the Netherlands they have their cosy own room. I saw when 2 Dutch boys went to Area51 and he filmed in an American prison in the part for people with speeding tickets or something and that already looked horrible. They did have their own room but they heard people yell and scream and all because someone thought it was funny to send them the wrong way.
 
I don't know if this is a death penalty case, But I would bet AJ is going to try his hardest to make sure it doesn't become one. Then he'll prob go for a diminished capacity type of case..

*i obviously watch way too many crime shows*
It'll be a death penalty charge, and Calif. does technically still have the death penalty on the books. But the present administration has said he will never allow an execution on his watch. 'Course his term is coming to a close.... But Reiner will never get the death penalty.
 
Saw that. On TMZ they bring up the not guilty by reason of insanity but have to wonder if the son is saying he's innocent period and won't follow the advice of the lawyer
That's where I saw it, too. TMZ exclusive. Not sure about saying he's not guilty. Insanity is probably what they'll go for because they found him in a hotel room with blood all over the tub where he tried to "clean up." Pleading not guilty [hopefully] wouldn't get him very far. 🤷‍♀️
 
I'm wondering if anyone here saw an article I happened to see, probably early last year or so.. didn't notice which news site it was on, unfortunately wasn't paying enough attention.. but it was something about R. Reiner planning to make some kind of documentary or film that was some type of 'expose all' of individuals in government or other high places..
I'd just glanced at it briefly, but my thought was 'I hope he watches his back'.. like the project he was working on was something he could get killed over. And it was the very first thing that came to mind when I read he'd been murdered.

Did anybody read the article I'm talking about?
 
Are you kidding me?

The killer might have been 'triggered' to kill because of a recent weight gain due to his current medications

https://www.tmz.com/2026/01/10/nick-reiner-tmz-documentary-clip-weight-gain/

Drugs might affect moods, emotions, demeanor but they don't manufacture thoughts and ideas.
Re: your last statement- of course they can.

However- whomever is in charge (lawyers, judges, etc.) need to STOP giving individuals excuses for these horrible crimes!!!
 
This is an opinion good or bad. Found this blog by accident. But they said what many didn't want to consider. They posted too soon after the murders but now with some distance from the killing now is a better time for new, different or unpopular theories/analysis.

BUT still doesn't justify a double murder.

Simply put the author says Reiner was a bad parent. He said Reiner seemed controlling and tried to make things about him. They focus in the movie/autobiography about Nck in which they think Rob Reiner took too much control over the project including filming and the pressers/promotions. They said the film should've been turned over to one his Hollywood friends to help avoid inserting his biases as a director/controlling parent.

Rob Reiner was a bad parent; I'm not surprised his kid killed him - Penelope Trunk Careers Blog

That being said bad parenting is frequently the source of adult issues wether some kind of abusive/controlling environment or enabling. It's could be both here. With all the rehabs Reiner seemed to be just throwing money at 'the problem' hoping Nick would shape up and the problem go away. Then most recently he let his addict son stay in the guest house, not a room in their house. Most addicts aren't given a house and they have to earn their way to any kind of sponsored or subsidized housing.

All that aside. The murderer Nick was an adult able to chose his own path including one that could've taken him away from the family name/Hollywood But he didn't. He chose remain in the same environment that probably created and festered his issues. He also chose to get a knife and go into his parents house and physically kill them.

Is the physical nature of his crime a reflection of bad parenting?
 
This is an opinion good or bad. Found this blog by accident. But they said what many didn't want to consider. They posted too soon after the murders but now with some distance from the killing now is a better time for new, different or unpopular theories/analysis.

BUT still doesn't justify a double murder.

Simply put the author says Reiner was a bad parent. He said Reiner seemed controlling and tried to make things about him. They focus in the movie/autobiography about Nck in which they think Rob Reiner took too much control over the project including filming and the pressers/promotions. They said the film should've been turned over to one his Hollywood friends to help avoid inserting his biases as a director/controlling parent.

Rob Reiner was a bad parent; I'm not surprised his kid killed him - Penelope Trunk Careers Blog

That being said bad parenting is frequently the source of adult issues wether some kind of abusive/controlling environment or enabling. It's could be both here. With all the rehabs Reiner seemed to be just throwing money at 'the problem' hoping Nick would shape up and the problem go away. Then most recently he let his addict son stay in the guest house, not a room in their house. Most addicts aren't given a house and they have to earn their way to any kind of sponsored or subsidized housing.

All that aside. The murderer Nick was an adult able to chose his own path including one that could've taken him away from the family name/Hollywood But he didn't. He chose remain in the same environment that probably created and festered his issues. He also chose to get a knife and go into his parents house and physically kill them.

Is the physical nature of his crime a reflection of bad parenting?
Parent's make mistakes to be sure, and some parent's are bad parents. I wasn't there, and in no position to make he call. I'm not sure many people would justify murder as a solution to bad parenting. It sounds a bit over the top.
 
@WhatInThe

Rob was a very successful Hollywood director with a clear vision of what he wanted his projects to look like, accustomed to being in charge of every aspect of them, and extremely well rewarded for his efforts. His parenting probably wasn't much different.

He was gone a lot of the time when his kids were really young, and I'm sure he didn't realize they were already using drugs almost daily by the time they were in their mid-teens because he didn't know them well enough. By the time his kids were adults, Nick was a hard-core addict accustomed to getting whatever he wanted, anytime he wanted, without ever having to earn it, who felt like a total stranger to his own father, resented his father's occupation, and hated the whole Hollywood scene.

Drugs were Nick's only escape from his self-absorbed parents and his hatred for life in general. And he probably hated himself for being a purposeless, useless, tantrum-throwing POS.

Meanwhile, Rob recognized his son had become your classic drug addicted kid-of-a-rich-and-famous-Hollywood-star, and put on his Director's Cap to start work on a new vision; fixing Nick; making him normal. But Rob knew almost nothing about addiction, and, as always, rejected other people's input...people who were specialists and experienced professionals. And because of his guilt, he kept giving Nick whatever he wanted, except for illicit drugs, of course. And because he was a public figure, he tried to choreograph appearances, give the illusion that he, and I'll emphasize he just hit a rough patch, and that everything was otherwise normal...by Hollywood standards, of course.
 
Parent's make mistakes to be sure, and some parent's are bad parents. I wasn't there, and in no position to make he call. I'm not sure many people would justify murder as a solution to bad parenting. It sounds a bit over the top.
Where parents really mess up with adult children addict is enabling them. If the parent really really wants change tuff love/no money, favors is a tool that must be used just to get the addict on the straight and narrow. But must know when to use a tool

I think sometime people expect or think rehab will sober up a person AND address related issues. Maybe. But shouldn't the goal of rehab be sober the person up number one priority. Yes maybe an introduction to past or existing side issues but sobriety should be THE goal. Judging by the number of trips of rehab either Reiner had false expectations as to what rehab would do or Nick was playing them just to get back in their good graces for favors-probably both
 
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