Well said Underock, good thoughts there. I am not a Democrat, but I do have left leaning views on many of the issues you've mentioned, like health care, abortion, minimum wage, gay marriage, etc. There are a couple of things I still lean right on, which I've talked about on other threads, but won't hijack this thread and take it off topic, out of consideration to the OP. Also, I'm always open to hearing what everyone has to say, and learning things that either enforce or go against the views I do have.
I agree that there are likely many conservatives who have hearts of gold and are thoughtful and generous. I don't know many Republicans personally, but I've never been very political and don't generally have any interest in people's political beliefs or religions, that's never a topic of conversation in my every day social life. The few I have been around over the years in the workplace have not had very good attributes, but I try not to paint any group of people with a broad brush and judge by just a few, that's unfair. I do try to understand why they have the views they hold dear, whether I agree or not.
I can't even say what political party my parents belonged to, all I know is that we didn't discuss politics at all in my house as a kid, that I'm aware of. Looking back, my parents were probably on different 'sides', and avoided discussions to keep the peace, but I may be wrong. My older sister even to this day doesn't come out and say exactly what party she favors, but her politics are her business, and I don't care enough to pry. Perhaps she's an Independent like me, and can see some good in both parties.