The point I was trying to make and perhaps I didn't state it clearly enough, is that in our minds we start setting people apart or being wary of them always. Not that I was suggesting that you want to put them in concentration camps or anything.
And how do you know that Muslim kids don't feel excluded and particularly as this whole ME fiasco has overheated since 1991 and then 2001? They aren't stupid nor are they deaf and blind. They hear what's going on, Trumps bombastic statements about banning them, excluding them, the support that is loud and continuous for guarding against 'them', the labelling that is going on. Maybe if 'we' weren't so virulently opposed to their presence, when they hear the violence that the clerics are preaching, just maybe they would recognize the flaw in that thinking because that imam would be asking them to target friends and family of friends.
And just like someone mentioned here about extremist Christians, the Christian church came out of a belief that God commanded the genocide and annihilation of other nations, including the women and all the children. And yet today, despite a love for the same book that advocated that kind of violence, for the most part, Christians wouldn't think of doing those things. Why is it so hard then to accept that not all Muslims are ISIS followers or at least 'closet supporters'? Ask Mayor Nenshi how his family feels about the violence that is being perpetrated in the name of his faith? Ask other upstanding members of our society who happen to be Muslim how their teens feel when they hear the kinds of sentiments that ostracize them, if they don't sometimes feel afraid and frustrated by what they hear in society. Ask that Muslim woman in Toronto who was attacked by the nut-case in the red Canada shirt, how she felt when she heard her little baby crying in fear as the woman pulled at her and screamed at her. Are we setting that child up to hate us when he becomes a teenager?
I understand the fear that would try to take us over, but we have to find a bravery in ourselves so that we don't give in to it and give rise to violence. If we only look out for the 'bad', we will find it as it finds us.