Son of Perdition - tales from the darkside

It's been 7 years since my retirement. I decided that the world of Desktop, laptops, tablets & smartphones OS's are advancing faster than I was. I gave up trying to keep up with Windows as such. I was also trying to stay current with as many Linux distros as I could. I reached the saturation point where I was only hitting & mostly missing. I decided to focus on one distro that I had become comfortable with, LinuxMint. I found several free ebooks online to read. I first downloaded & read the latest publication of 'Linux for Dummies' I had found that while the title is somewhat misleading there is enough new information to help catch you up.

I then downloaded & read 'Linux Bible' - 9th edition, both those books were somewhat redundant but I did extract information I could use. Next I downloaded both 'Linux Mint Essentials' & 'Linux Administrator's Guide' read the first & about half way through the admin guide. Newer changes to the Linux OS was mind boggling, I tweaked my firewall, installed & freshened a virus checker (yes, Linux can get viruses) ClamAV, created 'aliases' to streamline my security, updating my system outside of the installed GUI. Locked down 'Firefox' disabling things like 'Flash' unless absolutely needed disabled memory hogs taking up cycles. Created shell scripts to automate routine tasks like system & network monitoring.

I used to tell co-workers that the beauty of computers is to get a basic understanding of them through experience, then you can start anywhere & within 6 months to a year you can become fairly technical using them. Spreading yourself too thin can be frustrating & serve very little purpose. Focus on the things you are going to use for a more enjoyable & secure experience. You can't know it all, I learn new things almost daily that while of no use to me do hold my interest for a time & is stored away for future reference.
 

Terrific verses, thank you.

Yes, I would have loved to talk to your father. Where I live, I am visited by Mormons quite often. I always invite them in, show hospitality and listen to what they say. I have some materials they have left, and I read them, believe it or not. They are quite faithful Americans, love our country, and especially emphasize a stable home life.

As you have probably guessed, I cannot accept many, if any, of their beliefs, nor can I read scripture from their version (when they come, I ask them politely if I can use my bible, read the verse from my version, and they usually accept that).

I'll leave it there. Its too complicated to get into the differences in doctrines that separate us. So I tell them we must agree to disagree, and not become embroiled in argumentation that would leave a bad taste in either mouth. So usually they access the situation, pray, and then leave.

You certainly have lived an exciting and multivariate life, and I look forward to more of your posts. You seem like a heck of a nice guy.
 
Well I like to think of myself as a 'nice' guy but my wife & kids may take exception to that. I try never to engage in either a religious or political discussion, I'm that guy that shows up to a gun fight armed with only a pocket knife. It's a very slippery slope for me. I did move away from the 'Mormon' faith after an issue over the WOW transgression by drinking coffee.

Your points trigger thoughts with me about the whole concept of 'retirement' or the Golden Years. I live in a senior community with 180 other single, married or communing senior units. It's an interesting lifestyle, but one thing that is constant, the arrival a the emergency vehicles that seem to come on a weekly basis. We had befriended a couple a few years back. He was losing his eyesight, couldn't drive his wife didn't know how. He was the unhealthy one or so it appeared. Two weeks ago his wife suddenly passed away. He told me he was going to move into an assisted living facility. He is my age, his wife was younger. I couldn't accept the fact that she was gone first.

Then, last week my wife's sister called saying her & her husband (my buddy I had known since early childhood, pinochle partner, served in the military together & had introduced them) were traveling here for a visit. He suddenly had a medical issue, they turned back & he ended up in critical care not expected to return home. He was also my age. His health issues are long standing & it looks like his heart has finally given up. He is the third member of our 4 member group of friends to have failing health, the other two passed away years ago. I decided it was time to take stock of my life.

I'm financially comfortable, have a good pension, SS & no bills other than space rent & utilities. We have adequate emergency & long term/major purchase/final expenses put aside. We have income to do things I had earlier shunned because of the wasteful cost associated with them. We dine out once a week, & 'shudder' stop at the coffee kiosk 2-3 times a week. We used to travel & still enjoy the trips, but that is probably not happening because of our age & reactions are slowing. My wife loves her garden, reading & doing crafts (all kinds). I am all thumbs helped her pull weeds one time, but pulled too many flowers in the process. Been banned from the garden. I like movies, play a mean game of 'Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon' enjoy tinkering with computers (in my former life I was a tech admin) & first & foremost I love casino gambling. I found myself justifying my obsession/addiction to others when I mentioned I'm planning a solo junket to Las Vegas.

Craps is my game of choice & have had several profitable trips, more than losses. I manage that hobby/addiction as well as or better than I manage my diabetes. I never spend money needed for other things, I live an uncluttered, minimalistic lifestyle, no collections or any kind. Non materialistic, being OCD & raised by a mother who was a hoarder taught me to live with less. My planned trip was agreeably blessed by my wife. Life plans after retirement should not be made too long term. Things happen & no one can predict them.
 
Happenings in my life

The wife (project girl!) seems to have a new project planned at all times. Remember we rent our manufactured home space.

1. Complete rearrangement & replanting of all flora & fauna. Ongoing she moves her plants as often as I (OCD person) moved his 'junk' piles when were owned our little gentleman's farm. Weeds would grow up between the metals requiring a new location constantly.

2. Remove all the carpet, too humid & having one shedding cat necessitated reflooring 2 bedrooms, frontroom, dining & hallway with laminate.

3. Repaint the house. My contribution - buy a new paint sprayer & enlist SIL to climb the ladders. He gets to keep it at his house. Then on top of those projects I ended up having surgery & chemo with my wife doing most of the home nursing & support. End of year 1.

4. Time for a new larger porch. Extended it 3 feet wider, needed new awnings, decking, skirting & rails that was a two year project, I helped where I could. End of year 2 & 3.

5. Hey, let's rip out the wall of evergreens separating us & our neighbors, we'll replace it with a new wood fence. The evergreens were 60 feet long & 12 feet high with ivy interlaced throughout. She's not satisfied with just cutting them down, need to remove the roots also, enlist SIL & teenage grandson to help. That was year 4 the same year I developed full blown type II diabetes. Somehow she was able to complete that & cater to my every need.

6. We had an oddly shaped jetted tub, in our mstr bath. It was a physical obstruction for seniors to access, what were they thinking. Also why are bathroom vanities so darn low. I'm 6'2" with a bad back, my wife is normal sized but agreed about the height for a senior owned home in a senior park. Ok let's redo the bath completely. Everything replaced or painted except the drains & water pipes, SIL installs & manufactures vanities, cabinet tops & cabinets. Got to admit it turned out nice. Early year 5 finished. Then she wanted to extend our patio to accommodate the growing extended family relocating here. Let's excavate & add an additional 3 feet to the width X 30' long. Mid year 4 finished.

This morning she announced her itinerary to me, but before she started I put my foot down, 'No projects for the rest of the year!' Although, she is planning to relocate our one storage shed, but SIL has a machine that they use to manhandle the heavy sheets of granite that has been used for that very purpose. He assured us it is a simple effort & he will do it. That shed was my man cave that has 'morphed' into a jumbled maze of fake Xmas trees, ornaments & gardening sundry.

In between the projects we have had our house & roof washed to remove the algae & grime. Replaced our beds, all new window coverings, front room furniture & dining settees. Only thing that remains constant from our pre-retirement years is the TV & her mother's heirloom dresser. New washer & dryer, a needed necessity.

7. Projected task looming is a complete remodel of our kitchen, new appliances, minor plumbing, cabinets, cabinet tops, sink,,,etc. I'm sure the SIL will get involved. It's works out good for us, they have 4 growing kids, that need vast amounts of food, school supplies & clothing with their mom, a stay-at-home housekeeper & special needs care for her youngest. We supply extra cash for those needs & feel ok about asking SIL for his skills & good nature. We buy all the supplies he does the labor. Works out great for us. Only projects he doesn't feel good about is plumbing. So we do have a plumbing firm on retainer, or so it seems.
 
To hell with it!

No more projects? Me neither! I just have to "do something" with a half done storage room, behind the garage.

Also, the master bath needs a new floor and plumbing fixtures- sink faucet, shower valve, perhaps a new toilet. A bigger medicine cabinet maybe, the kin with mirrored twin bi-fold doors.
 
Been missing for awhile, haven't noticed eh? I still lurk whenever I can. I'll be glad when the election is history, can't say as I'm going to miss it. I am a sometime Democrat mostly Independent. Can't say as either candidate is my favorite. I just wish Elizabeth Warren was in the mix. Oh well, life goes on. Had a doctor's appointment today, labs, it was my 6 month PCP follow up after my Type II diagnosis. Hope things come out well, doctor seems to think I'll live a while longer. Problem was he was in a talkative mood today, covered many subjects including religion ('Do you believe in a higher power?'), then he moved onto politics, gest of it was, he is a stance GOP, telling me to ignore what his candidate says & think of what he could do for our country. Very uncomfortable visit. I don't want to anger my doctor, you want them in your corner. I forced myself to remain quieter than normal, my wife was more argumentative. Thanks to the powers that be, he had other patients to see.

What's been taking up most of my time was a death of one of my best friends, also our BIL he passed away in Aug. He had many, many dire conditions that he had suffered through. Starting with a bad auto accident which led to plastic surgery in his early adulthood, then Hep C from the transfusions, then kidney failure, dialysis for last 8 years, then a stroke, then finally a quadruple bypass. He survived them all but his quality of life was crap. He finally succumbed to a drop in BP resulting in losing the use of his lower bowels and legs. He refused any more medications or therapy, he wanted it to end. We went to Utah for his funeral, our first time back in 5 years. We enjoyed visits with old friends & relatives. We stayed at our son's met a few of his female friends (his 2nd divorce & resolve to never marry again).

With my weight loss, BMI is 24.8 (normal weight), BP normal, A1C < 5 & I'm feeling better than I have for many years. I'm much more active, walking somewhat everyday. During my career back maybe 15 years ago I purchased a plot of land. It is 8 acres in a forested area, near a lake up on a mountain. Never had done anything with it. My son was using it for a storage yard & I always wanted to use it for the purpose I had bought it for (family cabin). I had a conversation with him, then when I returned home my oldest daughter had embarked on a quest of her own. She's a widow with enough to support herself & had reached the point in her life where she wanted to give the whole scene the boot. She bought herself a used van, had a mechanic go through it & now has plans to go van dwelling, summers here-winters in AZ. She's going to sell her home, take the proceeds & live her life on the road with her dog. She's very independent & loved to camp when she was younger. She alway had a wish to do this even when her husband was alive. I also had a conversation with my younger daughter & her husband. He is very handy. He's a cabinet maker/counter installer for a local company. We discussed the idea of developing the land for a permanent camping area as a backup plan for creating a retreat in the event of a national disaster. I'm not a survivalist/prepper/extremist in any shape or form what I am is a planner.

As you move through life into retirement planning becomes second nature or at least it was for me. I lived by my wits until my 50's then I started planning retirement. Luckily I had a decent pension plan along with SS to look forward to. I was vested into a solid plan that my former company offered. I also had my 401K but that is only a reserve that I hadn't planned to sustain me in my 'Golden Years'. It's a perk but now nearing 72, needs to be drawn on. I retired with mind blowing debt that was all my fault & have since retired all of it. Planning & budgeting became my hobby after 3 life threatening conditions that I hope are behind me. Also, going on a fixed income, making sure my wife is well taken care of were my main focus. All my ducks are in a row now, I have adequate income to indulge my desire to develop the 8 acres.

I wanted to originally live in a motor home, purchased one just after retirement, it became a money pit, mostly in storage so off with the old so to speak (sold it, 3 years gone). I became interested in the series (Preppers) a year or so back. Critiqued them, commenting to the wife what they should do, decided the only thing I would store was toilet paper (someone in Texas came up with the same idea). Then, tabling that idea I next became interested in the 'Tiny Home' movement. I had the land, skills & vision to make it workable. My only hold up was the expense. I couldn't see where you could possibly build one for the estimates that were quoting on TV. I'll be darned it I was going to spend $50K for 200 sq ft. I tabled that also, next I re-looked into a motor home. Draw back to that is if the mechanics go bad you are into putting more money & effort into those than there are worth. Next, was actually a workable solution. My son has a 29' travel trailer he bought but didn't realize the hassle & expense to trail an over sized trailer all over the US. He suggested he move his trailer on the land, I purchase him a smaller more manageable one for his truck, Bob's your uncle.

The only trouble with the above scenario is the snow fall we get on the mountain in the winter. So, we would have to build a cover, again another expense. He has solar panels, generator & all the camping gear I would need. So it's definitely a good plan for the summers. My latest idea is to build a modular site with at least 4 smaller buildings. What you say! I was reading about a guy who lost his job, moved to another state for employment, bought some ground, lost his job again, bought a small used travel trailer for working from home as a contract employee, bought a 2nd trailer, gutted it made it his bedroom & bath, bought a 3rd, gutted it made it his kitchen & dining area. My idea is to move the 29' on the property in the spring, buy the material to build me a 12 X 16 ft shed (2 doors, 2 windows) make it my sleeping shed.

Next spring with a tow-able chuck wagon we have in the family, buy the material for a 2nd shed same size, use it for kitchen/dining. Then in the 3rd spring live in the first two & buy the material for a 3rd that can be used for a living room/whatever. Somewhere along the way I need to group a smaller 8 X 8 shed for a bath house & latrine. The 12 X 16's will cost at current rate less than $3,000 = $9,000 & the 8 X 8 will run $1,500. I figure without furnishings I'll need less than $12,000 for all four. I've priced all the material at Home Depot along with porta potties, stoves, refrigs, beds & chairs so I'll be into all of it less than a nice 30' motor home. I worked construction & have remodeled 3 homes myself along with my SIL & son we should be able to do all the work ourselves.

We will have our own little quaint tiny home site, on our mountain top. I don’t plan to move there full time, only I thought maybe once a month spend a few days doing repairs, upgrades & sitting by the camp fire with coffee cup on my knee. My wife said she has no desire to venture with, she’s completely content to stay at home while I camp. If I could get into fishing, there is a major river in the canyon below that is considered one of the hot spots for trout fishing. Who knows? Also, back in my early adult life I did do a little deer hunting. The mountains are full of mule deer, but when you shoot one the work starts, I’m not that keen on venison or trout, I’m a meat eater as long as it comes in those little white packages that you thaw & through on the grill. So they are probably safe from me.

My 3 year plan.
 
I noticed Son, good to see you back! My condolences for the loss of your brother in law, very sad. That mountain top home site sounds sweet, sound like fun to do some trout fishing there. Glad to hear you're in good health, hope that lasts for a long, long time!
 
Welcome back! Don't feel bad, my absence wasn't noticed much either, I only recently got back on board myself; not much is different, many of the same good people still around keeping the fort running. :)
 
I had reached a point in my life where I wondered as Melvin Udall did, is this as good as it gets? I had been vegetating on my front porch since moving here after retirement. I was hating my neighbor through no fault of his own. My only focus was on his side door & the short span of road that passes in front of my house. I had no hobbies, no interests, my friend(BIL) has passed I had lost interest in even the mundane things I did such as surfing the web. I was in a rut, my wife had her garden, flowers, books, puzzles, none of which interested me. I knew it was mentally unheathly so I looked for an outlet. The trip to Utah helped clear my mine enough so I could think. My wife pointed out that we were in a good place financially, healthy as two 70 YOs can be.

Thanks to all for the welcomes. I have focus now with a plan if nothing more. It was interesting to see the reactions of my friends here when I talked about it. Most were negative, or so it appeared to me, but I watched them knowing that most are in the same place I was, waiting to die, but not admitting it.
 
With my 6 month A1C standing at 4.6% my PCP's follow up letter indicated I could lower my insulin. I was at 14u LA & 5uX2 SA or < 50% of my original doses. Avg BS is 85 down from 97. Damn LDL (bad) is high, I guess 5 eggs a day could be blamed. Hate to admit the wife may be right.

Watching too much TV or should I say too many reality shows. First I watch a couple segments of one of the 'Tiny Home' fakes. Couldn't understand why the lookie-loos want a stick built one that looks like a metal tool box rather than opt for a nice 5th wheel or larger travel trailer. They have budgets ranging > $60K, when they could walk on any RV lot & pick a nice, completely equipped livable unit for less than $30K. Wife thinks it's the stigma of owning a 'trailer' rather than a 'house'. They're still mobil, weather proof & equipped with almost everything you could want in a 'tiny home'. Go figure.

Next watched a segment of the new '10 ways the World is going to end'. It was about nuclear war, first strike would be to whip out all the electronics, internet, computers, cars, airplanes, basically anything that is controlled by circuitry, then they would attack with ground bombs to whip out the bunkers, the Pentagon, the military strong holds & next the population centers. Depressing to say the least, but me in my OCD mind wondered how they could control their missiles when all the electronic equipment worldwide would be destroyed. Oops! hadn't thought of that, it would make everyone cutoff from everybody else unless they wanted to walk across the Bering Straight carrying all their weapons to attack us.

Last I watched a documentary on plastic waste, I lamented on that a few posts ago but of course the negative nellies posted that it was like the global warming, it wasn't actually happening. They had some realistic videos of the dead fish of the ocean & fowl of earth dissected showing the ingested plastic pieces that had killed them. It sure looked real to me. I live near the Pacific coast & I see some of the waste washing up on the beaches but if it isn't real, I'm not sure what I'm seeing. My worry is all the plastic they are using for automobile production & all the electric waste housed in plastic that is being dumped by polluter's & Goodwell.

I finally had to watch a comedy on Netflix to get my mood a little higher so I get drift off into deep slumber & have sugarplum dreams.

More thought, which will be my last & probably only political comment. Since I DON'T like or respect either leading candidate & think Gary Johnson's intelligence level is just above that of a toad, I'm going to throw away my vote this election & vote Pacific Green/Progressive. Like their politics. It's either that or 'Independent' I don't want anyone to blame me for the mess we are heading for or claim that I can't complain because I didn't vote.

More about off grid living.

I ran onto a story written by a guy back east who is living it. Back in 2008 he lost his job, applied many places got a job a few states away from his home. He moved there, bought an unimproved remote piece of ground to build a home on. It had water & power. He bought an older used travel trailer to live in temporarily. A few months later the job dissolved & he was once again without income. He did have a little savings left.

He decided that he needed a better arrangement, so he bought another used t-trailer & gutted the first, remodeled it with a decent bed & small shower/commode. Now with two trailers he found the need to create another living space for his home office (he was doing a little at home contract work). He gutted the 2nd, remodeled it with a kitchen dining focus. Large refrig, new stove, cabinets & a nicer dining table & chairs. The 3rd was gutted, remodeled it into an office & living room (couch/TV). Now with 3 smaller used t-trailers grouped together he had spent less than $8K for all of the improvements & trailer purchases excluding the cost of furnishings. His land was his largest expense, TV, couch. frig, stove & bed were also extras that he would have needed where ever he was going to live.

He grouped them together like we did when camping only resource he has since added has been a septic tank for his commode, still washes his clothes at the laundry mat . He does most of his cooking, eating & entertaining outside by the fire pit. Has a nice bedroom/adequate bath, kitchen/dining area when needed & somewhere to have his TV/computer center for working, reading or watching TV. He called it a 'modular' camp with about 250 total sq ft. Added benefit is he only has to heat up one small space at a time, either when he sleeps or cooks or is working/watching TV. Loves it & has lived in them for 7 years now, really never planned to make it permanent. He still has visions of building a home there or somewhere but is getting along quite nicely.

I was thinking this concept may meet my idea better, I would build individual units (sheds) approx. 12 X 16 rather than buying older used trailers, since the snow fall on my property location is prohibitive you would need a pitched roof shelter for each. So if you have to build a cover go the extra & make a shed out of it. I drew up the plans, estimated the material & priced everything out at Home Depot, see how an OCD mind can wander. Total cost for each shed (3) would be just over $3K. Including floor, sides, 2 windows, 2 ext doors, metal roof, trusses, insulation & sheet rock. I figure I can do all of it for less than $10K. I would have a total of 576 sq ft. I could add the furnishing as I go along including a waste disposal setup (a composting commode can run you $2,500 or more where as a septic tank setup will cost less than $500.
 
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We are living in a world that is constantly surrounded by technology and screens. The world is becoming a great deal smaller, as it is becoming almost second nature to chat with somebody on the other side of the world, across town (or even a different room of your home) with a quick text, instant message, call, video call or email within arm’s reach! While communications are more accessible and convenient than ever before, some people are reporting increased loneliness because although quantity of communication is there, quality is unfortunately not.


More and more people are looking to reconnect themselves with nature and taking a step back from technology and the digital world to get in touch with mother earth. There is a holistic appeal to living off the land, cultivating and growing your own food where possible, generating your own energy and making a conscious effort to spend some time away from the computer, phone or television screens.


Many Americans are looking to get back to nature because it's a healthier lifestyle option. It is not only more friendly for the environment, but eating fresh food, spending more time outdoors and being active can do wonders for an individual’s health.


Vacations that bring the holiday maker closer to nature are also becoming increasingly popular. From camping holidays, hiring RVs or buying are all fantastic ways to get out of the city and truly appreciate the beautiful surroundings nature has to offer. It is the perfect opportunity to leave technology at home and go for walks, observe wildlife and experience a different kind of living.


In addition to getting back to nature, being in more control of what we put into and onto our bodies is also becoming more prevalent in today’s society, with people looking to cut out processed, unhealthy food. Americans have become a good deal more health conscious over the past five years.


Americans are also interested in buying more organic products than ever before, the U.S. Department of Agriculture reports that more and more people are becoming interested in the move back to all-natural farming techniques, 80 percent of American families are now actively and regularly making organic products as part of their shopping list.


Consumption of seasonal food that is sourced locally has many health benefits and also considerably decreases an individual’s carbon footprint. Home grown food is also a fantastic way to decrease food waste (nobody wants to throw away food they have grown themselves) and save money, which are both fantastic for the environment.


So, despite living in a world that is so immersed in technologies and dependent upon computers, it appears that the trend of people getting back to nature is increasing. This will lead to more people becoming environmentally aware which will only result in good things for the environment and the world we live in.
 
I'm all for getting back to nature Son, and buy organic foods when I can. Living off the grid on a large wooded property would be something nice to pursue, at a younger age anyway. I think everyone would benefit by not using chemicals, artificial hormones, etc. and wake up to what they're doing to the earth and themselves.
 
Webster's dictionary defines 'plan' as - a set of actions that have been thought of as a way to do or achieve something. Nothing says you can't change them from time to time, as any woman knows. I have now set a newer updated plan into action for my retirement activities. As mentioned before I, we own a parcel of ground 8 acres in size & location is near a beautiful body of water along a fish laden river on top of a mountain. Ideal for summer time residence but the downside is the winters & snow fall, located midway between Canada & Mexico. Elevation over 5000 feet so the snow fall is a major consideration that I wanted to avoid at all costs. I was going to build on it simply because having owned it for many years I had never done anything constructive to it except talk.

Now at my age & health limitations, building is something that I never thought clear through. It would require someone to do the back breaking work with me as the 'idea', financial support. No one really wants to do it for a favor, somehow money always seems to creep into the discussion. I had to shelve the idea & rethink my desires based upon the limitations. I can still drive adequately but carrying building material is very, very limited. Location is ok from April through the end of October, so 8 months would be the outside I could use it. The other 4 months would be sitting at home watching TV & it rain. Originally when I was getting ready to retire my desire was to do the 'Snow Bird' thing winter in AZ, summer in Montana. Wife put the skids to that idea she didn't want to camp full time.

Health issues have dominated my retirement until I feel I got a handle on it. I have reached a period on my life where I have changed my diet, met all the goals my doctor has set for me & have achieved a somewhat active existence. I still wanted to SB it but the wife is content to remain in our double wide & tend her garden, do her crafts & interact with our neighbors. I am not that sociable & get bored easily with the conversations I'm subjected to with my neighbors. I have no hobbies, other than the usual outlets bored people have, TV, sitting on the porch, playing a few card games & watching people.

My wanderlust daughter is so like me & her latest has to do with locating a parcel of ground nearer our current home, setting up a homestead for the spring, summer & fall. Her plan is to spend 3-4 months out on the desert near Quartzsize, AZ, called 'Desert Dwelling'. Sounds like a great time but for a more limited physically 70+ YO it's not something I want to do. NEW PLAN! next spring, 1. Buy a 3/4 Ton 4X4 relatively new, dependable but not expensive pickup with camper shell. 2. Buy a 24 foot or less travel trailer, no 5th-wheel because of the camper shell needs, buying a pickup & t-trailer is more feasible because if the pickup fails I still have the t-trailer. 3. Plan my journey to spend Apr-Jun on 'my' mountain top - Jul-Oct in my current location, love the summers here - then spend Nov - Mar in Laughlin, NV. Establish residence in NV, (no state tax). I'm hoping the wife comes from time to time for a visit in the winters. Don't know.

I just have to remember to avoid telling the acquaintances that know me personally about my plan changes, it makes me look kind of flaky but I think of it as adaptable.
 
My son went to the property today, he was testing for cell service, which turned out to be okay (requires a little walk up south to the crest of the saddle). Attached are 4 of the pictures to give you an idea about the area we need to landscape for t-trailer parking.

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IMG_1 - This is looking west from the access road, slight incline.

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IMG_2 - This is looking north towards the reservoir.

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IMG_3 - This is looking west see neighbor's building.

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IMG_4 - Looking NW shows the only piece of camping equipment (a picnic table no on wants to haul again).

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IMG_5 - Shows the north sections of the HOA, we own section J-2c, 8 acres.
 
How far is the property from civilization, Son of Perdition? I mean for the purposed of getting groceries, medical help, etc., if you needed it? Would you have a generator?
Good question, we are 13 miles from a small town of about 4,000 with medical staff & clinics, groceries, gas, golfing, parks. We are 40 miles from the nearest large city, 60,000, University, Walmarts, fine dining, very well staffed & equipped hospital, clinics. We are 60 miles from where I grew up & most of my relatives, former work mates & relatives.
 
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S_o_P,

I'll have to live vicariously through your experiences as you chronicle them here, as living the dream firsthand isn't an option for me.



My grandfather(mother's side) had his fill of everything, and built a cabin up in the mountains of Eastern North Carolina and lived out his days there.
 
Thanks tn, I found after 5 years fighting health issues, boredom & rain that I needed something I could focus on. Health issues hopefully behind me, still like an occasional day-dreaming session on the porch, but I needed something I could do myself. As mentioned my wife whom I love & have spent 48 years with has her interests & based upon my heritage, family longevity & the possibility that I could conceivably live for another 20-25 years I couldn't see myself spending it doing what I was doing. Got healthy, lost a ton of weight, got walking decided that there is more to retirement than this.

I was born club-footed, wore casts for 2 years didn't walk until I was almost 3. Contracted polio at 9 spent many therapy sessions with the health workers learning to deal with my pain. Played HS varsity football, but was always the slowest runner. At age 18 joined the Air Force, had to take many physicals & meetings with the doctors. Got in mainly because of my test scores & the Vietnam conflict in full swing. They needed spies (USAFSS worked with NSA). After enlistment played golf, hunted, fished, played 1st base on the company softball team & tried to do the normal activities everyone else did. At age 40 I was diagnosed with stenosis of the spine. Painful back problems have plagued me all my life. But I refused to give in. Now a senior with the same damn back problems I still refuse to give up.

You have to adjust you expectations & activities, but it can be done. My father told me that the man with back problems has to be the weakest man on the job, get others to do the heavy lifting, learn to live with your problems. I did! My current plans include my ability to finance most of the improvements to the property, the funding of a decent truck & trailer & my love of travel. I've always been somewhat of a loner, like my solitude & can ignore everyone around me. My loss of hearing really helps that. I used to get in my compact pickup take off driving solo through the country, taking pictures, visiting long forgotten places & just sitting on a high spot in the road thinking about the pioneers & their conditions. I loved the west, the old west. It was said that I put my guns on just after getting dressed me in the mornings, John Wayne was my hero, I grew up with Hopalong Cassidy, Lone Ranger & Tonto & other Saturday matinée cowboys. Roy Rogers, Gene Autry, Red Ryder & Rex Allen.
 
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