Who do you think are more romantic--men or women?

Olivia

Olivia

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Who do you think are more romantic--men or women?
 

I've been single for a very long time. I've always been a bit skeptical of "romance" because sometimes it seems like the guy does what is expected due to hallmark card commercials, jewelry commercials etc. and women develop expectations for the same reasons. I probably wouldn't recognize a truly romantic gesture if I received one. Therefore I think men and women are duped equally. Romance isn't something to be expected, I think it is a spontaneous giving of one's self without any expectation in return. So on a scale of 1-10 in the romance department I probably come in at a -3.
 
Dkay, when I read your post, my first thought was, wow, that is a rather cynical way of looking at it. But then, thinking about it, I have to agree with a lot of what you've said.

 
Shalimar said:
On his special days, I have always given the man in my life the choice of dining out, or staying at home with a fancy meal which I have prepared myself. Regardless of his preference, I have paid for the dinner and candles. When it was my turn, he did the same for me.
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That is very sweet dear. You're special. :love_heart:
 
I’m a hopeless romantic
I believe in it
I seek it
It is the very best of living

A few days after my lady and I first met, we had an argument…can’t even remember why, but it all could have been a scene from a Broadway opera/play, under the midnight street lights.
Her, storming off
Me, running after her
Me, storming off….her running after me
Grabbing each other, tight
Deep kissing


I romanticize over most everything
Even cabin building is a romance for me
A romance of the soul

My vote is for guys.

We don't complicate it.
 

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