Lakeland living
Life is good
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- Ontario Canada
I find it irritating when trying to get some things done. Then I see how many cannot do anything, I then quit whining for myself and go split some firewood.
Good for you! That's wonderful!I guess I'm lucky because I have good genes. I still feel like I'm 50 ish. I've been through some health problems and come
out on the good side. People say I don't look in my 80's , so I suppose that's a plus. I accept old age but still feel I'm not
there yet.
I agree, Trish. I neither accept nor resist. I enjoy life. I've had more than my share of bumps in the road; however, I've gained GREAT wisdom along the way. Thus far, I have no regrets. I do not feel any of my years were wasted because I've learned a lot of valuable lessons on my journey, and I have more lessons to learn. Eat, dance, drink, pray, and play!!
I've accepted it. I don't mind it but there are some things I can't do anymore. I've learned to deal with that. We all hafta walk this path eventually.I accept.
There is a real liberation in doing so, accepting that time has taken it's toll on the body and things are deteriorating physically.
I believe there is a season for all things, for each phase of life. For me I want a quiet life now and to do the things I need for myself. It's not a giving up but acceptance and being realistic. Embracing the next natural path.
I see those who resist old age and time. Some are blessed with exceptional good health and genes. Yet there can be a ridiculous aspect to carrying on behaving as if young. Today's world does focus upon and celebrate youth to an excess - why? Old age has great value to impart, experience to be shared and listened to.
Surely there comes a time for wisdom and preparation for one's eternity. To reflect on what is next in our existence?
I've enjoyed every stage of my life, none more than childhood, though.I've accepted it. I don't mind it but there are some things I can't do anymore. I've learned to deal with that. We all hafta walk this path eventually.

I feel exactly the same.I accept.
I’m content with my situation and the choices I’ve made.
My only real concern is how I’ll manage the transition from this world to the next.
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@ManateeHere in the independent living facility, only the help have dark hair.
Men your age here in the U.S. would never dress like that. Most just look old and sloppy. They never dress up like you do. Me? I usually just wear jeans and a tee shirt.View attachment 357401
The years on the clock can have it's compensations.
Now I can dress like an old man, wide lapels, baggy
trousers and, something a younger man might covet
but it wouldn't do his street cred much good, A
fedora hat!
My advice is try not to look in the mirror. That's hard of course when you have to shave and something keeps itching on your cheek and you want to look at it under a magnifying mirror. At that point curtail your facial quest. You are not going to be happy. Do not stare, by the way. It's all downhill at this point and it's only 7:10 in the morning.I took a video of myself this morning doing dead lifts while at the gym, I just wanted to check my form. Even though I accept aging I still like to think I have some vitality in me, but that guy I saw in my video was an old man, that's the man the world sees.
I know I have to accept it, but looking so old sure is discouraging.
I learned a few years not to look at myself in the mirror while wearing 3X reading glasses, no one should ever see a seniors face under that magnification!My advice is try not to look in the mirror. That's hard of course when you have to shave and something keeps itching on your cheek and you want to look at it under a magnifying mirror. At that point curtail your facial quest. You are not going to be happy. Do not stare, by the way. It's all downhill at this point and it's only 7:10 in the morning.