About 30yrs ago 2 of my 2nd cousins did Horrible things to my grandparents, nothing physical, but financially ruined them. Who have long been deceased. Because of their drug addiction they lost everything and we're technically homeless. And their mother drank herself to DEATH because of them. One of the cousins you could say Will die from drugs. The other one has been coming around the family like nothing happened??? He came to the family reunion 3ys ago, where he and his wife where given the cold shoulder. He hasn't came the last 2yrs, making excuses, I'm sure it was because how he was ignored? I've spoken to a few relatives about it. They said he's never shown remorse for what he did and would also like an apology. A couple of months ago he called and had I heard??? I'm like what??? That he will be in the hospital for several months, sorry relatives view him as illrelevant. He called my brother and said nobody calls HIM?????? OMG, still Selfish. Should I tell him what the family is thinking??? I'm tired of this, no one else seems to want to. It's time for him to address the "Elephant" in the room so the family can move on.