Let me voice a different opinion. First wife and I married young, worked hard and saved as best we could for our retirement, etc. We did without things we wanted to do because we were saving for that rainy day, etc. Then she died in her mid 50s. Damn, I wish we had enjoyed what we had when we still could. When I remarried, I tried to be as free as possible with what we had, but still was worried about retirement, etc. We did both retire early, which, as it turned out, give us precious extra time together. She died in her late 60s. Again, I regret not doing more for her when we were both able to enjoy it. So here I am, in my mid 70s with money in the bank, but I'm telling you that money is cold comfort to me. I wish I had spent every f'ng penny of it for the benefit of the two women I loved.
if you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans...