Must admit we don't go out of our way for Valentine's. Spouse and I have a running 'love joke' between the two of us and after almost 50 yrs, actions express so much more than words. I've got a painful pulled muscle and he's happy to take on doing more to make it easier for me - so sweet! Plus he scolds me into making appts with both our acupuncturist and HMO doctor to see if they can do something to help me recover faster. By myself I'd probably procrastinate forever, LOL.
One thing I have started doing over the last few years is sending Valentine bouquets to three of our friends who are divorced and alone. One of them has been struggling with her recovery from stage 4 cancer, both physically and financially. Spouse and I like to let them know they aren't forgotten by their friends, even when we don't get to see them very often!