Am I crazy for turning down a chance to go out with a lady?

Hawk,
I suspect that you are quite nervous. Don't be. No reason to be.
Remember, she lives and breathes just like you. When she works in her garden and builds up a sweat, she NEEDS a shower, just like you do. She is just a person, no better, no worse. And, yes, she uses the toilet just like you and I do. ha ha.

Think positive. There is at least a 50% possibility that YOU may be her dream guy.

PS: She can easily detect your nervousness. THAT GIVES HER THE POWER. If so, she will play you like a violin.
 
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senior chef said:
Hawk,
I suspect that you are quite nervous. Don't be. No reason to be.
Remember, she lives and breathes just like you. When she works in her garden and builds up a sweat, she NEEDS a shower, just like you do. She is just a person, no better, no worse. And, yes, she uses the toilet just like you and I do. ha ha.

Think positive. There is at least a 50% possibility that YOU may be her dream guy.

PS: She can easily detect your nervousness. THAT GIVES HER THE POWER. If so, she will play you like a violin.
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Or when she would see he's nervous she would comfort him as any nice woman would. Anyhow he's already gone out with her.
 
Hawk said:
down a chance to go out with a lady? She asked me out for ice cream thru another forum, said she thought I was a nice guy!!! But of course I have not
showered in two days so how nice am I ?? Plus, I honestly cannot walk well
any longer, and gave that as an excuse.....or am I just scared to death at this
age!Z???!??o_O
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The first that comes to my mind is I no longer have any interest in a relationship other than friendship so if that is what you are after you need not be fearful, it's making a friend, no big deal. Second, I too have difficulty walking and I only shower once a week (I do clean myself regularly, I have no shower available, and change my under ware daily, I also have a condition that keeps me from sweating) I'm also missing a leg and feel as though I'm walking on a boat even while standing still. All this said, I would still enjoy the company of a nice person. My biggest problem with having an ice cream though is I am lactose intolerant and my biggest fear would be not making it to the bathroom in time. Go enjoy the company.
 
dko1951 said:
The first that comes to my mind is I no longer have any interest in a relationship other than friendship so if that is what you are after you need not be fearful, it's making a friend, no big deal. Second, I too have difficulty walking and I only shower once a week (I do clean myself regularly, I have no shower available, and change my under ware daily, I also have a condition that keeps me from sweating) I'm also missing a leg and feel as though I'm walking on a boat even while standing still. All this said, I would still enjoy the company of a nice person. My biggest problem with having an ice cream though is I am lactose intolerant and my biggest fear would be not making it to the bathroom in time. Go enjoy the company.
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There are OTC meds (I guess they would be) for lactose intolerance. Two of my kids use them, and they actually work. They buy them on Amazon.
 
Hawk said:
down a chance to go out with a lady? She asked me out for ice cream thru another forum, said she thought I was a nice guy!!! But of course I have not
showered in two days so how nice am I ?? Plus, I honestly cannot walk well
any longer, and gave that as an excuse.....or am I just scared to death at this
age!Z???!??o_O
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remember me I am the old guy from liberty now in lawrence......what is you have that she wants and needs?---money would be my first guess...maybe you think she wants to smell you and taste you........WRONG WRONG WRONG----nothing has changed amigo they are still conivers..we are still maluable.....

take me for a walk and coffee.....then I will give you a shower..win win win and I have me own money and my own scent-hahjhah
 
dko1951 said:
The first that comes to my mind is I no longer have any interest in a relationship other than friendship so if that is what you are after you need not be fearful, it's making a friend, no big deal. Second, I too have difficulty walking and I only shower once a week (I do clean myself regularly, I have no shower available, and change my under ware daily, I also have a condition that keeps me from sweating) I'm also missing a leg and feel as though I'm walking on a boat even while standing still. All this said, I would still enjoy the company of a nice person. My biggest problem with having an ice cream though is I am lactose intolerant and my biggest fear would be not making it to the bathroom in time. Go enjoy the company.
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Lactase is an over the counter med for lactose intolerance. When eating ice cream I chew 2 tabs 1st. Seems to work fine.
 
Hawk said:
I have not showered in two days
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there are rinseless foam soaps which could accommodate that or just for simple convenience.

i devised a simple acetic acid & enzyme combo for a nonambulatory transport spritz during intercontinental flights. works even better than surfactants (foam) for sloughing skin without eliminating commensal microflora communities. it's just papaya seeds or pineapple soaked in vinegar.
 
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hollydolly said:
Go...have a good time.. it's easy when you live alone to get complacent and not want to get out of a routine or a rut.. it's just a little meeting for ice cream and a chat, at best it'll give you an hour out, and a new friend.. at worst .. well you don't like the ice-cream.. :ROFLMAO:

Just go.. you don't have to do anything afterwards that you don't want to do, remember that...
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Hawk said:
down a chance to go out with a lady? She asked me out for ice cream thru another forum, said she thought I was a nice guy!!! But of course I have not
showered in two days so how nice am I ?? Plus, I honestly cannot walk well
any longer, and gave that as an excuse.....or am I just scared to death at this
age!Z???!??o_O
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If you're not ready for it, aka the vibes aren't there, then you were correct to refuse. When you're ready to accept a date, your intuition will give you the green light.

However, I'm a sucker for ice cream lol, sorry...
 
Surely there is a spectrum of relationships with gradations between "howdy neighbor, let's do lunch tomorrow" and "ooh la la?"

I understand that it is perfectly acceptable now to be "remotely" intimate on an exclusive basis without ever meeting. Some couples even expand on that by occasional meetings with or without the "ooh la la."

I had a friend where we had plain old telephone calls that could run an hour. We'd visit or go out to brunch or a show and on a birthday I might get quite a kiss. But things never went beyond that because it just wasn't in her plans to mess around or get married again or anything. That ended because I met somebody more serious about "long term" and she couldn't deal with my friend in the picture. Of course shortly after she latched onto somebody and then she was gone too.

This is just life, and it is part of how people live. None of us are saints.
 

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