Yes, (to Rosemarie's question) and especially if one makes repeated conscious efforts to purposefully notice, every good thing that one has left; don't many of us have some experience doing this, and find it is a great "tactic" ?
And I hope that each of you might remember to try it more, if you ever need to...
would you please do that?
(I dont know if what holly's mum said is true or not, but if you focus on doing it, then it can make you more grateful for smaller things that you might not have appreciated as much. I can still see enough; it's frustrating but it could be much worse, thank you both)