The more I try to be likable the worse things get. I've never really had many friends & still don't. I finally gave up trying. I would enjoy being likable but I am who I am. I don't even know wth people want from others anymore. No matter what a person does or says it's not right. After a while a person gets damn tired of trying to jump through everyone else's hoops to be whatever it is they need or want them to be. I choose to be myself. Not what others want. If they don't like me then so be it. I have become accustomed to hangin with myself. A lot less work.No not really,not putting people anywhere,just generalising I suppose,must admit though from some responses bit surprised that it does not bother or matter to many whether they have friends or not, or even liked come to that. Just my opinion but find that a bit sad,but as I said just my point view,and as the saying goes "Each to their own"