This is my opinion on this, not accepted by most on this forum.
First, the individual soul decides his life, based on many factors as karma he has earned
through out multiple lifetimes, his desires, his free will, and agrees to live out any earned
karmic debt, prior to being born on this earth. The soul chooses and knows right from wrong.
The cycle of creation, evolution and dissolution continues. Birth and death continues until
man reaches the value of enlightenment. (God consciousness)
Suffering is not given by God. Suffering is man-made. Suffering is not necessary.
Man's life should be lived in bliss. The absolute and the relative; all in complete happiness.
Man asks to be born on earth to grow towards God. When he becomes aware of
the blissfulness emanating from God, this is his only and supreme goal.
As man evolves, he develops his consciousness and gains strength to withstand anything.
He is eternal. In enlightenment, any problems raised would cease to be problems.
This consciousness brings steadiness and fulfillment to the mind; harmony in nature.
The love, the devotion, the reverence to God and the joy becomes deeper and more profound.
To say "God is responsible" is an ignorant deduction, for all things on earth are man's doing,
through thought and action, and will return to him through innumerable lifetimes.
God is absolute LOVE! Absolute bliss! God does not punish. God is love and light.