Blessed..anyone seen her

Blessed said:
I never did such a thing, I do not know what is going on. Can anyone tell me where I did something, I am so confused.
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I’m not yet convinced it’s about you per se. Perhaps in reality we, or rather you, might never know the reasons for Ruthanne’s recent posts or why she is leaving. If she has actually left, that is?

Unfortunately, if seems that on another thread over the past 24 hours or so, some have openly encouraged Ruthanne to use the dreaded ‘Ignore’ button. If I understand correctly she has already recently put you on ‘Ignore’. Or At least that is how I interpreted it at first from one of her posts? But even that's not entirley clear.

It’s frustrating when someone handles a situation in this way. Healthy communication requires open dialogue and clarity rather than hinting at something, and as a consequence leaving others completely confused. In these types of situations there is never an opportunity to get to the bottom of something that might have been just a simple misunderstand, and then to make amends. Pretty much impossible when the other person doesn’t want to talk about it; in public or in private.

Saying that, we also have to be sympathetic to Ruthanne’s situation.
 
Magna-Carta said:
One word communication? I'm sure you can do better than that.
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Fine. What, precisely, is her situation? We all have "situations," some dire, some confusing, some frustrating, some having to do with finances or the lack thereof, some having to do with family. Explain to me what makes hers special.

This thread started out to be an inquiry about Blessed. Ruthanne has made it all about herself.

@Blessed...I'm glad you've been "found."
 
Georgiagranny said:
Fine. What, precisely, is her situation? We all have "situations," some dire, some confusing, some frustrating, some having to do with finances or the lack thereof, some having to do with family. Explain to me what makes hers special.

This thread started out to be an inquiry about Blessed. Ruthanne has made it all about herself.

@Blessed...I'm glad you've been "found."
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Well my whole post was about the situation regarding Blessed not knowing or understanding the circumstances she know finds herself in. Sorry if I’ve caused confusion, but I thought my post was very clear.

Quote: Explain to me what makes hers special
What makes who special, when my post by far was in regards to Blessed's situation, and directly in responce to a question presented by Blessed?

Since you have asked me a direct question, I will ask you one. What did you mean by "Bye, Felicia" within this thread about Blessed? Was it in reference to your post #24 in the “Good bye yall” thread, that you have now introduced in to this thread?
 
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StarSong said:
"Bye, Felicia" is an updated version of "don't let the door hit you on your way out."
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Oh, now I see. Georgiagranny is asking me to find this on Google, in her reference to Ruthanne within this thread:

"Bye, Felicia is an informal phrase intended as a dismissive send-off, where the recipient is rendered so unimportant their name is reduced to Felicia."

If Georgiagranny is referring to me when she says she is now employing the ignore feature, based on me answering her question to me. I now feel really honoured.
 
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Magna-Carta said:
Oh, now I see. Georgiagranny is asking me to find this on Google, in her reference to Ruthanne within this thread:

"Bye, Felicia is an informal phrase intended as a dismissive send-off, where the recipient is rendered so unimportant their name is reduced to Felicia."

If Georgiagranny is referring to me when she says she is now employing the ignore feature. I know feel really honoured.
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It came from an American movie - this isn't the first time I've heard or read it. I think Ice Cube originally said it in the movie.
 
StarSong said:
It came from an American movie - this isn't the first time I've heard or read it. I think Ice Cube originally said it in the movie.
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Yes, just found that out too. I wasn't previously aware of it. What some really interesting characters we have on here. Seems that some have an expectation that I directly answer their questions, but they don't want to directly answer mine. Or in some cases, answer mine at all.

An interesting concept, in a discussion forum.
 
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I'm sorry you're leaving, Ruthie. I wish you the best.

Get it all in now, folks. A few days ago, NorthernLight posted a very nice goodbye to us all, thanking us and saying she enjoyed being here and enjoyed our posts, but it was time for her to go. She didn't offer an explanation, but there was nothing offensive or inappropriate about what she said, nor were any of the comments, and that thread was quickly deleted. As soon as the administrator sees this thread, it's also going to be deleted. Threads of this nature are frowned upon.

Often, people stop posting, and others wonder if something happened to them, so they ask about them in the open forum. Most of those threads are deleted, especially if the word "banned" is used when asking about them. When threads are deleted because someone asks about a member or members they haven't seen for a while, we're still left wondering what happened to them. Sometimes people announce they're leaving the forum, even without an explanation of why, at least that lets us know that they're gone by their own choice.

Whatever the case, it's unkind and completely unnecessary to make nasty comments, either way, to anyone.

Bella✌️
 
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