Bee, that says it all. What an exceptional man, an inspiration to us all. Hatred destroys from within, corroding one's humanity. Ultimately there is only one race, the human race. If we refuse to help the innocent, we too are monsters.
Bee, that was very touching, my heart goes out to him and his son, I hope they do okay after the loss of their loved one. Honestly, if that happened to my husband, I don't think I would be so understanding. I would probably want to kill them myself if possible. Hopefully I'll never have to know such pain, and won't ever have to react to such horror.