Can you really swim?

Everyone born in Los Angeles in its land of pools at least decades ago, knew how to swim at an early age. Then growing up, lived several years in the hot Sacramento area where likewise, all kids are in pools much of the summer. In my neighborhoods, every home with kids had those round plastic pools.

Have swam in many natural creeks, lakes, rivers, and the Pacific, Atlantic, and Gulf of Mexico oceans. Hey I lived in San Diego for a year as a HS freshman during the peak of the surfing craze. In my twenties, often body surfed in a wet suit in Santa Cruz until I decided I couldn't take its really cold water any more. Can still perform a nicely balanced swan dive from as much as about 10 feet. Above that never liked the skull concussion impacts but will jump off higher rocks into lakes. But most all of that was as a kid.

With a thin body without mass for float, I tend to sink more readily than others, so was never one that could swim long distances using a crawl stroke without strenuous effort. If necessary to go a longer distance given strong legs, I can tread water mixed with sidestrokes or backstrokes.

 

Can you swim? The best I can do is dog paddle for a few minutes. If I were on the Titanic, I would have never made it.

Yes, I can swim. I actually love to swim. However, in pools. I have a (largely) irrational dislike of the sea.

ps: It occured to me that there must be a name for my fear. So I looked it up, and it's "thalassophobia". Knowing this doesn't lessen the fear. Although I have a healthy dose of galeophobia too - even in waters that are perfectly safe. I don't want to be the first.
 

My problem is that I absolutely loathe cold water. The springs around here are gorgeous but they're a constant 72 degrees, which  sounds warm but is colder that a witch's you-know-what.

If I jump into cold water, I feel like my heart stopped. If I ease myself in, it feels like the Spanish Inquisition in slo-mo. Either way, I'm not having a good time.

I've gotten soft now that I have orange juice in my veins, instead of blood. When we moved to Central Florida in August of 1978, we swam in the ocean or the gulf or the springs every month of the year. Now? Nope, except in the dead of summer. A nice heated pool? Absolutely!
 
Yes. The Red Cross gave swimming lessons in the Great South Bay in my home town when I was a kid. The main problem was avoiding the jellyfish.

The Red Cross gave those lessons at Clearwater Beach back when I was a kid. I think they had 10 different stations that you were supposed to pass. I think I made it through station 7 and then quit. I quit a lot of things when I was young.
 
Came 'in handy' years later..
Met my..to be DH..at a singles swim party
Challenged to a swim-off..of course he won😉
Both our kids are swimmers
B...sprinter..'clean-up' guy
G...long-distance
Both swam on community summer team
And in HS
 
Came 'in handy' years later..
Met my..to be DH..at a singles swim party
Challenged to a swim-off..of course he won😉
Both our kids are swimmers
B...sprinter..'clean-up' guy
G...long-distance
Both swam on community summer team
And in HS
same with my daughter.She started in school with lessons, age around 6 years old... then at around 11 years old she took part in a charity swimathon , and swam 37 lengths of an olympic size pool...

In my mid 30's before I learned to swim, we were in Cyprus, and had gone on one of those banana type boats where at the end of the ride the captain of the speed boat flips you off into the ocean.. we told him not flip us because I couldn't swim... but he did.. and I remember just sinking like a stone.. that beautiful blue ocean was now a horrible murky brown muddy grave for me... and then I felt the arms of someone pull me up... it was my daughter, who'd swam like lightening aged just 15 ..to pull me out of the water.. and possible drowning

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My dad taught me to swim when I was around 8 or 9. I used to be able to swim back then but I forgot an important part of it about putting your face in the water then turning your head to the side. I don't understand that part anymore or how long to hold my breath.

So if anyone knows and wants to share I'll gladly listen 👂
When you turned your head to the side, Ruthanne, you were supposed to take a deep breath of air so that when your face went back into the water, you could hold your breath longer and make better and faster strides in the water.
 
Was a good swimmer. Did laps in our swimming pool for years.

…. then I fell hard on my left arm in the middle of a street in Downtown Houston, and dislocated, and maybe chipped the bone..
Hospital ER put me back together, but I never had full range motion of that arm again. ... doesn’t twirl fully around like needed for doing laps.
 
Not very darn well. In spite of numerous attempts at lessons I never got beyond a modified dog paddle. And then there is the floating problem…no body fat now or then…I like warm water and a floaty device..
 
Once when young and crazy, I swam to Quail island from Naval Point boat ramp, with an equally crazy mate. That's in Lyttelton harbour, New Zealand, up to 2 miles.
We did it on a Sunday morning with no plan, no back up and a whole lot of luck. We had a plastic bag with smokes and a lighter in a pocket.
We were freezing so we light a fire and burnt a car tyre which we found.
Nek minute...
The Coastguard turned up and gave us a bollocking.
 

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When you turned your head to the side, Ruthanne, you were supposed to take a deep breath of air so that when your face went back into the water, you could hold your breath longer and make better and faster strides in the water.
The key here is to 'exhale' when your face is in the water. Do this before you turn your head to get more air. This is where many get it wrong. If you don't empty your lungs, you will not be able to get more air when you breath... Good swimmers learn to do this effortlessly thus enabling them to swim as long as they want...
 


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