The curious thing that I find about Christmas is that an archetypal mood pervades: "It's Christmas, enjoy yourself!" Years ago, close friends that we knew, shared with us, that they were bereaved. On their behalf we let our social group know, but there were some for whom , well it would be unkind to say that they didn't care, but I would say that the pain of bereavement is so powerful that no matter what, Christmas or lottery win, celebrating is not on the agenda and those few, unkind or not, should be more considerate.
Thankfully we are not bereaved, but we will be going against the grain as usual. Christmas for us, is a loving time. My, our, best present, is and has always been, each other. We won't be spending hours in the kitchen amongst the pots and pans, we shall be seated at the table of a former railway station, now a country house hotel, where we will enjoy the cuisine, and each other's company. We have no children, all our parents have passed away, so we won't be gathered round a family table, but please, don't feel sad for us, our Christmas will be as enjoyable as everyone else.
And let me share a little Christmas surprise with you. My darling bride's carriage will be, Jessica, our classic MG. and we shall dress vintage style.....................is there any other?
