PeppermintPatty
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Could you go an entire week without complaining?
This mostly in my head. The only person who hears my comments is my DH. Or maybe folks on forums.In my head I complain very often, usually about the idiotic way people behave, and many times those silent complaints are aimed at myself.
Outloud I complain very little, complaining to others about this or that rarely accomplishes anything so why waste the oxygen.
Are they dogs?My biggest complaint is about how my pets behave all the time.
I know they are mostly bored and wanting attention. But
just give me a freaking break will you's !
What's "a cotton"?2 Cats and a Cotton. Yea they are outside a lot. They just want treats and attention all the time.
Or they are sleeping. Anytime a word is said they are around us immediately. The Cotton
loves to run alongside the UTV & will go off with any of our neighbors on one.
I’m sorry. I don’t know what a cotton is. I’ve had dogs, cats and bunnies. The bunnies had a big crate downstairs and an outdoor pen. The only reason we had a pen was to protect ( them ) from predators. The rabbits were always house trained. All of our dogs were house trained. None of them ever ran off. They have no reason to.2 Cats and a Cotton. Yea they are outside a lot. They just want treats and attention all the time.
Or they are sleeping. Anytime a word is said they are around us immediately. The Cotton
loves to run alongside the UTV & will go off with any of our neighbors on one.
My husband is a fixer. I have to keep this in mind when talking to himI do try to go at least one day without complaining.
I am one of those annoying people that try to fix rather than complain.
That is what I am talking about. I was unwell yesterday and they would not give me a break. Sometimes I don't want them sitting right on top of me. I know they know I don't feel well, their answer is to get even closer. I got rather cross with them last night.My biggest complaint is about how my pets behave all the time.
I know they are mostly bored and wanting attention. But
just give me a freaking break will you's !
My Husband (R.I.P.) was the exact opposite the house could fall apart and he wouldn't do a thing.My husband is a fixer. I have to keep this in mind when talking to him. He also is the fixer. I think most men are.
Maybe that’s why you became the fixer.My Husband (R.I.P.) was the exact opposite the house could fall apart and he wouldn't do a thing.![]()
Yes, for better or worse, I guess I'm a fixer. DW is quite lovable in a lot of ways, and definitely talented & accomplished. Yet she can worry like a champ (as she even says of herself), and that can lead to complaints. I always try to reply by suggesting what occurs to me as being helpful... dunno how often she gets something useful from that, but I know sometimes she does.My husband is a fixer. I have to keep this in mind when talking to him
. I think most men are.
I’d be completely lost without my husband.Yes, for better or worse, I guess I'm a fixer. DW is quite lovable in a lot of ways, and definitely talented & accomplished. Yet she can worry like a champ (as she even says of herself), and that can lead to complaints. I always try to reply by suggesting what occurs to me as being helpful... dunno how often she gets something useful from that, but I know sometimes she does.