Costlier too.I want assisted living so I have to do nothing but watch tv, read, play computer game, and see my kids. A perfect place for a dedicated couch potato like me!
Yes, but I don’t plan on living forever going out in style, my styleCostlier too.
Even the best of Assisted Living could hardly be considered going in style. At least for me. I'm not against AL, but it's certainly a ratcheted down, more closely controlled life with far less independence than living on one's own.Yes, but I don’t plan on living forever going out in style, my style
What do you mean when you say more closely controlled life?Even the best of Assisted Living could hardly be considered going in style. At least for me. I'm not against AL, but it's certainly a ratcheted down, more closely controlled life with far less independence than living on one's own.
Well, , we have the independence, now, to stay home. I have two adult children in group homes which is similar to assisted living only more controlled for their safety. We agree to disagree.Even the best of Assisted Living could hardly be considered going in style. At least for me. I'm not against AL, but it's certainly a ratcheted down, more closely controlled life with far less independence than living on one's own.
Most assisted living facilities were closed to non-essential visitors during this pandemic. So medical visitors were permitted, but not family members. Most are still greatly curtailing visitations and residents' group outings.What do you mean when you say more closely controlled life?
I see. For me it wouldn't be a big deal because I really don't go out much & don't have company over so it would likely work out for me. Plus I have no issue with staying in my room. LOLMost assisted living facilities were closed to non-essential visitors during this pandemic. So medical visitors were permitted, but not family members. Most are still greatly curtailing visitations and residents' group outings.
During contagious disease outbreaks, whether flu, norovirus, COVID-19, or other, until the threat is over residents must remain in their rooms unless escorted by a staff member. Containment can last days or weeks.
Except for memory care units, residents haven't been committed and are legally free to leave at any time. That said, the facility may not permit them to return until the threat is past.
It's not a life to aspire to unless living alone is no longer safe or manageable. In my three years of at least weekly visits with close relatives at a couple of very good ALs, I never met a single resident who was capable of living independently. All had either severe ambulatory issues or cognitive challenges.
I think we're actually in agreement. For a variety of reasons, ALs are more closely controlled than independent living.Well, , we have the independence, now, to stay home. I have two adult children in group homes which is similar to assisted living only more controlled for their safety. We agree to disagree.
Yes, of course, but so do my sons, or they did before the virus. They must wait for a staff member to have time to go with of course.I think we're actually in agreement. For a variety of reasons, ALs are more closely controlled than independent living.
Aneeda, we have the independence to stay home, that's true. We also have the freedom to mask up and go to grocery stores, pharmacies, Target, Walmart and whatever else is open, to walk our neighborhoods, go for a drive, to walk in a park, and so much more.
Actually, my totally disabled son“s second placement was exactly that. He was in an apartment and it had a call button, not to push but for him to yell at, as he did not have the ability to push a button. He would yell and they would call the staff that was in another another apartment.Aneeda when you say assisted living are you talking about apts where they live independently with a call button if they need paramedics?
This group, and many groups here, have residents live in regular apartments just like you or me. They are all disabled to various degrees and without funds usually. Everyone starts out in the least restrictive environment per the ADA.Ok those are different. They're considered assisted living but the people still have the freedom to come & go if they want to. They just have call buttons in the apts if they need help from EMS crews. I'm not sure they would let people come & go now with this virus. Usually those folks come in to dine with the ones that are in total care.
At some point we get to a place in life where we have no choice but to be taken care of. My parents don't want to go to the nursing home but I think mom would if she had to. She won't like it. I won't like it. But she would like living with me even less. LOL
Yeah, my mother would NEVER live with me. She would be afraid it’d do to her what she did to me.At some point we get to a place in life where we have no choice but to be taken care of. My parents don't want to go to the nursing home but I think mom would if she had to. She won't like it. I won't like it. But she would like living with me even less. LOL
Me & mine would spend our time fighting over me not making my bed. LOLYeah, my mother would NEVER live with me. She would be afraid it’d do to her what she did to me.