I am a Christian and make no bones about it. When I think of the traditional Christ child in the manger, He didn't have a bloody lump of lighted cheese to brighten His day or night. He had some straw and some sheep turds to contend with. Ergo, the holiday itself doesn't bother me at all. It's all the decoration crap that I find to be totally useless. I love the interaction with family, the food, even the arguments. But I can do without all the decoration crap which -- to me at least -- adds nothing to the holiday itself.My goodness, I'm an atheist and the holiday doesn't bother me as much as it bothers you! (Actually, it doesn't bother me at all.) Sorry you had a bad time of it. I'm not usually fond of "frilly crap" either but I think it's great that some people get enjoyment out of it; there's certainly worse things to enjoy.
Happy Holidays to everyone regardless!