JaniceM
Well-known Member
- Location
- still lost between two shores..
This is the figurative deep end that I'm going off of, I'm hoping to hear from others especially in the U.S.
While there are many reasons I'm not cut out for my current location, one is that it's impossible to get a straightforward answer from anyone on anything- it's either a brush-off, or individuals contradicting each other, or noncommital responses. The latter was the reply I received from an individual at a state agency, so I'm even more frustrated than I was before, plus very angry.
As an informal poll, please let me ask you this: wherever you happen to live, do you know with certainty what rights you would have, if any, to act if you were in either of these situations?:
Example #1: You're home alone late one night. An intruder gets into your home.
Example #2: You're out in a public place. No one else is in the area. A stranger comes up from behind you, jumps on you, and starts manhandling you.
Do you know what you have the right by law to do in these situations??
What I've been hearing the entire time I've been in this city: under no circumstances can you put your hands on another person to protect/defend yourself; if you do, you can be arrested, charged with assault, and taken to jail. Whether this is based on rumor or fact, it seems the entire population believes it is fact and acts accordingly- individuals are open to all kinds of criminal behaviors because of the belief that defending oneself in any way would result in getting hauled off to jail. The worst of it, though, is it's impossible to get an answer from anyone who should have the answer, it's either a noncommital shrug or they contradict each other. So I'm wondering if that's the case where you live, or do people actually know their rights?
While there are many reasons I'm not cut out for my current location, one is that it's impossible to get a straightforward answer from anyone on anything- it's either a brush-off, or individuals contradicting each other, or noncommital responses. The latter was the reply I received from an individual at a state agency, so I'm even more frustrated than I was before, plus very angry.
As an informal poll, please let me ask you this: wherever you happen to live, do you know with certainty what rights you would have, if any, to act if you were in either of these situations?:
Example #1: You're home alone late one night. An intruder gets into your home.
Example #2: You're out in a public place. No one else is in the area. A stranger comes up from behind you, jumps on you, and starts manhandling you.
Do you know what you have the right by law to do in these situations??
What I've been hearing the entire time I've been in this city: under no circumstances can you put your hands on another person to protect/defend yourself; if you do, you can be arrested, charged with assault, and taken to jail. Whether this is based on rumor or fact, it seems the entire population believes it is fact and acts accordingly- individuals are open to all kinds of criminal behaviors because of the belief that defending oneself in any way would result in getting hauled off to jail. The worst of it, though, is it's impossible to get an answer from anyone who should have the answer, it's either a noncommital shrug or they contradict each other. So I'm wondering if that's the case where you live, or do people actually know their rights?