I like flying, I fly often, probably 5 or 6 times a year. What I hate about the whole experience is the airport crush, and the hours waiting in line at the airport before boarding a plane where you're crushed into tiny seats..hate that with a passion..
I wish, just once I could afford to spoil myself flying business class...but I doubt I ever will..
Get yourself an airline credit card and everything that you now pay for by cash charge it to the airline card. Before you realize it, you will have enough miles accumulated to trade for an upgrade. Flying business or first gives one the true flight experience. When I first started flying, people that sat in business or first dressed very well. By that I mean, what they call "business casual" today or better. Some even wore suits. The ladies wore very nice pant suits or dresses. Today, with the free upgrades and people buying upgrades with their mileage that they have accrued, it is a totally different scene. Many people wear shorts, T-shirts, flip-flops and so on. We have come a long way.
I too like to experience driving rather than flying. Outside of my fear of flying I always try to make any trip a venture. When it was a requirement to do business travel I would try to take my wife along. We would take a few days prior to my schedule and a few days after. We would get the atlas out and lay out our route. We had purchased a couple books and magazines that listed interesting side trips to wherever we were going.
I had a class in Toronto so we traveled to Yellowstone, then Cody, Wy, then onto the Black Hills and Mt Rushmore. This was before the requirement for passports so we decided to go north of the Great Lakes in Canada. We saw Niagara Falls, the Good and Plenty in Lancaster Co. Pa and visited Boonesboro, Ky. Saw the Arch in St. Louis and returned using 6 days of my vacation time. And it was partially paid for by my company. My way of thinking any trip is more enjoyable when you have someone to help with the luggage and have a dinner partner. I wouldn't have seen any of that from the window seat at 30,000 feet.