Downsizing...how to do it?

RCynic

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New Market, Md
So, my wife and I have a very nice home but it is too large for us now and we also still owe on the mortgage. We both recently retired (both our jobs went away when we turned 65...odd thing that). But we were both fee up with "corporate America" by that point so we just made it permanent.

A few years ago though we paid cash for 5 acres, wooded with stream, and small 1/4 acre of pasture, with the thought of building in the future. It's a pretty piece of property, nice neighbors, backs up to parkland, already has a well.......

Anyway, now that we've started looking to sell and build something there, we realize we don't know how to do it. We thought that we'd build a small garage/apartment, sell our current home and then build our smaller home, keeping the apartment for a live in caretaker for some years down the road. We got a rude awakening on the cost of building in Maryland, so we can't do that. We don't want to move twice, I.E. sell our home, move out, rent while new home is being built then move again. We've moved twice in about 35 years. We both hate it.

Some of the costs in Maryland:
To build a house (this is not any kind of permit), $18,500 impact fee.
All new construction must have fire sprinkler system, minimum 5$/square foot
As of 01-01-13, all new septic systems must be Best Available Technology (BAT) and purchased from one of 6 state approved vendors...cost of septic system went from $6,000-$9,000 to $22,000-$27,000
insulation, minimum of R49 in ceilings and wall insulation has increased to the point that that much insualaton will not fit in a 2x4 wall, so minimum wall thickness now requires 2x6.

Ad naseum

So have any of you here faced a similar dilemma? We are not so sure what we're doing now. Sell everything and leave the state? But then we have multiple moves again. We're both 66, not a lot of energy for that type of thing. We wanted to do this once but it seems just ridiculous to us that a 1,900 sq ft house is going to cost us as much to build as we can sell our 23 year old, 3,800 sq ft all brick house. I hate this state.
 

RC, What about a mobile home? There are some really nice ones out there.

Zoning nixes that idea but we had thought of an RV, but that's a stretch with 4 cats for probably a year. There is something called RC (resource conservation) zoning that applies to our property as well. There are all kinds of restrictions of where, what and how you build (e.g., any slope greater than 25% can not be disturbed in any way, nothing man made on it or crossing it). Maryland loves to tell everyone how to live. We like the city of Frederick; if we could pick it up and move it to Virginia it would be perfect.

Oh, I forgot to mention, we have a rain tax too. If you generate too much impervious surface, like a house, or driveway, they try to make you pay out the nose. Frederick was required by the state to implement the tax, but they basically told Maryland to pound sand and told their citizens that every one would have to pay one penny per year. Frederick and five other western counties have a secession movement going cause they're so disgusted with this stupid state.
 

I have just worked out that my house is about 1200 sq ft.....very small by your standards, but big enough for two!

Or one with two cats...
 
We downsized two years ago as our property was large and too much for me to manage, since my husband's illness. We sold at the time of the recession so lost a lot of money on the property, but no matter we could well afford to buy our present home with which we are very pleased. The best thing about moving into a smaller home is having to get rid of all the stuff we have accumulated over the years. I am not sentimental about belongings and gave a lot of stuff away, which suited me fine.:)
 
RC,
Ten years ago, here in SE Pennsylvania, we 'down sized'... or perhaps better described as 'downed work' as previous home of 35 years built in 1810 required MUCH maintenance and tricky stairs. Also owned some land elsewhere... eleven wooded acres with a creek.

We had a modular home constructed. It's not a mobile...but is built in a factory and delivered. It's a Cape. 1200 sq.feet downstairs - 900 up which is unfinished, but could be completed by owners in the future. Like you, we also faced numerous obstacles, including required search for endangered bog turtles (or was it box turtles). Fortunately, none found.

It took about three years and much work to overcome the multiple 'restrictions' which we did ourselves ...and cash... for not only the house, but the foundation, furnace, air conditioner...sewer hook -up (septic not an option 'cause of the wetlands) etc. etc. Approximate total $150,000.

Now at our current ages of 83 and 79 we are comfortable in this location...with the two feral cats we adopted.

It ain't easy, but worth the effort. ~ Joyce
 
PA_grandma, thanks for the reply. I was engrossed in a good book and haven't been here for a bit. I envy you that you have achieved your goals. My wife and I were just discussing again earlier today whether there was a way we were going to be able to do this. We have been looking at something resembling a modular home. We are looking at the Northbrook red iron steel home kit from Kodiak Steel Homes.

Our lot is heavily wooded and we want as close to zero maintenance as we can get. The complete kit and erection of it is really not that bad. It's a bit more expensive than stick built but, given what we would be getting, it seems to me to be well worth it. We plan to have no landscaping beyond what is needed to clear a worksite. That means we would have large trees right up to the house. Kodiak Steel Homes are about the strongest thing available, short of monolithic dome homes. They are extremely strong, will not burn, require no painting, will not rot, mold, and are resistant to all types of pests.

So, it's just a matter of figuring out how to do this with the insufficient equity we have in this house without moving twice; we have to sell the house to pay for the new one. We have time so hopefully we'll figure it out. In the meantime we enjoy going for walks on the property.
 
Talk about downsizing and upsizing.
I owned a 5 bedroom 2 1/2 stories high colonial style house up in Mass,we retired to a double wide mobile home in Florida, THEN.
All my adult kids(3) followed us down to Florida,to make room for them until they got settled I brought a 3 bedroom,2 bath with pool.they all slept out in the glass-in patio.

Dont think Ill ever do that again.:D
 

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