Favorite Poems - Starting with Em's Three Favorites..

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William Ernest Henley - 1849-1903

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
 

Desiderata - Words for Life
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

— Max Ehrmann, 1927
 
My Dog is so Furry
I have not seen his face for years and years.
His eyes are buried out of sight.
I can only guess his ears.

When people ask me for his breed,
I do not know nor care
For he has the beauty of them all
Hidden beneath his hair

(Author unknown to me - I memorized this in elementary school!)
 

ms gamboolgal and I are not folks who read much poetry and literature.

ms gamboolgal and I lost our first born, and only son on 27-Oct-19. Jeff was 34 years old and went to sleep and did not wake up. Autopsy revealed he had 95% blocked arteries to his heart - but he was not aware and we were not either.
No Parent should ever bury a child. I would not wish that on anyone.

We found this poem in Jeff's room after he passed.
We do not know who the Author is or what the meaning of the poem is.
If anyone can offer up any thoughts on the meaning, or the author, or any information we would be most appreciative.

The Familiar

As if by chance
our familiar yet fleeting fallows
rustle the wan, wanting hours
Into something of a muse -
Its solace indulging in our scarlet
and dismal days - tarrying your news.

It is not a chance or one of itself
that this frigid, ragged despair
was meant for anyone but us
(and you are of us and of us you go).
Engaging in a fixed petulance
was your intent, your purpose -
as is well known.

By now, making it to be
Is not nearly as far as making it out
When the moon is tired we’ll never sleep -
basking in the crisp and gray, maybe -
Lying in another town on another ground
would, possibly, become rather obviously,
awfully, forgotten - brushed aside lightly
in the morning’s varying shades -
its dawning, yawning sincerity
of a rainy afternoon.

I would’t want that.
It is cold as misery , and of it, I’m sure.
The somnolent din vexed within -
the limited decadence edging my reserve.
One as plaintive, as grand as you
could neither now or never be indifferent to
The familiar - oblique as it may,
changes once for every name.

Author: Unknown
 
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The Passionate Shepherd to His Love
by Christopher Marlowe
1599
Come live with me and be my love,
And we will all the pleasures prove
That valleys, groves, hills, and fields
Woods or steepy mountain yields

And we will sit upon the rocks,
Seeing the shepherds feed their flocks
By shallow rivers to whose falls
Melodious birds sing madrigals.

And I will make thee beds of roses
And a thousand fragrant posies,
A cap of flower, and a kirtle
Embroidered all with leaves of myrtle;

A gown made of the finest wool
Which from our pretty lambs we pull;
Fair lined slippers for the cold
With buckles of the purest gold;

A belt of straw and ivy buds,
With coral clasps and amber studs;
And if these pleasures may thee move,
Come live with me and be my love.

The shepherds' swains shall dance and sing
For thy delight each May morning:
If these delights thy mind may move,
Then live with me and be my love.
 
A couple of Scottish poems... firstly, Robert Burns

O my Luve's like a red,red rose,
That's newly sprung in June:
O my Luve's like the melodie,
That's sweetly play'd in tune.

As fair art thou, my bonnie lass,
So deep in luve am I;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
Till a' the seas gang dry.

Till a' the seas gang dry, my dear,
And the rocks melt wi' the sun;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
While the sands o' life shall run.

And fare-thee-weel, my only Luve!
And fare-thee-weel, a while!
And I will come again, my Luve,
Tho' 'twere ten thousand mile!

And a more modern one by Iiz Lochhead

it wis January
and a gey dreich day
the first day Ah went to the school
so my Mum happed me up in ma
good navy-blue napp coat wi the rid tartan hood
birled a scarf aroon ma neck
pu'ed oan ma pixie an' my pawkies
it wis that bitter
said noo ye'll no starve
gie'd me a wee kiss and a kid-oan skelp oan the bum
and sent me aff across the playground
tae the place Ah'd learn to say

it was January
and a really dismal day
the first day I went to school
so my mother wrapped me up in my
best navy-blue top coat with the red tartan hood,
twirled a scarf around my neck,
pulled on my bobble-hat and mittens
it was so bitterly cold
said now you won't freeze to death
gave me a little kiss and a pretend slap on the bottom
to the place I'd learn to forget to say

it wis January
and a gey dreich day
the first day Ah went to the school
so my Mum happed me up in ma
good navy-blue napp coat wi the rid tartan hood,
birled a scarf aroon ma neck,
pu'ed oan ma pixie an' ma pawkies
it wis that bitter.

Oh saying it was one thing
but when it came to writing it
in black and white
the way it had to be said
was as if you were posh, grown-up, male, English and dead.

Finally, my favourite poet, John Betjeman. Slough is an English town that had suffered rapid expansion with poor, cramped housing.

Slough
Come friendly bombs and fall on Slough!
It isn't fit for humans now,
There isn't grass to graze a cow.
Swarm over, Death!

Come, bombs and blow to smithereens
Those air -conditioned, bright canteens,
Tinned fruit, tinned meat, tinned milk, tinned beans,
Tinned minds, tinned breath.

Mess up the mess they call a town-
A house for ninety-seven down
And once a week a half a crown
For twenty years.

And get that man with double chin
Who'll always cheat and always win,
Who washes his repulsive skin
In women's tears:

And smash his desk of polished oak
And smash his hands so used to stroke
And stop his boring dirty joke
And make him yell.

But spare the bald young clerks who add
The profits of the stinking cad;
It's not their fault that they are mad,
They've tasted Hell.

It's not their fault they do not know
The birdsong from the radio,
It's not their fault they often go
To Maidenhead

And talk of sport and makes of cars
In various bogus-Tudor bars
And daren't look up and see the stars
But belch instead.

In labour-saving homes, with care
Their wives frizz out peroxide hair
And dry it in synthetic air
And paint their nails.

Come, friendly bombs and fall on Slough
To get it ready for the plough.
The cabbages are coming now;
The earth exhales.
 
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ms gamboolgal and I are not folks who read much poetry and literature.

ms gamboolgal and I lost our first born, and only son on 27-Oct-19. Jeff was 34 years old and went to sleep and did not wake up. Autopsy revealed he had 95% blocked arteries to his heart - but he was not aware and we were not either.
No Parent should ever bury a child. I would not wish that on anyone.

We found this poem in Jeff's room after he passed.
We do not know who the Author is or what the meaning of the poem is.
If anyone can offer up any thoughts on the meaning, or the author, or any information we would be most appreciative.

The Familiar

As if by chance
our familiar yet fleeting fallows
rustle the wan, wanting hours
Into something of a muse -
Its solace indulging in our scarlet
and dismal days - tarrying your news.

It is not a chance or one of itself
that this frigid, ragged despair
was meant for anyone but us
(and you are of us and of us you go).
Engaging in a fixed petulance
was your intent, your purpose -
as is well known.

By now, making it to be
Is not nearly as far as making it out
When the moon is tired we’ll never sleep -
basking in the crisp and gray, maybe -
Lying in another town on another ground
would, possibly, become rather obviously,
awfully, forgotten - brushed aside lightly
in the morning’s varying shades -
its dawning, yawning sincerity
of a rainy afternoon.

I would’t want that.
It is cold as misery , and of it, I’m sure.
The somnolent din vexed within -
the limited decadence edging my reserve.
One as plaintive, as grand as you
could neither now or never be indifferent to
The familiar - oblique as it may,
changes once for every name.

Author: Unknown
ms gamboolgal and I are not folks who read much poetry and literature.

ms gamboolgal and I lost our first born, and only son on 27-Oct-19. Jeff was 34 years old and went to sleep and did not wake up. Autopsy revealed he had 95% blocked arteries to his heart - but he was not aware and we were not either.
No Parent should ever bury a child. I would not wish that on anyone.

We found this poem in Jeff's room after he passed.
We do not know who the Author is or what the meaning of the poem is.
If anyone can offer up any thoughts on the meaning, or the author, or any information we would be most appreciative.

The Familiar

As if by chance
our familiar yet fleeting fallows
rustle the wan, wanting hours
Into something of a muse -
Its solace indulging in our scarlet
and dismal days - tarrying your news.

It is not a chance or one of itself
that this frigid, ragged despair
was meant for anyone but us
(and you are of us and of us you go).
Engaging in a fixed petulance
was your intent, your purpose -
as is well known.

By now, making it to be
Is not nearly as far as making it out
When the moon is tired we’ll never sleep -
basking in the crisp and gray, maybe -
Lying in another town on another ground
would, possibly, become rather obviously,
awfully, forgotten - brushed aside lightly
in the morning’s varying shades -
its dawning, yawning sincerity
of a rainy afternoon.

I would’t want that.
It is cold as misery , and of it, I’m sure.
The somnolent din vexed within -
the limited decadence edging my reserve.
One as plaintive, as grand as you
could neither now or never be indifferent to
The familiar - oblique as it may,
changes once for every name.

Author: Unknown
I also lost my only son at age 30. His circumstances were much different, but our pain is the same.
Was this poem printed, typed, or hand-written? My early research failed - It may well be a translation. You mention Nigeria, so I will try to see if perhaps the poem has its roots there. It is challenging, with dark imagery - open to interpretation (I thought of wind and war)- I hope others might be better able to provide information.
 
A couple of Scottish poems... firstly, Robert Burns

O my Luve's like a red,red rose,
That's newly sprung in June:
O my Luve's like the melodie,
That's sweetly play'd in tune.

As fair art thou, my bonnie lass,
So deep in luve am I;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
Till a' the seas gang dry.

Till a' the seas gang dry, my dear,
And the rocks melt wi' the sun;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
While the sands o' life shall run.

And fare-thee-weel, my only Luve!
And fare-thee-weel, a while!
And I will come again, my Luve,
Tho' 'twere ten thousand mile!

And a more modern one by Iiz Lochhead

it wis January
and a gey dreich day
the first day Ah went to the school
so my Mum happed me up in ma
good navy-blue napp coat wi the rid tartan hood
birled a scarf aroon ma neck
pu'ed oan ma pixie an' my pawkies
it wis that bitter
said noo ye'll no starve
gie'd me a wee kiss and a kid-oan skelp oan the bum
and sent me aff across the playground
tae the place Ah'd learn to say

it was January
and a really dismal day
the first day I went to school
so my mother wrapped me up in my
best navy-blue top coat with the red tartan hood,
twirled a scarf around my neck,
pulled on my bobble-hat and mittens
it was so bitterly cold
said now you won't freeze to death
gave me a little kiss and a pretend slap on the bottom
to the place I'd learn to forget to say

it wis January
and a gey dreich day
the first day Ah went to the school
so my Mum happed me up in ma
good navy-blue napp coat wi the rid tartan hood,
birled a scarf aroon ma neck,
pu'ed oan ma pixie an' ma pawkies
it wis that bitter.

Oh saying it was one thing
but when it came to writing it
in black and white
the way it had to be said
was as if you were posh, grown-up, male, English and dead.

Finally, my favourite poet, John Betjeman. Slough is an English town that had suffered rapid expansion with poor, cramped housing.

Slough
Come friendly bombs and fall on Slough!
It isn't fit for humans now,
There isn't grass to graze a cow.
Swarm over, Death!

Come, bombs and blow to smithereens
Those air -conditioned, bright canteens,
Tinned fruit, tinned meat, tinned milk, tinned beans,
Tinned minds, tinned breath.

Mess up the mess they call a town-
A house for ninety-seven down
And once a week a half a crown
For twenty years.

And get that man with double chin
Who'll always cheat and always win,
Who washes his repulsive skin
In women's tears:

And smash his desk of polished oak
And smash his hands so used to stroke
And stop his boring dirty joke
And make him yell.

But spare the bald young clerks who add
The profits of the stinking cad;
It's not their fault that they are mad,
They've tasted Hell.

It's not their fault they do not know
The birdsong from the radio,
It's not their fault they often go
To Maidenhead

And talk of sport and makes of cars
In various bogus-Tudor bars
And daren't look up and see the stars
But belch instead.

In labour-saving homes, with care
Their wives frizz out peroxide hair
And dry it in synthetic air
And paint their nails.

Come, friendly bombs and fall on Slough
To get it ready for the plough.
The cabbages are coming now;
The earth exhales.
What a fascinating collection! Thanks for keeping them alive.
 
The Passionate Shepherd to His Love
by Christopher Marlowe
1599
Come live with me and be my love,
And we will all the pleasures prove
That valleys, groves, hills, and fields
Woods or steepy mountain yields

And we will sit upon the rocks,
Seeing the shepherds feed their flocks
By shallow rivers to whose falls
Melodious birds sing madrigals.

And I will make thee beds of roses
And a thousand fragrant posies,
A cap of flower, and a kirtle
Embroidered all with leaves of myrtle;

A gown made of the finest wool
Which from our pretty lambs we pull;
Fair lined slippers for the cold
With buckles of the purest gold;

A belt of straw and ivy buds,
With coral clasps and amber studs;
And if these pleasures may thee move,
Come live with me and be my love.

The shepherds' swains shall dance and sing
For thy delight each May morning:
If these delights thy mind may move,
Then live with me and be my love.
Lucky the person who is so adored.
 
ms gamboolgal and I are not folks who read much poetry and literature.

ms gamboolgal and I lost our first born, and only son on 27-Oct-19. Jeff was 34 years old and went to sleep and did not wake up. Autopsy revealed he had 95% blocked arteries to his heart - but he was not aware and we were not either.
No Parent should ever bury a child. I would not wish that on anyone.

We found this poem in Jeff's room after he passed.
We do not know who the Author is or what the meaning of the poem is.
If anyone can offer up any thoughts on the meaning, or the author, or any information we would be most appreciative.

The Familiar

As if by chance
our familiar yet fleeting fallows
rustle the wan, wanting hours
Into something of a muse -
Its solace indulging in our scarlet
and dismal days - tarrying your news.

It is not a chance or one of itself
that this frigid, ragged despair
was meant for anyone but us
(and you are of us and of us you go).
Engaging in a fixed petulance
was your intent, your purpose -
as is well known.

By now, making it to be
Is not nearly as far as making it out
When the moon is tired we’ll never sleep -
basking in the crisp and gray, maybe -
Lying in another town on another ground
would, possibly, become rather obviously,
awfully, forgotten - brushed aside lightly
in the morning’s varying shades -
its dawning, yawning sincerity
of a rainy afternoon.

I would’t want that.
It is cold as misery , and of it, I’m sure.
The somnolent din vexed within -
the limited decadence edging my reserve.
One as plaintive, as grand as you
could neither now or never be indifferent to
The familiar - oblique as it may,
changes once for every name.

Author: Unknown
I'm starting to think that this author is truly unknown - ran various searches on poetry sites and ran plagiarism checks - nothing came up, which makes me sad. From personal experience, I know that a lot of the poems that I wrote decades ago have lost meaning when re-read decades later - and I have to wonder where my head was, way back then. If you have your son's computer, you might want to check his search history and saved downloads for clues. In the meantime, I will just try to analyze wording and my impressions. It was obviously something meaningful to your son - I would keep it.
 
Empty,
Thank you for your engagement to assist and your thoughts on meaning of the poem.

Unfortunately, we both know the pain, emptiness and soul wrenching pain of losing a child - indescribable and I am unable to express the pain.

I think that now, after losing Jeff, that reading the poem he had in his room and trying to understand the meaning - would make Jeff happy.

We do not know anything about the poem. It was just in a little plexiglass holder and no other information was on the paper.

I transcribed it to the computer and used the exact Punctuation, capitalization or lack of to reproduce it exactly as it was wrote on the paper.

Again, thank you for your your help. Any other idea's or thoughts as to the meaning are and will be most appreciated.

ms gamboolgal and I will read the poem over and over - with a glass of whiskey and will go deep into the memories. That in itself is healing and would please Jeff.

It would please him also that I am now reading and contemplating poetry and life - at age 60 after working in the oilpatch since I was 18 year old.

Lifes A Dance And You Learn As You Go....

gamboolman.....
 
How do I Love Thee

How Do I Love Thee
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.


Elizabeth Barrett Browning (My favorite)
 
Empty,
Thank you for your engagement to assist and your thoughts on meaning of the poem.

Unfortunately, we both know the pain, emptiness and soul wrenching pain of losing a child - indescribable and I am unable to express the pain.

I think that now, after losing Jeff, that reading the poem he had in his room and trying to understand the meaning - would make Jeff happy.

We do not know anything about the poem. It was just in a little plexiglass holder and no other information was on the paper.

I transcribed it to the computer and used the exact Punctuation, capitalization or lack of to reproduce it exactly as it was wrote on the paper.

Again, thank you for your your help. Any other idea's or thoughts as to the meaning are and will be most appreciated.

ms gamboolgal and I will read the poem over and over - with a glass of whiskey and will go deep into the memories. That in itself is healing and would please Jeff.

It would please him also that I am now reading and contemplating poetry and life - at age 60 after working in the oilpatch since I was 18 year old.

Lifes A Dance And You Learn As You Go....

gamboolman.....
If it was in plexiglass, it must have been truly important to Jeff. If you could tell me more about him in a private conversation, it might help narrow down the search. What jobs did he have, was he ever in the military, what other interests did he have, etc. Did he speak any other languages? There is also the possibility that he wrote this...I will keep checking around different sites.
 
How do I Love Thee

How Do I Love Thee
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.



Elizabeth Barrett Browning (My favorite)
This gave me goosebumps. I suppose this is what I always sought - what we all seek. Thanks for sharing this.
 
A poem about children with hidden disabilities,

by Kathy Winters.

I am the child that looks healthy and fine.
I was born with ten fingers and toes.
But something is different, somewhere in my mind,
And what it is, nobody knows.

I am the child that struggles in school,
Though they say that I'm perfectly smart.
They tell me I'm lazy -- can learn if I try --
But I don't seem to know where to start.

I am the child that won't wear the clothes
Which hurt me or bother my feet.
I dread sudden noises, can't handle most smells,
And tastes -- there are few foods I'll eat.

I am the child that can't catch the ball
And runs with an awkward gait.
I am the one chosen last on the team
And I cringe as I stand there and wait.

I am the child with whom no one will play --
The one that gets bullied and teased.
I try to fit in and I want to be liked,
But nothing I do seems to please.

I am the child that tantrums and freaks
Over things that seem petty and trite.
You'll never know how I panic inside,
When I'm lost in my anger and fright.

I am the child that fidgets and squirms
Though I'm told to sit still and be good.
Do you think that I choose to be out of control?
Don't you know that I would if I could?

I am the child with the broken heart
Though I act like I don't really care.
Perhaps there's a reason God made me this way --
Some message he sent me to share.

For I am the child that needs to be loved
And accepted and valued too.
I am the child that is misunderstood.
I am different - but look just like you.
 


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