Having left school at 15yrs and always worked "never claimed a penny off the verious handouts or ever been unemployed"
Ive always tried to give 100% in every job ive ever had
Its a generation thing really, the time i was born 1949 and the way kids grew up in those days, I was born in a slum area of Liverpool but thought nothing of living near the docks "hence Hitler felt the same" He bombed our area offten and it's thanks to "HITLER's bombs" we lived in the only semi detached house in our street "my dad was very proud of this fact and offten told me to tell the teacher we lived in a semi detached rented house with pink wall paper outside the walls.
We had lots of friends in the street to play with and everyone was known from door to door,
We had a shared toilet (shared with five families and bring your own loo paper) No bathroom, no centrial heating and no electric to the upper part of the three bedroomed house and you had a good idea when the winter cold was about as it was on the insides of the window glass for us to draw on.
But i had a great childhood and never expected anything for nothing you won /worked or if you we're lucky you'd have been born with the silver spoon brigade.
And so it was always a gift if your body was of a healthy state and at least you could do manual work if nothing else.
Now bearing this introduction in mind i hope you'll understand life from my own generation was nothing like todays generation who it seem's expect to have a lot now and pay later and with as much for free as possible.
Both myself and my wife worked for verious companies and as i said we gave 100% but a lot of the time when it came to getting rewarded for your efforts it seemed a case of being over looked, ie i was on many occasion expected to show or train verious people to do the job and then they'd be my boss with the extra wage etc,
I found three types of people in the work place, (a) the person who when asked to do such & such a thing! they'd want to stand on a box and tell the world the boss has asked me to do this or that extra!!!! The boss might as well do it himself it would be a lot quicker.
Or (b) The "Why me" sort ie when asked to do that little extra !!!!!!!!!! why me why dont you get him or her to do it.
And (c) the person who at the end of their days work is asked to do that little bit extra, he/she has no problem with these little extra's and the job gets done without fuss.
Now a question for you, Of the three types of worker which one gets the promotion ????
(a the stand on a box type?) (b the "WHY ME") Or (c the person who gets on with no fuss and the jobs done ?)
Well i found time and time again i was the (c) type, had little to say and got on with the job and no way was the boss going to loose me or promote me and so hence i like many a worker of this "c" type was over looked time and time again until i decided enough was enough and i worked for myself,
After 11 years of long hours and building my own company up it was starting to show on my health,
Oh i didnt see it this way afterall we now had a good company name, money coming in But i nearly made the big mistake a lot of people make,
I'd for gotten about lifes clock,
Time, its the one thing we all have in common but how much of lifes time clock each of us have isn't really known until your times up and its a bit to late then to do anything about it.
This is the start of why we came to france.
It was august time and my wife was talking about my 7 day week and the 16 hour days and call out anytime inbetween the work load i'd created.
I gave my word if she booked a holiday and gave me notice of the date well in advance i'd take a few weeks off and leave the mobile in the office and spend time doing other things and not work.
It made her very happy and i noticed a smile on her face i'd nearly forgotten about.
I had a contract with MARKS AND SPENCER at the time and they had arranged for a big revamp and it was my job to provide the man power and kit to keep the job going, keep the floor area's clear and safe 24hrs per day for two weeks while this revamp took its cause,
I had the advance times for the holiday in my diary and then M&S BROUGHT The revamp forward by two weeks, the same time as the holiday!!!!!
I'd decided to tell my wife to take her sister and enjoy france I just couldnt walk away from such a big job.
Two days before the holiday was to take place by chance one of the lads who worked for m&s asked how i felt about the dates being changed again to 6 weeks later than the first dates,
You could have knocked me over with a feather, not a word had been passed on to me ref these date changes
The stress factor was creaping in but i couldnt see it (just another head ache just a few more head ache pills and i'd be ok ????)
We left in our car to get the ferry to France, dordogne area.
It was a nice gite hired and it was so peacefull, we enjoyed walks nice meals out and our first brocante,
I remember walking around this lake we'd found along a track and you could see the fish swimming about
And of a night we heard the owl and in the morning the dawn chorus of birds all singing away But more important was it was three days into the holiday and i'd not heard a phone or taken any head ache pills,
This was the turning point for me !!! i'd seen the light and we decided then life had a lot more to offer than living to work.
We enjoyed that holiday like no other and it was from then on we both took a great interest in france and what it had to offer ref houses/the cost of living and the internet played its part in us searching on a regular basis as to what we could buy with the money we had and how to go about buying our first french property.
Tomorrow i'll let you know what we found and the way to buying french homes as to buying english homes and what we bought.
Ive always tried to give 100% in every job ive ever had
Its a generation thing really, the time i was born 1949 and the way kids grew up in those days, I was born in a slum area of Liverpool but thought nothing of living near the docks "hence Hitler felt the same" He bombed our area offten and it's thanks to "HITLER's bombs" we lived in the only semi detached house in our street "my dad was very proud of this fact and offten told me to tell the teacher we lived in a semi detached rented house with pink wall paper outside the walls.
We had lots of friends in the street to play with and everyone was known from door to door,
We had a shared toilet (shared with five families and bring your own loo paper) No bathroom, no centrial heating and no electric to the upper part of the three bedroomed house and you had a good idea when the winter cold was about as it was on the insides of the window glass for us to draw on.
But i had a great childhood and never expected anything for nothing you won /worked or if you we're lucky you'd have been born with the silver spoon brigade.
And so it was always a gift if your body was of a healthy state and at least you could do manual work if nothing else.
Now bearing this introduction in mind i hope you'll understand life from my own generation was nothing like todays generation who it seem's expect to have a lot now and pay later and with as much for free as possible.
Both myself and my wife worked for verious companies and as i said we gave 100% but a lot of the time when it came to getting rewarded for your efforts it seemed a case of being over looked, ie i was on many occasion expected to show or train verious people to do the job and then they'd be my boss with the extra wage etc,
I found three types of people in the work place, (a) the person who when asked to do such & such a thing! they'd want to stand on a box and tell the world the boss has asked me to do this or that extra!!!! The boss might as well do it himself it would be a lot quicker.
Or (b) The "Why me" sort ie when asked to do that little extra !!!!!!!!!! why me why dont you get him or her to do it.
And (c) the person who at the end of their days work is asked to do that little bit extra, he/she has no problem with these little extra's and the job gets done without fuss.
Now a question for you, Of the three types of worker which one gets the promotion ????
(a the stand on a box type?) (b the "WHY ME") Or (c the person who gets on with no fuss and the jobs done ?)
Well i found time and time again i was the (c) type, had little to say and got on with the job and no way was the boss going to loose me or promote me and so hence i like many a worker of this "c" type was over looked time and time again until i decided enough was enough and i worked for myself,
After 11 years of long hours and building my own company up it was starting to show on my health,
Oh i didnt see it this way afterall we now had a good company name, money coming in But i nearly made the big mistake a lot of people make,
I'd for gotten about lifes clock,
Time, its the one thing we all have in common but how much of lifes time clock each of us have isn't really known until your times up and its a bit to late then to do anything about it.
This is the start of why we came to france.
It was august time and my wife was talking about my 7 day week and the 16 hour days and call out anytime inbetween the work load i'd created.
I gave my word if she booked a holiday and gave me notice of the date well in advance i'd take a few weeks off and leave the mobile in the office and spend time doing other things and not work.
It made her very happy and i noticed a smile on her face i'd nearly forgotten about.
I had a contract with MARKS AND SPENCER at the time and they had arranged for a big revamp and it was my job to provide the man power and kit to keep the job going, keep the floor area's clear and safe 24hrs per day for two weeks while this revamp took its cause,
I had the advance times for the holiday in my diary and then M&S BROUGHT The revamp forward by two weeks, the same time as the holiday!!!!!
I'd decided to tell my wife to take her sister and enjoy france I just couldnt walk away from such a big job.
Two days before the holiday was to take place by chance one of the lads who worked for m&s asked how i felt about the dates being changed again to 6 weeks later than the first dates,
You could have knocked me over with a feather, not a word had been passed on to me ref these date changes
The stress factor was creaping in but i couldnt see it (just another head ache just a few more head ache pills and i'd be ok ????)
We left in our car to get the ferry to France, dordogne area.
It was a nice gite hired and it was so peacefull, we enjoyed walks nice meals out and our first brocante,
I remember walking around this lake we'd found along a track and you could see the fish swimming about
And of a night we heard the owl and in the morning the dawn chorus of birds all singing away But more important was it was three days into the holiday and i'd not heard a phone or taken any head ache pills,
This was the turning point for me !!! i'd seen the light and we decided then life had a lot more to offer than living to work.
We enjoyed that holiday like no other and it was from then on we both took a great interest in france and what it had to offer ref houses/the cost of living and the internet played its part in us searching on a regular basis as to what we could buy with the money we had and how to go about buying our first french property.
Tomorrow i'll let you know what we found and the way to buying french homes as to buying english homes and what we bought.