Funny the way the mind works first love !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

whisteria

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Good morning all,
Ive just been reading my daily bible (senior forms) and it came to me that i can remember times way back such as most of my teachers names and the kids i played with from an infant,
Yet some folk i worked with for years i just can't always get their names to the front of my memory and yet these people are the latest i once met.

But im sure all will agree you never forget your first love???? Even if you we're only 5 and she had plenty of sweets (candy).

Do you remember your first love and why the goggs turned in your mind ref that "love"????:love_heart::love_heart::love_heart::love_heart::love_heart:
 

I understand your memory of things long gone and lack of memory of more recent events..

When we were young our minds were relatively empty caverns LOL..there was more storage room so we were able to retain memory more than now..well that's my theory anyway. But first puppy love?...Nope I can't remember his name...
 
I remember the feeling of desolation when my first best friend moved away and we were parted.
I remember my first feeling of maternal love was triggered by a frog that I was holding in my hand. I was feeling ever so protective towards it.
I remember my unspoken love for the boy across the street who was also my best mate that I looked up to. He was my hero.
 

Patricia Hagerty, a little freckle faced redheaded Irish girl in eighth grade. I was way too shy to even talk to her though.
I haven't researched this, but from what I've heard, your long term memory supposedly does get better while your short term gets worse.
 
First crush: David McCarthy. Third grade. He tripped me on the ice and I split my lip. So it must have been love.;) Still have the scar (on my lip).
 
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The boy next door. He came to me the night before my wedding and begged me to marry him instead.
 
My first proper girl friend was a girl i couldnt understand why she'd want me as her boy friend,
She did most of the talking and i was so privileged just holding her hand as we walked around the council estate,

She once asked me to go to sunday dinner with her at her grand mothers house ( a bus ride away from our estate) I paid the bus fare and when we got to her grans street, i was told i wont be long you wait here,

I sat on a wall by the bus stop and after two hours the people who's wall i was sitting on came out and asked if everything was ok.
just then the girl friend appeared and we got the next bus back to our estate and as we got off the bus she said i'll see you on friday "its my birthday on friday" and i just love the hollies (a manchester 1960's pop group) have you heard their new LP ,? "hint taken"

I bought the LP AT THE TIME IT COST ME 12:6PENCE in old money and it was a big chunk out of my paper round money.
Friday arrived and i gave her the LP & a card, she was made up,

As 9PM arrived she asked me if i was taking her to the circus (it came to our centrial park once a year)
I told her i couldnt as i had no money left.
Oh ok she said , im thinking of staying in on saturday night so i'll see you on monday by the phone box at 7pm.

On the sunday one of my mates asked why i didnt go to the circus, i explained ref no money and he said "the girl friend of mine was with one of my mates holding hands and kissing,

I finished with her from then on.

My best mate was full of sorry and after 6 weeks he also finished with her (the day after her birthday "I thought only the Queen had two birthdays" he said she was always wanting him to pay for everything and kept him away from meeting her folks.

It broke my heart to say to one of my mates we we're finished "I didnt really mean it at the time but i was hurt and stupid and felt that this is what i should say "a mans thing even at 15yrs and still at school.
Arhhhhhhh Life in your teens when you thought you knew everything about life.
 
I remember my first love. We stared dating at 14yrs old. He even took my to my 8th grade graduation dance. After a very nice year while visiting a friend from school I met one of her friends. I fell in love with him at first site and by the end of the night he broke up with his girlfriend and I broke up with my boyfriend. 5 years later we married.
 
My very first love was a young italian boy. Nino Marotti. We were in our beginning teens. He barely knew I existed! :D I, on the other hand, was going to marry him, just as soon as he noticed me so we could start dating! ;)

My first real boyfriend was Dominic. He was very cool......until he wasn't anymore. Took about three months for me to start finding him annoying. I remember him coming by the house one time, and I told my Dad that he was annoying me, and my Dad went outside and talked to him. I don't know what was said, but he never came around again!!!
 
my first love was in the second grade, she was so cut and I was twit-a-pated, for months we ate together and talked and played....then one day she came to school with a dirty face and it all ended.
 


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