Thank you for all the kind responses. I hope some one will join me in my trip to getting slim. If not-I'm doing it anyway.
This is my "THE PLAN": To stop eating "bad/fattening" foods at night & still go to bed with a comfy full feeling so I can sleep, to still be able to eat many foods I like, cut WAY DOWN on nut butters & sweets (Reeses, pies, cake, donuts - almost 0!) & not count calories - so I am changing the TIMES I eat whatever.
BREAKFASTS: Whatever I want such as sandwich/cheeseburger, pasta & veggies, chili & crackers,fried chicken & potatoes, nachoes....etc.
LUNCHES: Finger foods such as small homemade oatmeal bars, hard boiled eggs, an assortment of things such as a fruit, olives, pickled okra, red bell pepper chunks, long green beans, .....etc.
DINNERS: Meat and frozen green veggies, such as fish/poultry with broccoli, asparagus, spinach, brussels. I am going to prepare several dinners today-stuff ziplock bags with meat & green veggies & put them in the freezer so dinner will be ready when I come home from work to grab a bag & heat in the microwave fast.
Friday night- wine with my meat & green veggies.
Saturday & sunday dinners will be meat & a large green salad.
EXERCISE: For now, to start, wednesday,thursday,friday mornings- 15 minutes- different everyday, such as dance one day, pilates the next day, strength bands the next day...etc. Saturday-30 minutes, sunday a full hour.
Don't know if my THE PLAN will work.....going shopping today for everything - foods, bands, pilates book, etc..